This came up in my horoscope today

And I am curious if any if my fellow Saggies feel this is them.

My horoscope said that I hold grudges. I never thought I did, but the more I thought about it I sometimes do!
Especially if I am burned, hurt or confused by something. I'm meditating on it to gain a clearer understanding, but that's what I've got so far.

Any other Saggies see, feel or think your like that to? Please share. :-)
Thanks!

Yah I can and will hold a grudge until the end of time.

If you have Scorpio in Mars you will. This is something I struggled with until a few years ago. Now, I'm cool if someone hurts me. Can't hold on to that negative energy. It poisons you.

With lightweight stuff I'm forgiving. But if you really hurt me, I hold onto that ish forever lol

i feel like u can only hurt the clown for so long. i hold onto grudges too easily.

Posted by beautifulsoul74
If you have Scorpio in Mars you will. This is something I struggled with until a few years ago. Now, I'm cool if someone hurts me. Can't hold on to that negative energy. It poisons you.

The release of negative energy is what is helping me. 🙂

Posted by Mebs
With lightweight stuff I'm forgiving. But if you really hurt me, I hold onto that ish forever lol

That is what I found with myself upon meditating. I hold onto a grudge if I am hurt. I don't mean surface hurt-deep down, to my bones, and ripping out my heart, soul hurting.
I find it hard to trust again and talk about what happened bcus the emotions overwhelm me and then I get angry again. Anger is not a good emotion for me. It destoys me to my core.

Are there any particular circumstances besides hurting that you hold a grudge? Is it safer to hold the grudge then forgive that person?
I ask bcus I can forgive but still hate you. Does that make sense? HA HA 🙂

Posted by NikkiMse1978
Are there any particular circumstances besides hurting that you hold a grudge? Is it safer to hold the grudge then forgive that person?
I ask bcus I can forgive but still hate you. Does that make sense? HA HA 🙂

i think its safer to have learned your lesson. just because someone tells u that theyre sorry doesnt mean that they didnt mean to do it. theyre just telling you sorry to make you feel better and because its the socially accepted thing to do. but saggis can get on their soapbox about forgiveness. seriously, invest in kneepads and u have to grovel.

It is something I just read in my horoscope-I found it very intersting and after meditating and reflection, I found I am guilty of grudges.
I go to the gym, eat healthy and box. I have outlets for my grudges~! LOL

yo seriously, if it werent for the gym, weed, or creme filled chocolate cupcakes id be in jail for murder.

Posted by DMV
yo seriously, if it werent for the gym, weed, or creme filled chocolate cupcakes id be in jail for murder.

I saw this thread come up on the home page & I am so glad I clicked it because ^^^^^this right here legit made my entire day!! LMAO!!!! I couldnt agree more!!!

Posted by DMV
yo seriously, if it werent for the gym, weed, or creme filled chocolate cupcakes id be in jail for murder.

I second cream puffs! ha ha