I'm ignoring my sag man

So I loaned my sag man some money and I've yet to see it I'm getting the run around. I NEEDED that money. When he needs anything I gave it. I gave him food when he was hungry, money without expecting it back this last time, I've picked him up when he needs rides, I've given him MY PAIN meds when he was in pain for my scoliosis. (Minor but still) I'm a leo woman and my loyalty runs deep. I'm very upset with him rn and I blocked his number for the time being. Until I calm down. Relax take a chill pill. I don't need the money now but I just feel betrayed when he needed me I was there anytime anyplace he could fallback on me. And he let me down. How to sag react to being ignored?

Take yourself up on that chill pill and take a deep breath...

First off you need to tell us some more about how long it has been since you lend him the money, you know a bit of background to the story.

Second, leos never give anything without wanting anything in return...there is always something dear. It could be as simple and tiny as a compliment/appreciation, but its always something

Anytime you loan someone money you have to assume they aren't going to pay it back (even if they are saying they will). If that will hurt you, don't loan the money.

My Leo mom also tends to let the men in her life use her. But she'll be so deep in her feels she won't see them as the leeches they are. Smh.

Posted by SMC
Take yourself up on that chill pill and take a deep breath...

First off you need to tell us some more about how long it has been since you lend him the money, you know a bit of background to the story.

Second, leos never give anything without wanting anything in return...there is always something dear. It could be as simple and tiny as a compliment/appreciation, but its always something

We are fwb .... I gave it too him 3 weeks ago., he said I'd give it back. I have yet to get it back. I didn't give it too him , for something I gave it to him because HE NEEDED IT. My loyalty like I said runs deep. ): he was a friend in need. His parents he doesn't really speak too he has no family they aren't close. That bothers me when people have no one else to fall back on. So I wanted to help. I don't have much so I give what I can.

Posted by LadyNeptune
Anytime you loan someone money you have to assume they aren't going to pay it back (even if they are saying they will). If that will hurt you, don't loan the money.

My Leo mom also tends to let the men in her life use her. But she'll be so deep in her feels she won't see them as the leeches they are. Smh.

I've always been told, "when you loan out money expect to never see it again."

When or if he pays back, then you'll know. Despite being blocked if I had a debt to pay I'd drop it at their door in an envelope. I wouldn't knock, it would just be there.

Sounds like he isn't in a good place. Especially with giving out pain meds. He may have an addiction.

You're loaning someone money thats not even your boyfriend? and then you're complaining about that not being guaranteed back? You're being a dumb leo at this point, you're being used.

When I'm ignored my reaction depends on why I'm being ignored in the first place. If I did something wrong, I'd make it right but not reach out. If I didn't do anything, I'd wipe my slate clean and keep it moving.

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Posted by SMC
Take yourself up on that chill pill and take a deep breath...

First off you need to tell us some more about how long it has been since you lend him the money, you know a bit of background to the story.

Second, leos never give anything without wanting anything in return...there is always something dear. It could be as simple and tiny as a compliment/appreciation, but its always something

We are fwb .... I gave it too him 3 weeks ago., he said I'd give it back. I have yet to get it back. I didn't give it too him , for something I gave it to him because HE NEEDED IT. My loyalty like I said runs deep. ): he was a friend in need. His parents he doesn't really speak too he has no family they aren't close. That bothers me when people have no one else to fall back on. So I wanted to help. I don't have much so I give what I can.

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Ever wonder why some people don't have anyone in their corner to help them?

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Posted by SMC
Take yourself up on that chill pill and take a deep breath...

First off you need to tell us some more about how long it has been since you lend him the money, you know a bit of background to the story.

Second, leos never give anything without wanting anything in return...there is always something dear. It could be as simple and tiny as a compliment/appreciation, but its always something

We are fwb .... I gave it too him 3 weeks ago., he said I'd give it back. I have yet to get it back. I didn't give it too him , for something I gave it to him because HE NEEDED IT. My loyalty like I said runs deep. ): he was a friend in need. His parents he doesn't really speak too he has no family they aren't close. That bothers me when people have no one else to fall back on. So I wanted to help. I don't have much so I give what I can.

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if you gave it him because he NEEDED it, you shouldnt worry about getting it back so soon already.

the fact that you've been worrying about it and now posting about it doesn't look so selfless like you say it is though...but thats just me.

hope it works out

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Posted by SMC
Take yourself up on that chill pill and take a deep breath...

First off you need to tell us some more about how long it has been since you lend him the money, you know a bit of background to the story.

Second, leos never give anything without wanting anything in return...there is always something dear. It could be as simple and tiny as a compliment/appreciation, but its always something

We are fwb .... I gave it too him 3 weeks ago., he said I'd give it back. I have yet to get it back. I didn't give it too him , for something I gave it to him because HE NEEDED IT. My loyalty like I said runs deep. ): he was a friend in need. His parents he doesn't really speak too he has no family they aren't close. That bothers me when people have no one else to fall back on. So I wanted to help. I don't have much so I give what I can.

if you gave it him because he NEEDED it, you shouldnt worry about getting it back so soon already.

the fact that you've been worrying about it and now posting about it doesn't look so selfless like you say it is though...but thats just me.

hope it works out

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Just because he needed it doesn't mean I didn't need it. Wtf are you talking about? He just needed it more. He promised that I would get it back. The VERY NEXT DAY he just didn't have it ATM he said. I had no reason NOT TO BELIVE HIM. Wym so soon it's been three weeks. Chill.

Posted by MoonshineLeo
You're loaning someone money thats not even your boyfriend? and then you're complaining about that not being guaranteed back? You're being a dumb leo at this point, you're being used.

Are you blind? Or just not reading? He's my FWB we've known each other for awhile I had no reason to think he wouldn't give it back. He promised I'd get it back also the very next day. I just didn't ask about it till recently.

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Posted by SMC
Take yourself up on that chill pill and take a deep breath...

First off you need to tell us some more about how long it has been since you lend him the money, you know a bit of background to the story.

Second, leos never give anything without wanting anything in return...there is always something dear. It could be as simple and tiny as a compliment/appreciation, but its always something

My loyalty like I said runs deep. ): he was a friend in need. His parents he doesn't really speak too he has no family they aren't close. That bothers me when people have no one else to fall back on. So I wanted to help. I don't have much so I give what I can.

Your loyalty will get you in trouble.

Do you think there might be a reason why he's half-disowned and no one let's him close?

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Lesson learned.

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Posted by SMC
Take yourself up on that chill pill and take a deep breath...

First off you need to tell us some more about how long it has been since you lend him the money, you know a bit of background to the story.

Second, leos never give anything without wanting anything in return...there is always something dear. It could be as simple and tiny as a compliment/appreciation, but its always something

We are fwb .... I gave it too him 3 weeks ago., he said I'd give it back. I have yet to get it back. I didn't give it too him , for something I gave it to him because HE NEEDED IT. My loyalty like I said runs deep. ): he was a friend in need. His parents he doesn't really speak too he has no family they aren't close. That bothers me when people have no one else to fall back on. So I wanted to help. I don't have much so I give what I can.

if you gave it him because he NEEDED it, you shouldnt worry about getting it back so soon already.

the fact that you've been worrying about it and now posting about it doesn't look so selfless like you say it is though...but thats just me.

hope it works out

Just because he needed it doesn't mean I didn't need it. Wtf are you talking about? He just needed it more. He promised that I would get it back. The VERY NEXT DAY he just didn't have it ATM he said. I had no reason NOT TO BELIVE HIM. Wym so soon it's been three weeks. Chill.

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if you dont want people to assume and be able to give you good advice you should tell the whole story..you probably should have mentioned that earlier on is what im saying..*sigh* -_-

also think you are the one who should chill really

Posted by SMC
Take yourself up on that chill pill and take a deep breath...

First off you need to tell us some more about how long it has been since you lend him the money, you know a bit of background to the story.

Second, leos never give anything without wanting anything in return...there is always something dear. It could be as simple and tiny as a compliment/appreciation, but its always something

"Second, leos never give anything without wanting anything in return"

This is so true... ^^^^^

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Posted by SMC
Take yourself up on that chill pill and take a deep breath...

First off you need to tell us some more about how long it has been since you lend him the money, you know a bit of background to the story.

Second, leos never give anything without wanting anything in return...there is always something dear. It could be as simple and tiny as a compliment/appreciation, but its always something

We are fwb .... I gave it too him 3 weeks ago., he said I'd give it back. I have yet to get it back. I didn't give it too him , for something I gave it to him because HE NEEDED IT. My loyalty like I said runs deep. ): he was a friend in need. His parents he doesn't really speak too he has no family they aren't close. That bothers me when people have no one else to fall back on. So I wanted to help. I don't have much so I give what I can.

if you gave it him because he NEEDED it, you shouldnt worry about getting it back so soon already.

the fact that you've been worrying about it and now posting about it doesn't look so selfless like you say it is though...but thats just me.

hope it works out

Just because he needed it doesn't mean I didn't need it. Wtf are you talking about? He just needed it more. He promised that I would get it back. The VERY NEXT DAY he just didn't have it ATM he said. I had no reason NOT TO BELIVE HIM. Wym so soon it's been three weeks. Chill.

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She is chill and speaking correctly..

Sags are sometimes here to teach us lessons: your lesson as a Leo :"to give without receiving - to give freely without conditions attached." and "never loan an" fwb" money....

Why are Leos always "fwbs"

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Posted by MoonshineLeo
You're loaning someone money thats not even your boyfriend? and then you're complaining about that not being guaranteed back? You're being a dumb leo at this point, you're being used.

Are you blind? Or just not reading? He's my FWB we've known each other for awhile I had no reason to think he wouldn't give it back. He promised I'd get it back also the very next day. I just didn't ask about it till recently.

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A FWB is NOT a boyfriend!!! no im not blind but yes you are stupid. Get yourself some respect or stop complaining about getting used up and left dry.

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Posted by SMC
Take yourself up on that chill pill and take a deep breath...

First off you need to tell us some more about how long it has been since you lend him the money, you know a bit of background to the story.

Second, leos never give anything without wanting anything in return...there is always something dear. It could be as simple and tiny as a compliment/appreciation, but its always something

We are fwb .... I gave it too him 3 weeks ago., he said I'd give it back. I have yet to get it back. I didn't give it too him , for something I gave it to him because HE NEEDED IT. My loyalty like I said runs deep. ): he was a friend in need. His parents he doesn't really speak too he has no family they aren't close. That bothers me when people have no one else to fall back on. So I wanted to help. I don't have much so I give what I can.

if you gave it him because he NEEDED it, you shouldnt worry about getting it back so soon already.

the fact that you've been worrying about it and now posting about it doesn't look so selfless like you say it is though...but thats just me.

hope it works out

Just because he needed it doesn't mean I didn't need it. Wtf are you talking about? He just needed it more. He promised that I would get it back. The VERY NEXT DAY he just didn't have it ATM he said. I had no reason NOT TO BELIVE HIM. Wym so soon it's been three weeks. Chill.

if you dont want people to assume and be able to give you good advice you should tell the whole story..you probably should have mentioned that earlier on is what im saying..*sigh* -_-

also think you are the one who should chill really

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You should read. I posted it earlier when I responded giving someone the backstory.

*sigh* let me repeat myself though

He is my FWB we have been talking for a long time he needed money I was promised it the VERY NEXT DAY. I didn't get it I just recently brought it up this past week to him. Asking if I could have it he promised me four nights in a row I'd receive it cause he said I know you need it and I don't wanna lose you. He never came through. When I asked why he said " I smoked I got lazy , I'm sorry" it has now been a week. I haven't heard anything I got mad I blocked his number. So I can relax. And not say anything out of pocket. So my question to you was not if I should chill I acknowledged I'm

Going to chill by keeping distance. My question was , am I wrong for blocking him.

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Posted by MoonshineLeo
You're loaning someone money thats not even your boyfriend? and then you're complaining about that not being guaranteed back? You're being a dumb leo at this point, you're being used.

Are you blind? Or just not reading? He's my FWB we've known each other for awhile I had no reason to think he wouldn't give it back. He promised I'd get it back also the very next day. I just didn't ask about it till recently.

A FWB is NOT a boyfriend!!! no im not blind but yes you are stupid. Get yourself some respect or stop complaining about getting used up and left dry.

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Again I never had a reason to think I wouldn't get it back. I did it because I thought he needed it. So no I'm

Not at all. IMO a friend in need is a friend in deed. You should grow up. He's a close friend of mine I never thought he wouldn't repay me. I even didn't ask for a couple of weeks just in case he didn't have it. So check yourself please and thank you. Just because I allowed a friend to use money doesn't mean I have no self

-respect.

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Posted by SMC
Take yourself up on that chill pill and take a deep breath...

First off you need to tell us some more about how long it has been since you lend him the money, you know a bit of background to the story.

Second, leos never give anything without wanting anything in return...there is always something dear. It could be as simple and tiny as a compliment/appreciation, but its always something

We are fwb .... I gave it too him 3 weeks ago., he said I'd give it back. I have yet to get it back. I didn't give it too him , for something I gave it to him because HE NEEDED IT. My loyalty like I said runs deep. ): he was a friend in need. His parents he doesn't really speak too he has no family they aren't close. That bothers me when people have no one else to fall back on. So I wanted to help. I don't have much so I give what I can.

if you gave it him because he NEEDED it, you shouldnt worry about getting it back so soon already.

the fact that you've been worrying about it and now posting about it doesn't look so selfless like you say it is though...but thats just me.

hope it works out

Just because he needed it doesn't mean I didn't need it. Wtf are you talking about? He just needed it more. He promised that I would get it back. The VERY NEXT DAY he just didn't have it ATM he said. I had no reason NOT TO BELIVE HIM. Wym so soon it's been three weeks. Chill.

She is chill and speaking correctly..

Sags are sometimes here to teach us lessons: your lesson as a Leo :"to give without receiving - to give freely without conditions attached." and "never loan an" fwb" money....

Why are Leos always "fwbs"

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Why does it matter why Leo's are always FWBS? Who cares? I give selflessly to him all the fucking time. If he needs anything I'm there. It was this one time

I have ever asked for anything back. I even said " this time I will need it back please" and he said okay. So what are you talking about?

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Posted by SMC
Take yourself up on that chill pill and take a deep breath...

First off you need to tell us some more about how long it has been since you lend him the money, you know a bit of background to the story.

Second, leos never give anything without wanting anything in return...there is always something dear. It could be as simple and tiny as a compliment/appreciation, but its always something

We are fwb .... I gave it too him 3 weeks ago., he said I'd give it back. I have yet to get it back. I didn't give it too him , for something I gave it to him because HE NEEDED IT. My loyalty like I said runs deep. ): he was a friend in need. His parents he doesn't really speak too he has no family they aren't close. That bothers me when people have no one else to fall back on. So I wanted to help. I don't have much so I give what I can.

if you gave it him because he NEEDED it, you shouldnt worry about getting it back so soon already.

the fact that you've been worrying about it and now posting about it doesn't look so selfless like you say it is though...but thats just me.

hope it works out

Just because he needed it doesn't mean I didn't need it. Wtf are you talking about? He just needed it more. He promised that I would get it back. The VERY NEXT DAY he just didn't have it ATM he said. I had no reason NOT TO BELIVE HIM. Wym so soon it's been three weeks. Chill.

She is chill and speaking correctly..

Sags are sometimes here to teach us lessons: your lesson as a Leo :"to give without receiving - to give freely without conditions attached." and "never loan an" fwb" money....

Why are Leos always "fwbs"

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They aren't, Maid... but what an interesting

exercise in contradictions you've presented us.

Posted by infires
If you ask him for it back, it can ruin your relationship.

I think you shouldnt give too much, it should be give and take. And you don't have to give him money, unless he really needed it..even then it should be a gift

I always tell my partner, well this is your bday gift

I don't need it back at this point. I blocked his number because I was lied to and I stressed to him I needed this money. ): he said okay.... I had no idea I'd be used.

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Posted by SMC
Take yourself up on that chill pill and take a deep breath...

First off you need to tell us some more about how long it has been since you lend him the money, you know a bit of background to the story.

Second, leos never give anything without wanting anything in return...there is always something dear. It could be as simple and tiny as a compliment/appreciation, but its always something

We are fwb .... I gave it too him 3 weeks ago., he said I'd give it back. I have yet to get it back. I didn't give it too him , for something I gave it to him because HE NEEDED IT. My loyalty like I said runs deep. ): he was a friend in need. His parents he doesn't really speak too he has no family they aren't close. That bothers me when people have no one else to fall back on. So I wanted to help. I don't have much so I give what I can.

if you gave it him because he NEEDED it, you shouldnt worry about getting it back so soon already.

the fact that you've been worrying about it and now posting about it doesn't look so selfless like you say it is though...but thats just me.

hope it works out

Just because he needed it doesn't mean I didn't need it. Wtf are you talking about? He just needed it more. He promised that I would get it back. The VERY NEXT DAY he just didn't have it ATM he said. I had no reason NOT TO BELIVE HIM. Wym so soon it's been three weeks. Chill.

She is chill and speaking correctly..

Sags are sometimes here to teach us lessons: your lesson as a Leo :"to give without receiving - to give freely without conditions attached." and "never loan an" fwb" money....

Why are Leos always "fwbs"

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Maid your contradicting yourself you tell me to I've freely then not to give to FWB which one is it? If I'm

Giving freely does that not include FWB if not it wouldn't really be " giving freely" now would it...

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Posted by infires
If you ask him for it back, it can ruin your relationship.

I think you shouldnt give too much, it should be give and take. And you don't have to give him money, unless he really needed it..even then it should be a gift

I always tell my partner, well this is your bday gift

I don't need it back at this point. I blocked his number because I was lied to and I stressed to him I needed this money. ): he said okay.... I had no idea I'd be used.

Did you ask for your money and how did you ask for it?

I guess now you know not to give him money next time, does he ever give you stuff?

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I did ask. I asked " hey can I get my $ 40.00 i really needed it back" he said okay. Then I got upset told him how I felt and blocked him.

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Posted by infires
If you ask him for it back, it can ruin your relationship.

I think you shouldnt give too much, it should be give and take. And you don't have to give him money, unless he really needed it..even then it should be a gift

I always tell my partner, well this is your bday gift

I don't need it back at this point. I blocked his number because I was lied to and I stressed to him I needed this money. ): he said okay.... I had no idea I'd be used.

Did you ask for your money and how did you ask for it?

I guess now you know not to give him money next time, does he ever give you stuff?

I did ask. I asked " hey can I get my $ 40.00 i really needed it back" he said okay. Then I got upset told him how I felt and blocked him.

He will probably give it back if he said okay. I think you should just be patient now

Maybe the blocking thing went overboard..I know sags are honest people

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It's been three weeks. He told me he's tired of me asking ): a few times I said to just keep it cause I was tired. But I neeeded. I haven't eaten to save electric I begged him one night to bring it. He didn't. It just goes to show I am being used, and he doesn't give a fuck about me. After all I've done. Thanks for the advice I think I'll keep him blocked

Posted by Goateeguru
Lol all this over $ 40?

Is "medicine" code for cocaine or weed?

To a single mom, who does this shit on her own $ 40 is a lot. So yes. Allllllllllllllllllllllll this for 40 buckaroos. Well not anymore..

No medicine is like I get norco for my scoliosis I gave him 3 he said he had a bum shoulder.

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Posted by LadyNeptune
Anytime you loan someone money you have to assume they aren't going to pay it back (even if they are saying they will). If that will hurt you, don't loan the money.

My Leo mom also tends to let the men in her life use her. But she'll be so deep in her feels she won't see them as the leeches they are. Smh.

I've always been told, "when you loan out money expect to never see it again."

When or if he pays back, then you'll know. Despite being blocked if I had a debt to pay I'd drop it at their door in an envelope. I wouldn't knock, it would just be there.

Sounds like he isn't in a good place. Especially with giving out pain meds. He may have an addiction.

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I'm the type of person who will loan money or ask for a small favor to see if the person is gonna be true to their word and show up. People are really generous when it comes to words, but actions...not so much. I'm trying to always surround myself with ride or die

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Posted by Goateeguru
Lol all this over $ 40?

Is "medicine" code for cocaine or weed?

To a single mom, who does this shit on her own $ 40 is a lot. So yes. Allllllllllllllllllllllll this for 40 buckaroos. Well not anymore..

No medicine is like I get norco for my scoliosis I gave him 3 he said he had a bum shoulder.

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Damn your not his mom though! And you already have children depending on you. They should always come first over some D.

Tell him to get a job.

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Posted by infires
If you ask him for it back, it can ruin your relationship.

I think you shouldnt give too much, it should be give and take. And you don't have to give him money, unless he really needed it..even then it should be a gift

I always tell my partner, well this is your bday gift

I don't need it back at this point. I blocked his number because I was lied to and I stressed to him I needed this money. ): he said okay.... I had no idea I'd be used.

Did you ask for your money and how did you ask for it?

I guess now you know not to give him money next time, does he ever give you stuff?

I did ask. I asked " hey can I get my $ 40.00 i really needed it back" he said okay. Then I got upset told him how I felt and blocked him.

He will probably give it back if he said okay. I think you should just be patient now

Maybe the blocking thing went overboard..I know sags are honest people

It's been three weeks. He told me he's tired of me asking ): a few times I said to just keep it cause I was tired. But I neeeded. I haven't eaten to save electric I begged him one night to bring it. He didn't. It just goes to show I am being used, and he doesn't give a fuck about me. After all I've done. Thanks for the advice I think I'll keep him blocked

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He's straight up heartless. Your literally going hungry to help him out when he lied to your face about paying you back. And if he's treating you this way he's probably bumming money and drugs off all his booty calls AND his moma.

Blocking his number isn't enough. He needs to STAY blocked. Let the memory of his callousness harden your heart so that you never allow this user back into your life and between your legs.

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Posted by SMC
Take yourself up on that chill pill and take a deep breath...

First off you need to tell us some more about how long it has been since you lend him the money, you know a bit of background to the story.

Second, leos never give anything without wanting anything in return...there is always something dear. It could be as simple and tiny as a compliment/appreciation, but its always something

We are fwb .... I gave it too him 3 weeks ago., he said I'd give it back. I have yet to get it back. I didn't give it too him , for something I gave it to him because HE NEEDED IT. My loyalty like I said runs deep. ): he was a friend in need. His parents he doesn't really speak too he has no family they aren't close. That bothers me when people have no one else to fall back on. So I wanted to help. I don't have much so I give what I can.

if you gave it him because he NEEDED it, you shouldnt worry about getting it back so soon already.

the fact that you've been worrying about it and now posting about it doesn't look so selfless like you say it is though...but thats just me.

hope it works out

Just because he needed it doesn't mean I didn't need it. Wtf are you talking about? He just needed it more. He promised that I would get it back. The VERY NEXT DAY he just didn't have it ATM he said. I had no reason NOT TO BELIVE HIM. Wym so soon it's been three weeks. Chill.

if you dont want people to assume and be able to give you good advice you should tell the whole story..you probably should have mentioned that earlier on is what im saying..*sigh* -_-

also think you are the one who should chill really

You should read. I posted it earlier when I responded giving someone the backstory.

*sigh* let me repeat myself though

He is my FWB we have been talking for a long time he needed money I was promised it the VERY NEXT DAY. I didn't get it I just recently brought it up this past week to him. Asking if I could have it he promised me four nights in a row I'd receive it cause he said I know you need it and I don't wanna lose you. He never came through. When I asked why he said " I smoked I got lazy , I'm sorry" it has now been a week. I haven't heard anything I got mad I blocked his number. So I can relax. And not say anything out of pocket. So my question to you was not if I should chill I acknowledged I'm

Going to chill by keeping distance. My question was , am I wrong for blocking him.

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No you are not wrong for blocking Hun, he is a weed smoker by your admission so probably dosnt care if he pays you back or not in my experience, you are obviously a kind person, pls don't get in touch with him again, just put it down to experience, don't blame yourself, friends with benefits too?

You can't help him he has to help himself first, how old are you both ? I'm not trying to be mean, I'm the first to help people but he blatantly told you he smoked instead of paying you back, that would infuriate me so I'm not surprised you posted! Yes get shot of him Hun , that's my advice 100 percent ?

Posted by Leowoman0814

Posted by MoonshineLeo
You're loaning someone money thats not even your boyfriend? and then you're complaining about that not being guaranteed back? You're being a dumb leo at this point, you're being used.

Are you blind? Or just not reading? He's my FWB we've known each other for awhile I had no reason to think he wouldn't give it back. He promised I'd get it back also the very next day. I just didn't ask about it till recently.

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Why would you do all you did for a fwb? That's why he doesn't respect you.

Posted by bkbella86

Posted by Leowoman0814

Posted by MoonshineLeo
You're loaning someone money thats not even your boyfriend? and then you're complaining about that not being guaranteed back? You're being a dumb leo at this point, you're being used.

Are you blind? Or just not reading? He's my FWB we've known each other for awhile I had no reason to think he wouldn't give it back. He promised I'd get it back also the very next day. I just didn't ask about it till recently.

Why would you do all you did for a fwb? That's why he doesn't respect you.

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FRIEND is what stuck out the most