Libra & Sagittarius & other partners in the picture

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Mike79
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I'm a libra & she's a Sagittarius. We both have been separated from other partners.

The beginning of this year we started hanging out & one thing led to another & we became sexually intimate. She & I were on & off with other people at the time. So during the time that we were going out, I went back with my partner & so did she. We stopped talking but weeks later I separated again & I called her. We gave it another try. We started to see each other again. Continued to be intimate & eventually feelings started to blossom, we felt as we loved each other & we confessed it to one another. The problem was that our previous relationships continued to interfere with our relationship not allowing us to fully commit because someone was always trying to get back in the picture. I didn't want to ask her to make a choice & she never asked me to make one either. We both became distant at times and continued to reconnect. We have remained in touch & seeing each-other throughout this year. We both have children with our ex partners therefore they will always be in the picture. It's hard because it seems as we both can't commit because of our past relationships, my ex is now dating another man, so I've moved on but I still see her every day because I see my kids every day. When I'm with my Sagittarius, my ex calls all the time to communicate about the kids, but Sagittarius never says anything about it. & her ex constantly goes over to her place to see the kids too which is hard for me. How do you date someone who is always around her ex partner & not get jealous. The problem here is we love each other but feel that our children's other parent will always be in the picture & cause some type of insecurities. I guess I don't wanna get hurt, I don't wanna get my hopes up & then she leaves me for him just because they have more history then us. Lately we don't see each other as much because we're always busy being parents. But when we do make time, it's pretty dam great! She's so loving & I am too. I wish I could see her more often but I'll take what I can get because she also needs to be a parent as I do, plus we have our careers to attend to. Do you think a relationship like this could be lasting? It's been almost 8months & we're both still trying to get it together. I'm the first person she has ever dated since she left her partner so for her it's something new & something to adapt to & she's not sure what's the best thing for her children because obviously they come first. Please let me know what you think— sorry in advance for the long story.
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Agreed on it being a good match. I have been with my Libra for 3 years and I've nothing negative to say about the union in a general sense.

The main glue which holds the sag-libra relationship together is communication so I would say you both need to talk this out with each other. If you're serious about this thing and want to make a go of it then maybe boundaries will need to be set regarding past relationships so that the both of you make space for something to grow.

8 months isn't long and I know that in my own relationship it took a long time for us to fully understand each other and experience good communication and understanding.

As a side note my libra has children so it has been quite challenging at times, especially at the beginning but we have managed to make it work for us. I've never felt neglected but it has been a slow process.



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Mike79
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Posted by Ninjagirl
Agreed on it being a good match. I have been with my Libra for 3 years and I've nothing negative to say about the union in a general sense.

The main glue which holds the sag-libra relationship together is communication so I would say you both need to talk this out with each other. If you're serious about this thing and want to make a go of it then maybe boundaries will need to be set regarding past relationships so that the both of you make space for something to grow.

8 months isn't long and I know that in my own relationship it took a long time for us to fully understand each other and experience good communication and understanding.

As a side note my libra has children so it has been quite challenging at times, especially at the beginning but we have managed to make it work for us. I've never felt neglected but it has been a slow process.




How long has it taken your relationship to progress because of the children? What challenges have you faced. Are you Sagittarius?