my life is 3 ring circus now

i'm not complaining btw ... it's quite exciting actually ... and sooooo different from the usual.

So, the gf's cousin has pretty much just moved in. Her bf/ex-bf/bf whenever she wants a bf just drove half way across Texas to bring her more of her stuff ... we're talking boxes and boxes of food, cooking utinsils, bathroom stuff ... you name it, she done moved in!

I live in a tiny 2 bedroom house now w/ gf and her drama, her cousin and her drama, and then my kids during my time with them ... and fortunately they don't have much drama.

Ok, and now for the kicker ... my gf is pregnant ... one second she's happy, and the next second she says things like, "I hate you, I feel trapped, I want an abortion just becuase its your baby!" Fuck, I'm not completely convinced it is my baby.

I need a bigger house; maybe I should start homeless shelter ... I'm off to a pretty good start.

Pregnant?

lol. what kind of transits are you going through.


or are u using laughter to disguise your impending doom.

if u like, we love it 🙂

i am lovin' it. Don't know if y'all knew, but I did want at least one more kid. It's pretty iffy if the gf is going to keep it or not, but one good sign is that she is refraining from alcohol.

oh, and I am somewhat flattered to be the dude with 2 live-in women ... even though I can't bang both of 'em ... On-lookers don't know that.

I am really surprised though ... my house is crappy, old, and tiny. The cousin must be pretty hard up for a place to stay to move into po-dunk-ville, USA. I'm guessing it won't be for long though ... maybe guessing, maybe hoping ... lol, I'm just really in a mood to just go with the flow. I'm just gonna do my best to let whatever happens happen and enjoy the ride.

Should've gotten out while the gettin was good

I think the 'Dynamic Nuthouse' is an appropriate heading for thus circumstances. If you start going that direction, you may want to consult with the Maury Show DNA testings for free. Only downside is getting on the show and telling your story, but hey .. some may have fun doing so.

Congratulations, jru... don't start with the shit --> IF or IF NOT

Posted by beautifulsoul74
Should've gotten out while the gettin was good

where's the like button?

I'm just gonna go for volume discount on child support payments at this point.

LOL.

Yes, "Dynamic Nuthouse" is good. We had the whole thing full last night. The cousin unpacked more of her stuff and slept on the couch, while my kids slept in their room (which really I need another room for them anyway) ... this morning my daughter saw better how much stuff the cousin brought and she was just smiling at me like; dad, you are too nice.

It's funny that before the aqua came along I had a master plan to remodel the house I'm in, build a garage apartment, move into that, sell the little house, and build a nice big house on this other property I have. But, I remember thinking specifically, "What good is a big house if I'm all alone?" So, now I just need a big bag of money to drop out of the sky or something because I got people to put in a big house and no time to build it myself.

Posted by jru2

Posted by beautifulsoul74
Should've gotten out while the gettin was good

where's the like button?

I'm just gonna go for volume discount on child support payments at this point.

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Lol good luck with that.

Next thread will be you saying you knocked the cousin up too lol

Whats uranus doing in your chart? is anything in your 4th house?

At least your are holding your Saggie sense of humor through all of this! YOWSERS!

Posted by DMV
Whats uranus doing in your chart? is anything in your 4th house?

i dunno? 12/18/70 about 12:30 am

Thanks R24 ... I am so buying lotto ticket today. If I win big I will hook you up.

Is it gonna be a Pisces or Aries?

*he/she

i'm guessing Aries ... but, the deck is stacked against "*he/she" at the moment. My aqua is afraid to be a mom i think, plus she's really not happy with me ... esp. long term.

ok, so I turned up the sweet/doddeing(sp?) thing. It's transparent. she asked me yesterday why i was being so sweet, and then immediately said you've never treated me like this, but as soon as you found out I'm pregnant. But then i reminded her of some things from months ago. I used to spoil her a lot ... 'til she started taking it for granted.

yesterday afternoon would have been the 1st time that I'd be at the house alone with the cousin and I wonder if my aqua even gave that a thought. Instead, I drove 30 min. out of my way to go hang out with my aqua, surprise her with my presence, take her off to flighty errands and drop her off at the door to the stores, and carry her stuff, buy whatever she wants, help her on her computer, wait on her to finish the last patient, and then escort her home. I was worried that maybe I would be coming off as needy or something like I have in the past, but she seemed to really like the flood of attention.

The libra in me couldn't take all that drama and noise. All of this because of an aqua? Thanks jru. You confirmed my decision not to get involved with an aqua I met a couple of months ago. She was screwing a guy that went back to his ex and plus she lives on the west coast( I'm in the South U.S.). Sheesh, couldn't even carry on a convo without him coming up. Dropped her like a bad habit lol

aquas do nothing for me. wonderful people, but not for me

Posted by jru2
ok, so I turned up the sweet/doddeing(sp?) thing. It's transparent. she asked me yesterday why i was being so sweet, and then immediately said you've never treated me like this, but as soon as you found out I'm pregnant. But then i reminded her of some things from months ago. I used to spoil her a lot ... 'til she started taking it for granted.

yesterday afternoon would have been the 1st time that I'd be at the house alone with the cousin and I wonder if my aqua even gave that a thought. Instead, I drove 30 min. out of my way to go hang out with my aqua, surprise her with my presence, take her off to flighty errands and drop her off at the door to the stores, and carry her stuff, buy whatever she wants, help her on her computer, wait on her to finish the last patient, and then escort her home. I was worried that maybe I would be coming off as needy or something like I have in the past, but she seemed to really like the flood of attention.

r u sure your not dating an aries?

no, she's def. Aquarius. She may have Aries like moments ... but she'll crash into a crying fit and that's when you know she is Aqua

lol, B74

yeah, you did good. Something always told me to drop this one like a bad habit too ... from the beginning. lol, but the more I pushed her away, the harder she tried ... it was all good then. But on subject of ex's, she has admitted that she's still in love with one of her ex's ... her soul-mate she thinks, but it's really just some objectified image of him --- well, that's my opinion. If she had him, she would get tired of him too. She's just like that, but then so am I ... always chasing, always longing for something we don't have. I'm trying to learn to be in the moment more though, and to enjoy whatever I do have to the fullest. Haha, and right now, that's sex with a pregnant woman ... she's been insatiable lately ... even though she doesn't say that she loves me anymore.

Posted by jru2
lol, B74

yeah, you did good. Something always told me to drop this one like a bad habit too ... from the beginning. lol, but the more I pushed her away, the harder she tried ... it was all good then. But on subject of ex's, she has admitted that she's still in love with one of her ex's ... her soul-mate she thinks, but it's really just some objectified image of him --- well, that's my opinion. If she had him, she would get tired of him too. She's just like that, but then so am I ... always chasing, always longing for something we don't have. I'm trying to learn to be in the moment more though, and to enjoy whatever I do have to the fullest. Haha, and right now, that's sex with a pregnant woman ... she's been insatiable lately ... even though she doesn't say that she loves me anymore.

Lol. That's an Aqua's m.o. Threaten to leave and they'll come running. I'm still tripping off the drama. I've known several aqua women and they've never seemed that way, except for this last one. If anything, they're too detached for my taste. I like my space, but not to the point where the "relationship" is non existent. As for living in the moment, I'm all for that but be careful. You need substance to back it up. Otherwise that's all you have. A series of "moments."

ha, yes, living in the moment can be over-done ... my error has always been to worry so much about the future that I often miss the moment ... but true, there needs to be a time for substance building too. balance in everything

Aquas are drama, and they do love attention...they aren't the opposite of Leos for no reason lol. My Aqua mom had a brief thing with a Sag and she really loved his energy. A spoiled aqua? Good luck with that lol, seems like you can handle it though.

LOL AQUA? and shes pregnant?... oh man you have your work cut out for you but at least you are laughing it off.
All I can say is better you than me, I can only deal with people period in small doses.