No commitment but exclusive..,?

Seriously I just don't get him, I ran net my venus Gemini took over n did some nasty things to get bak at this sag ( venus in Scorpio ) coz he doesn't want commitment. After a bit, we sorted things out n according to him** all of the sudden we are sleeping with other people and I am a bad guy—** no commitment but so caring, affectionate, apparently been exclusive with me for a long time n have not kissed another since... While I was out there giving him revenge... What the heck? I am on a holiday now n he said a long the line that we will do something when I get back... Confused as hell.. Now what am I kissing another another guy or what lol— Told him I loved him in person finally n was responded by the most passionate n intense deep soul kissing moment... Me ? Lost as ever .. his words n action in person don't match. If it's the sex, he wud b having sex with me but he cares about my health n spend 90 percent holding, kissin n touching each other like we r in love? Oh dear... I'm in trouble I told him... Must b the venus in Scorpio n moon in Capricorn n sun sag fighting like no tomorrow T-T

Oh, we had a huge fight after I been dating other ppl , according to him it wasn't discussed I just decided to do it.. But it was him who didn't want a serious commitment....n e way my point is now what lol? Do I have fun, date etc or do I remain loyal.. Well I guess now according to him his loyalty is bigger than mine ... don't get this at all..... Help lol

Well I'm a Scorpio Sun and Venus.

the scorpio venus will make him very romantic. umm don't badger him to date you, even if you like him alot.

scorpios are pretty much straight up people--the good ones anyway. try not to see what is not there.

just ask him straight out how he feels about you, just come out and say "hey, we have been talking to each other for awhile now, and I was just wondering where do you see this going between us?" If he is decent you should get the truth. if you ever have a doubt about his feelings for you, then ask him that without pressure, if you keep getting the same answer, then that is most likely what he really feels for you, regardless of what he wants

my experience with this situation as a scorpio, is that this Virgo chick liked me. she wanted a relationship, but i was going through some relationship stuff from the past, so i could not go out with her. she wanted to have babies and all, but sadly i wanted to have a relationship but not to settle down. she was not the right one for me to settle down, and its not her fault just things i have in my head about what i envisioned.

in the end with the Virgo, she got mad at me and hated me because i did not have a relationship with her. she did not even hear my reasoning, and i TOLD her i just wanted a FWB. i was 100% honest with her by letting her know from the get go what my intentions were, but she like me so much she thought she could change my mind or something

now with the Taurus girl, i wanted a relationship with her, but she was so pushy and stuff we never really got together. she tries to play hard to get but it never really worked

listen to the words coming from the scorpio when he tells you his intentions with you, whatever they are

scorpios usually know what they want in their head, and they don't let many people in their heads

Looks like your boyfriend is a sag man. Sagittarius males usually keep you hanging in there. When they are having some sort of affair with you, they give their 100% . It is like a relationship. They "love" you so much and give you all the attention (sometimes too much). They can not separate sex from romance. Their concept of sex includes romance (at least in the case of my ex sag boyfriend). They are big time lovers of the chase. He may get mad at you for seeing other guys but that alone brings him back to you vying for your attention.

You should play along. Give him your 90% , flirt and keep him on his toes. Don't over do it but don't be available at his command. Keep some gaps. Be gone for a week from his life without any contact or minimal contact. You will keep him for a long time. This is only applicable if your boyfriend is a sag.