Is it normal for Sagittarius men to stay faithful to their ex,

Even if they've been divorced for a few years?

Like are they still talking? Or working it out ?

Posted by arose32
Like are they still talking? Or working it out ?

Thank you for answering me arose32. He's my ex husband, and we've been divorced for a few years. I turned off all of my feelings for him as far as more than friends and actually hated him in a way because he was very emotionally and verbally abusive to me and I could never see myself feeling anything again for him. So I hadn't even thought about anything till today when he came over to my house to celebrate something for our child, and him and I talked a lot just about everything. We usually talk because we are friends, but he's been extra nice lately and I'm noticing it and hanging around a lot longer when he drops our child off. He's told me quite a few times just in talking that he's been loyal to me this whole time, and doesn't want anyone but I was so upset that it meant nothing to me because he is just viewed as a friend. But now I'm thinking about it after today and I'm wondering if that is something that is common for Sag males? Sorry if I repeated myself, anywhere or typos.

Posted by Harukaa
I don't about all sag men, but I know sagg man stay single more than 2 years cuz he was so fu*king hurt from girl who left him.

And I will tell u as sag woman ..
If I really love you .. even when we break up
I will not looking for someone else ..I will just stay and wait to u "if I realllllly love u"...then I will find way to heal

I don't know why they said we sag people not good lovers lol but I really love with all my heart

It took me years to get someone I loved so hard
and I don't fall so easily .


I think u need to think about what he said .. just try and you will know what your heart want .

Thank you Harukaa, he has said something similar to me before, so I understand what you're saying. Maybe you're right, and I need to stop being so closed off and just let his words sink in this time.

I can understand .. My ex was a sag and when we broke up, I asked who she was talking to now and she was like "no one.. We were too crazy" .... Seriously, and I can understand that... I'm also chilling after talking to the same people for months ... Once you're in a sag heart, you're there for good... I promise that.


Could you give him another chance? I promise you he wouldn't mess it up.. Love takes time ....

Sag men date a lot or get with a lot of women, atleast that's their M.O from what I hear. I think though, that there is always that one that is better than the rest and they hold dear to the heart. The one they truly love or loved. They can give their body to women, but not their heart. That is reserved for one.

Maybe you are the only one he can ever love, and he realized this.

I can almost guarantee you he will become verbally abusive all over again if you get back in it with him. It will only be a matter of time. It's easy to be nice and fun when you haven't seen that person in a long time. I am not saying it is a trap, he probably really thinks he can do this over again but verbal and emotional abuse is something that is ingrained in those who have a history of using it.

Posted by arose32
I can understand .. My ex was a sag and when we broke up, I asked who she was talking to now and she was like "no one.. We were too crazy" .... Seriously, and I can understand that... I'm also chilling after talking to the same people for months ... Once you're in a sag heart, you're there for good... I promise that.


Could you give him another chance? I promise you he wouldn't mess it up.. Love takes time ....

You're very sweet, I can tell just from you wrote here. Thank you for responding.

I have given him more chances, as we had tried a few times after divorcing to make it work but it never lasted long. To be honest with you I don't know exactly why it doesn't work with us, we are alike in so many ways. It was perfect because he had his own office/room in the house and we would generally meet up around bedtime, have some 'playtime' highly sexually compatible where we liked to just get down to business and then go back to whatever we were doing, then either kiss or not kiss good night, roll over to our own sides of the bed (California king size, so plenty of room), and neither of us are very affectionate nor romantic, sarcastic with each other to the point of people looking at us like we're weird but we just get each other in that way, the other day when he was over he asked me if I had a hot date or party to go to that evening and we both laughed so hard that I teared up and that's because we both are that way too in the fact that we both don't make time for a social life and I also don't drink, smoke, or party in anyway, so on almost all aspects we are perfect for each other, but he was pretty much the opposite of thoughtful when it came to my health even, so I just couldn't deal with that, and again his verbal emotional abuse. He also would follow me around when I was upset and not stop questioning me about what was bothering me rather than giving me space and letting me cool off, which I get over things quickly if someone just lets me have time to myself and lets me come back when I'm ready.

So, I don't know about trying for another time around. If so he would have to show me that he would change those things that destroyed our relationship and that would take a lot of time. Sorry for all the back story, I want to give you the situation so that you can understand everything and maybe see something I don't.

Thank you again, for your advice. 🙂

Posted by Greentea
Sag men date a lot or get with a lot of women, atleast that's their M.O from what I hear. I think though, that there is always that one that is better than the rest and they hold dear to the heart. The one they truly love or loved. They can give their body to women, but not their heart. That is reserved for one.

Maybe you are the only one he can ever love, and he realized this.

Yes he definitely had dated a lot of women before I met him, and he never wanted to get married and didn't ever see himself settled down. He said I changed that, so maybe you're right. He's in my heart too, I just wish I could have gotten to the point of being In Love.

Posted by GuardianAnu
I can almost guarantee you he will become verbally abusive all over again if you get back in it with him. It will only be a matter of time. It's easy to be nice and fun when you haven't seen that person in a long time. I am not saying it is a trap, he probably really thinks he can do this over again but verbal and emotional abuse is something that is ingrained in those who have a history of using it.

I believe you're right, and I think that it would be all good for a bit and then go back to that. One reason that keeps me leaning more towards, a big fat NO.

Hey... I'm a sag and I dated one...

I talk to women... And I can't lie, it's like I'm this hopeless romantic that has player ways... I have had so many people... One thing about Sag's that people truly don't get is we have a lot of people that are attracted to us... Well, at least I do? That confuses us... But I'm waiting to hear one of my old girls say, "let's make it work" because I'm a sucker for romance...


Look up you guys relationship, on thesecretlanguage and figure out why it just doesn't work.... To me, love is all about intensity, chemistry, sexual heights, and me catering to you... Now faithful, ehhh.. But I'm young and I won't settle down for another 5 years. Or until I'm 30... I just can't see myself being married yet... It's too hard..

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Posted by GuardianAnu
I can almost guarantee you he will become verbally abusive all over again if you get back in it with him. It will only be a matter of time. It's easy to be nice and fun when you haven't seen that person in a long time. I am not saying it is a trap, he probably really thinks he can do this over again but verbal and emotional abuse is something that is ingrained in those who have a history of using it.

I believe you're right, and I think that it would be all good for a bit and then go back to that. One reason that keeps me leaning more towards, a big fat NO.

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