Long FWB with Sag

I’m a Virgo woman and I have been seeing an Sagittarius men for 2 and a half years. We’re not dating but we have been physical with each other for this long. He started opening up to me last year about his life and his family but he doesn’t know anything about me (my trust issues). He has been checking on me asking me how I am and have been very attentive to me when I speak. He even remembers everything I say. He takes note on any changes made towards my body, for instance I would get my toes done and he would notice or when I recently cut my hair he noticed. We have never kissed or went out on a date. Lately he has been a little distant and I understand that he needs his space so I give it to him. But he would not contact me for a while. Not until I contact him first. Every time I see him he always says “it was really nice seeing you again.” I am starting to catch feelings and do not want to make a move until I know he is in this. I know Sagittarius men are known for cheating and I am afraid to get my feelings hurt but I really like him and want to know if he likes me too? Or am I just a FWB? How do I get him to talk about what we are without feeling uncomfortable?

Also he has slept with another girl last year and has apologized to me for it. I wanted to know why even though we’re not dating. Also he keeps reminding me that he has never been with another girl since then. But I think he’s lying. Is he?

Only he knows of he is lying.

From what you wrote, he seems more like a good friend than someone who's interested in a committed relationship.

I've got a Sag fwb thing goin on...I would just be straight up n start the convo - sometimes the best things come from uncomfortable-ness. Never know until ya try n if it is just a friends thing wouldn't ya rather know sooner? Idk, that's my two-cents 🙂

talk to him and find out so you can then decide where to go from here

no sense gaining more feelings if he's not there - you will only end up hurting

Sag men are liars.

don't fall for their bullshit.

Posted by virgoOPPP

Sag men are liars.

don't fall for their bullshit.

Lol. You just dated one for 5 seconds the other day 😩😩🤣🤣🤣

This is why I don’t understand Virgos. How you guys just take whatever. Speak up if you want something and kiss him.

I don’t kiss the Virgo I’m dating either lol. First person I’ve ever done this with. He has no fire in his chart and is as passionate as a rock but he gets the job done well.

I also never reach out to him but he’s used to it, if he asked me about it, I would tell him that’s just the way I am.

This is part of the problem with analyzing without asking questions or getting supporting facts, you come up with your own conclusions

Posted by virgowoman18

Also he has slept with another girl last year and has apologized to me for it. I wanted to know why even though we’re not dating. Also he keeps reminding me that he has never been with another girl since then. But I think he’s lying. Is he?

He might not be and it’s nice that he even took you into consideration, like he cheated or something, since he didn’t.

Sometimes being consistent and familiar is what keeps us around. But you have to speak up and let him know what you want.

Posted by saggurl88

Posted by virgoOPPP

Sag men are liars.

don't fall for their bullshit.

Lol. You just dated one for 5 seconds the other day 😩😩🤣🤣🤣

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don't get me wrong, i like Sag females

but this the 2nd time i date a Sag male and it always sucks

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Posted by saggurl88

Posted by virgoOPPP

Sag men are liars.

don't fall for their bullshit.

Lol. You just dated one for 5 seconds the other day 😩😩🤣🤣🤣

don't get me wrong, i like Sag females

but this the 2nd time i date a Sag male and it always sucks

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Aww sorry to hear. I don’t date them either lol. No reason, I just don’t think all the space we would give each other, would work for me.

That sucks. I like Virgo’s. You should ask him if we wants to get serious if that’s how you feel. I mean what do you have to lose?

I haven't met sags and I don't know anything about them. My virgo had sag moon and that was it. But what you have wrote gives me an impression that he's catching feelings, maybe he did already. He wouldn't say a thing about other girl if he didn't care, he wouldn't open up, he wouldn't notice things about you, but damn no kiss? how do you keep yourself from not kissing. He has been distant? maybe because of feelings? I don't really know 😢

Damn you all so lucky, even if it's WFB, I can't get a guy, I always fuck it up.

Posted by Sag898

That sucks. I like Virgo’s. You should ask him if we wants to get serious if that’s how you feel. I mean what do you have to lose?

Exactly right. Get out of your head

if we have been having sex all these years you are someone we feel comfortable being around in the situation we are in. Seems to be no pressure, which is what we love, but you would need to show more signs of being someone we could consider being a partner with. I lose interest after a couple of rolls in the hay, so if I keep you around you have some of my interest. A key to long term with sags are friendships. if we aren't friends, we definitely aren't anything else.

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Posted by saggurl88

Posted by virgoOPPP

Sag men are liars.

don't fall for their bullshit.

Lol. You just dated one for 5 seconds the other day 😩😩🤣🤣🤣

don't get me wrong, i like Sag females

but this the 2nd time i date a Sag male and it always sucks

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We don't suck. what we say typically doesn't always match what we do. we romanticize , but are distant. you would like me if we talked.

you have to set expectations, and adhere to them, to not be disappointed, but you better be willing to offer the same or more in return, we are all about fairness.