R u scared to have kids?

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im scared shitless of losing my body and life. my money, everything. i wont be able to pick up and go to miami or to la for shitts and giggles.

Posted by MzSag
THAT, fellow Saggi, is called selfishness... and is greatly frowned upon in motherhood.

I imagine, when you become a mother, will you even WANT to do those things?

hahah thats the word i was looking for. rhymed with shellfish.

yeah i think i love traveling to much and upheaval/chaos to have a kid.

I tried staying away from this question, but anyone doubting... you will wish it happened before.

You just go along and it comes with a blast...

Posted by Sutekh
Yes department of motorvehicles... I am

You are silly Sutekh

You should be scared but when it happens you will be ready, it's important to have a good support system. I have that and I pretty much travel two to three times a year, I go out pretty much go outwhen I want , but I have a lot of family help and good partner as a father, it's funny cause all I ever wanted to be since I can remember is a mother. I didn't think about the men, I just wanted kids one way or another, my pregnancies were very easy and I enjoyed being pregnant.

Posted by exoskeleton
imagining*, lol

and hey diva. 🙂

hey exo

Posted by DMV
im scared shitless of losing my body and life. my money, everything. i wont be able to pick up and go to miami or to la for shitts and giggles.

This is true for me,so in that case I say I'm scared to have kids too soon. I don't mind them after I've been married for a while and have had time to enjoy my husband and our lives together.

Posted by MzSag
...but as far as having children, no!

I can't wait to settle down and have children! I think my biggest fear would be letting them down and not giving them the absolute best... but scared? Nah.

+1

Honestly, I've been ready to be a husband and a father for a while now. Just haven't met the right woman.