Sagittarius, what does this mean when u.....

I dont know about all those questions, but saggis are ruled by Jupiter and Jupiter has no time for details. were into the forest and not the trees. with texting, if i determine that the text sent doesnt warrant a reply, i wont reply.

he's out having a life, hobbies, a life, friends, a life, family, a life. 🙂

without becoming a total drag 🙂 just ask him to be more "around". generally my friends have to tell me to call them or they have to call me. i have no time for the phone or keeping up with people.

correction, if their mercury is in a detail oriented planet, then the sag will change a bit.

when Saggis are struggling, do they prefer people to jump in and or help or wait for their cue?

Much appreciate your comment, DMV.
I love reading your response~~ it makes a lot of sense.

Respond to your previous comments, I think I am guilty of not having enough time for my friends too.
This Saggis love the freeom and I respect his space.
Most of the time we're soooo distanced I don't even know if we're together.
....
not sure if you know what I mean..

@ArticleL

15 Years5,000+ Posts

Posted by DMV
I dont know about all those questions, but saggis are ruled by Jupiter and Jupiter has no time for details. were into the forest and not the trees. with texting, if i determine that the text sent doesnt warrant a reply, i wont reply.

he's out having a life, hobbies, a life, friends, a life, family, a life. 🙂

without becoming a total drag 🙂 just ask him to be more "around". generally my friends have to tell me to call them or they have to call me. i have no time for the phone or keeping up with people.

Posted by LittlePisces
when Saggis are struggling, do they prefer people to jump in and or help or wait for their cue?

It depends on the situation. Ask them. We definitely appreciate someone asking and it will go far with us even though we may not accept it. We're an assertive bunch, but we'll accept help when we need it. Sometimes it just boils down to giving the opportunity to talk.

To answer some of your questions: "we're good" means things are good between you two. No puoblems.

Vague answers means they either don't know what to say or are afraid of telling you the truth because it may hurt your feelings.

"So So" means he's not having a good day. He's being honest about it. He'll talk about it at some point because we can't keep negative energy in for long.

If he doesn't text back immediately, he's either focused on something or busy. We're honest. When we say we need space, we do. We like to figure things out and sort through thing because our minds mutate and evolve at a rapid pace. This makes it seem like we're going back and forth, but we're actually thinking forward and looking for the truth.

Honnetatemae --> I mean stress from work, lease is up and looking for a place to live... day to day (simple) things.
Sometimes I worry that I might show that I care too much and it'd become a burden to him. I'm holding back a lot because I really want to give him space. It's really hard for me to hold back all these emotions while telling him "yeah I'm doing fine." The truth is I want to be there for him whenever possible. I hope I'm not acting toooooo cool to him. I most certainly not~~ He just doesn't know I almost tear up every night missing him.

I haven't seen him in almost two weeks now. Is it too long?
This type of "space" is what Saggis want?

He just doesn't know I almost tear up every night missing him.
if he has water in his chart, he will appreciate that. if not, id keep that lil tid bit to myself. on the flip side, your very emotionally involved with this guy. be sure that you match his level of intensity. i hate it when i feel more for the other person than vice versa. this may just be how u express your missing. he may do it by a handjob. 🙂

I haven't seen him in almost two weeks now. Is it too long?
hmm. depends. how far do u too live from one another. if its more than an hour, naw 2 weeks aint nuthin. imo, 2 weeks is long time to go without seeing my boyfriend. are u too an official item?

This type of "space" is what Saggis want?
sorta kinda. i just need a certain amount of loner time.

Posted by LittlePisces
when Saggis are struggling, do they prefer people to jump in and or help or wait for their cue?

a sag man is a man, unless he has some feminine personal planets. but imo, for the most part, a sag is a man's man. if he doesnt ask for help, be an ear to listen to him. it may sound like noise or rambling, but hes expressing his depression; just pay attention. put something in his stomach; preferably his favorite food. or take him out for a fun activity where u treat him.

the fastest and more efficient way to kill a sag is too restrict his jupiter influence. put him in a box, take away his money which takes away his ability to expand. restrict his expansion and your sag will become a shell. a depressed sag is a sorry sight.

@NikkiMse1978

15 Years1,000+ Posts

Sag being vauge! Never! ha ha

I am totally honest, blunt and sometimes brutally blunt and honest so my sharp tongue gets me in trouble. Ask me a question I will give you a dead on answer. No beating around the bush!

Most Sags are off on some new adventure and really don't have time to think, let alone not have an answer to anything if that makes sense.

Awww thank you for answering my questions. I feel like I am dating for the first time. Clueless...

He lived about half an hour from me and I drove to his place almost all the time. He doesn't make the effort to come out to meet me. _ Now that he has moved back with his folks I think we're going to see each other less. It's been two weeks already. I understand that he's busy with his life, so I am giving him space. Maybe he is not ready for a relationship .. Feel like I am wasting my time. I don'tknow what we are. I asked him what we are and he said we're good. He also told me he didn't want to rush into titles. But..... That was a month ago...

Between then and now we didn't have a follow talk. Is it necessary to talk about it? I find it more pointless to talk snout it. I know he doesn't want to be tied down.so asking those questions again and again would probably irritate him, right? So I let time do the talk. He called me babe, hun, sweetie... I guess that'ssome progress.

Am I whipped or what.... Lol

He called me babe, hun, sweetie...

saggis have nickname for just about everyone. how old is this horse neway?

Posted by DMV

Posted by LittlePisces
when Saggis are struggling, do they prefer people to jump in and or help or wait for their cue?

a sag man is a man, unless he has some feminine personal planets. but imo, for the most part, a sag is a man's man. if he doesnt ask for help, be an ear to listen to him. it may sound like noise or rambling, but hes expressing his depression; just pay attention. put something in his stomach; preferably his favorite food. or take him out for a fun activity where u treat him.

the fastest and more efficient way to kill a sag is too restrict his jupiter influence. put him in a box, take away his money which takes away his ability to expand. restrict his expansion and your sag will become a shell. a depressed sag is a sorry sight.

click to expand

Indeed...

He is 31.

Am I too pessimistic to say that he doesn't want me but just waiting for me to break it up?
I still believe that he would break it up if he is not into me. Saggs are honest and manly. It wouldn't be manly if he hides and expect I get it.
The man thing to do if he doesn't want me is.to tell me straight up. I prefer honesty over anything now.

It would be nice to see some clarity in this relationship.

Honnetatemae, I agree with you. If I like someone I would waNT to be with him as much as I can.
I always find myself going to him whenever he said he wanna see me. Is this what I have to do forever? ... For me to always go to him whenever he calls?

We're hardly communicating. We text once every two days. He said he was busy, or stressed at work...
I respect that. So I don't message him often or keep my message very brief (e.g. A simple good.night) whenever I miss him to tears. Sometimes I feel like I am being taken for granted.

could be. i hate breaking up with people. id rather have them break up with me. so i'll just do stuff to get them to break up with me.

I see.
Sometimes it's "common sense" to move on, huh?
I hate using that word because everyone interprets things a little different.
Somethings are better to be straight forward, at least that's the way I prefer.

I can move on but I don't want him to come back and said I'm not loyal to him.
IMO, I've done all I could on my end: I've offered my help, support and my time.. the rest is up to him and he hasn't done anything to reach me. I've been doing all the chasing and I am very tired.
Saggis, would you think I'm ruthless if I move on without a heads up?

I wanna thank you all so much for your replies.
I'm moving on after 5 or 6 failed attempt with the same horse.
From now, I won't be waiting by the phone for his call or text. I will live my life my way.

loved
lost

6 times

it's more than enough a heart can take.

He's not the one, that's all.

🙂 I'll just have to save those new recipe of marinated duck, pork and chicken for a guy that really deserves "us".
Alas, Saggis.

im sorry to hear that LP. let it out.

@Vcharm

Posted by DMV
He called me babe, hun, sweetie...

saggis have nickname for just about everyone. how old is this horse neway?

I lol'd when I read this. My friend does have a bunch of nicknames for his buds. He calls me "Dom the sav"

you will be okay LP. I think this sag may be to flaky for you and it puts you on an emotional rollercoaster. i dont judge anyone for going to anyone. if u need a few more times on the coaster, then so be it.

Sorry to hear that LP. It'll be ok. If all this stuff he says was going on is true, he's got a lot pulling at him. Some of us have a hard time bring upfront about things. Some are selfish, others feel they are protecting you by hiding the truth. Sounds crazy but its true. Forgive yourself and him and move on. Maybe in time and him evolving you coud try again if things at right. Best wishes to you and keep your head up. Time heals all wounds 🙂

🙂 thanks you two.
I'll be fine 🙂
I miss him so much ahahaha
Why me.. phew...... move on move on, kiddo.

What should I say now that he is messaging me again?