Playing it too Cool?

To all the signs and my fellow horses,

Have you ever felt like youve missed out on someone or something from playing it too cool?

Yup

Possibly yes... and now, you've gone and made me think.

Neptune in Sag, H7-- claiming that. 😛

Posted by beautifuldiaster
I always feel like I give intensity when its needed.

I play it cool when I feel restricted.

And I believe in how I feel, I trust it, my gut instinct is my compass and more often that not, I wish I had played it cool, MORE often.

so youre a no?

Yes and no.

When it comes to the "someones" it's kind of a mind over matter thing.....
The good ones saw right through me. & those go didn't probably weren't worth it

I think someone just unlocked the secrets of the universe.

Yeah, it happened. And it bothers you later. It's always what if... Like an itch you can't scratch, but is always there, bothering you. If I didn't done this, could it...if I called/didn't called, texted/didn't texted, would it make any difference.

As a Sag male I'm mostly sorry cause sometimes because of our short temper I overreacted and ruined some potentionally good relationships. After that no sorry can help, but damn, we can really hurt someone with harsh words if we feel betrayed or if somebody lies. 🙂 But damn, nobody's perfect. 🙂

Posted by MercuryinSagittarius
Dmv,

This is sweet! I hope not. 😢.

sometimez you gotta put the pride to the side and realize on some things, you were indeed wrong and some opportunities slipped right through your fingerz.

Posted by Montgomery
Possibly yes... and now, you've gone and made me think.

Neptune in Sag, H7-- claiming that. 😛

8

Ive been thinking alot as well.

I think my earthiness is hardworking, YET, it makes me lazy and inflates my ego. Or maybe the trine between my mars and venus makes me too cool and nonchalant. Warped thinking that things should be handed down to me. Thing should come to me.

Nope, thats soooo not right. No risk, no reward.

sorry, my cancer rising is using DXP like a diary again.

Posted by bnr7013
Never.

What is meant for me will never miss me & what misses me was never meant for me. I lay low a lot but when I want someone or something I go for it - devise a plan & I move forward. If it doesn't work then I try to understand the lesson. I times two some of what beautifuldisaster said ...***that feeling*** tells me what I need to know.

My case too.

Also I have this bad sagi habbit that when they come later I may not be interested anymore. Last time this happened it was for a monkey-scorpio-libra-virgo-virgo man.

Posted by DMV
To all the signs and my fellow horses,

Have you ever felt like youve missed out on someone or something from playing it too cool?

Naw. I've missed out because I was being too stubborn and my ego was huge.

Wait that's what you mean right? 😐 so yeah, I guess so lol....

Posted by BlackNova
did you nod off during foreplay, DMV?

Lol naw

Posted by busyeyes88

Posted by Sugarfoot
Nope.

I need someone who is bold and direct. You know the saying, you have to start how you want to finish. I don't want to start anything by taking the lead and then always being expected to take the lead.

I feel if I play it cool and nothing happens, nothing was supposed to happen.

The kind of "man" who sits on the fence whilst a bold and direct woman pursues you first?!! Hmmm

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Busy I don't know if you're aware of this but Sugarfoot is a woman 🙂