prringLeo/Archer-(Sag/Aries advice)

Call it soulmate, fate, or just lust - I don't know, but I swear I never thought it possible to meet someone who completely 100% "gets it" - and what I mean by "gets it", understands what it means to give 110% in a relationship, doesn't expect it in return, but gets it back because that's the way it should be. Understands freedom, but respects committment. Challenges me and I challenge him, all the while having fun, laughing, but at times get in to great deep conversations always leaving wanting more.

I know as a Sag he needs to have his freedom and I want to give him that (he knows that back door is always open). I put no boundaries on him, give him no ultimatums, I want him to be free, I want to watch him be free. I also understand that my heavy Aries background can get in the way, but he knows that as well - we laugh, we respect, we watch each other be ourselves but also protect and watch out for one another with a great intensity. It's crazy.

I'm the female Aries in the relationship, he's the Sag - I'm 38 he's 47 which I think has been the key - having an older wiser Sag.

I've read where this combination is better for the shorter run and better to remain just friends for the long run. We are great friends no doubt, but the want/need and underlying feelings for each other romantically are just incredible - we may just implode from the weight of the need to be together - that's how it feels sometimes.

I keep waiting for the other shoe to drop, for something to go wrong to make it all turn south.

I was wondering if the other planets may have some sort of negative influence between us - I have a tendency to over analyze at times:

ME:
Sun-Aries
Moon-Aries
Venus-Aries
Mars-Sag
Mercury-Taurus
Ascend-Scorp

HIM:
Sun-Sag
Moon-Cancer
Venus-Scorpio
Mars-Sag
Mercury-Sag
Ascend-Gemini

Thoughts are greatly appreciated. Some of the wisdom on this board really is quiet astounding.

Run

Thank you for taking the time to do this.

It all makes sense and it all pretty much rings true - we do sense times of "rough" communication but we talk it through and figure it out.

I really think age/maturity and our life experiences will see us through.

Archer - check your PM.

Thanks Archer - yes, to everything you said. It took him a while to get to the planning thing, but he's always asking about "the hypothetical" the "what if this happened in the future" type scenario - of course the hypothetical has to do with us. It's cute. He tests me, he puts me on the spot, asks the direct question and expects the honest answer - which I give him everytime. I think it would be quiet amusing actually to watch one of our conversations.

The funny thing is, now that I "see" him better and understand where he's coming from, I respect him that much more - I saw somewhere in a previous post where you said something along the lines of:

I want my man to fulfill his dreams and live the way he wishes, I would never make him change a single attribute...BUT there is no compromise on integrity... you are right,,,, WE WANT BACK ONLY WHAT WE GIVE OUT TO YOU.... total trust and complete belonging"

I see this in him and that's what I want in return. I want to watch him enjoy his freedom with total trust and he wants that for me. It's borderline sick!

Also, check you PM in a bit - I have a question or two.

Thanks!!

Run