Really tempted to contact the scorpio...

I can't stop thinking about him. He was even in my dreams.
He never texted me back when I texted him a few days ago so there is this pull to just let it go, but an even stronger pull to text him and ask what is up with him. Idk if that's the best move to make tho, if any... right now I'm probably thinking off of some pretty insane thoughts so I figured I'd come here and get a clear perspective on what I should do.

Still have this leo I like, but he's very slow so right now it's a tie between him and the scorpio.

I don't need to make a decision now, but I did read the horoscope today (these are almost always accurate for me)

"Conversations and sharing plans and ideas with those you are closest to are very beneficial now. You understand what others are telling you, and you make yourself clearly understood also. This is a favorable time for getting your message across to someone special, so get on that phone or email! Tell them how you really feel and you might get a return response that's far more favorable than you anticipated."

Makes me wonder if I should talk to the scorpio....or maybe if it's something to do with the leo. So confusing. Insight please 🙂

i texted my scorp the day b4 valentines day. he texted back immediately. i could tell he missed me and was estatic that the lines of communication have reopened. i texted him back just as quick. and he replied, even quicker. probably smiling his butt off the entire time. i think he hates the fact that hes in love with me. he wants to confront his feelings but cant seem to do it. plus i have my own BS. i hurt him and he hurts me right back. i am also uncomfortable being in love with him.

at first i hated myself for texting him and not sticking to my guns, but i was SO relieved when i did. it was like i set my own self free. you know?


*i say text him. hes probably too chicken shit to text you. hes scurred. the leo is a good match for you, but you and me both know that the scorp is the truth. i was actually thinking bout the leo last night.

**funny, how we both feel the same thing right now. what was your dream like? i had a pretty vivid one last night; there was a lot of construction going on.

@happy, follow your heart and you will never be wrong.

My dream was about the texts he'd sent me that friday I was out with the cappy. I had been talking about it with my sister a lil yesterday and she said he could have found me telling him to respect that I was busy offensive. I don't think this was true because he responded back tht he did respect what I was doing, but still I had a dream that he was mad about it and didn't really want to talk to me, but we talked anyway and then he left, but in such a where I could tell he still liked me and wanted me to contact him. I'm waiting till around 7 to contact him as he gets off work around this time. That'll give me plenty of time to think/ receive more responses from others on here

Posted by happykitsune
My dream was about the texts he'd sent me that friday I was out with the cappy. I had been talking about it with my sister a lil yesterday and she said he could have found me telling him to respect that I was busy offensive. I don't think this was true because he responded back tht he did respect what I was doing, but still I had a dream that he was mad about it and didn't really want to talk to me, but we talked anyway and then he left, but in such a where I could tell he still liked me and wanted me to contact him. I'm waiting till around 7 to contact him as he gets off work around this time. That'll give me plenty of time to think/ receive more responses from others on here

no fear! what could happen?

1.) he doesnt respond
2.) he responds

either way, your intial text is enough. communicating without communicating.

I think the whole fear is that the first time we stopped talking I figured I at least didn't annoy him. With texting him and asking what's up it puts him on the spot and force him to either respond or not respond and then it could be awkward next time we see each other, if ever.

Posted by happykitsune
I think the whole fear is that the first time we stopped talking I figured I at least didn't annoy him. With texting him and asking what's up it puts him on the spot and force him to either respond or not respond and then it could be awkward next time we see each other, if ever.

yeah i felt like i was annoying him at times 2. so your worried that he wont return the "missing" feeling? the fear of rejection?

it will always be awkward. i dont know why. what is it usually like between you 2? are you both relaxed in the same room? OR do you feel like your always on guard? like your aware or him and the tension thats being created?

aware of him*

Idk I guess you could say it's a mix. I'm aware of him and I do keep on guard, but it's so that when he does throw things at me like saying "oh so you don't want to sit with me? that's cool, I'll just take up the whole couch"...really just teasing me, I'm able to send back a sassy comeback. But I can be very comfortable with him during sex and when were just sensually touching each other.
I guess I'd have to say that I'm more so aware of him than I am mellowed out with him

Posted by happykitsune
Idk I guess you could say it's a mix. I'm aware of him and I do keep on guard, but it's so that when he does throw things at me like saying "oh so you don't want to sit with me? that's cool, I'll just take up the whole couch"...really just teasing me, I'm able to send back a sassy comeback. But I can be very comfortable with him during sex and when were just sensually touching each other.
I guess I'd have to say that I'm more so aware of him than I am mellowed out with him

yes i have the same feeling around my scorp. its most likely your scorpio moon.

Probably is the moon is scorpio...oh that silly moon...

What could happen? I could lose him. Idk why I care so much tho...maybe it's because we clicked so well and had so much in common. I'd hate to lose another person that had so much in common with me. Also I hate hurting again..But I guess if I don't do this I will never know what could have been...at least that's wht my sagi guy friend told me

No, lose him as a friend. If I could even just keep him as a friend I'd like that. Just being around him is nice. Talking to him is even better.
As a sagi I don't like to burn bridges and lose people, whether they be friend, lover, aquaintance so I'm really hoping this doesn't annoy him :/

I really dunno. Once I reas somewhere that scorpio people show their affection intensely. So, if s/he does not show affection any more, it means s/he is not interested any more. In other words, it is a lot easier to understand if a scorpio is into you or not. Bcs scorps will make it obvious.

Just do it. What is the worst that could happen? They always miss you anyway. Even if you see them every week 😛

Yea and this goes for anyone.

If someone liked you once they can like you again. No matter what happened. All that matters is how you go about it.


All you have to do is be the person you were before they didn't.


It's like traveling back in time in way. I've been living proof of this lately.


It's fun🙂

Alright I'm gonna go for it...not sure how to word it tho... I want to word it in a way where it is a question that he will answer but not feel cornered hmmm :/

Posted by Sagittarius89
Yea and this goes for anyone.

If someone liked you once they can like you again. No matter what happened. All that matters is how you go about it.


All you have to do is be the person you were before they didn't.


It's like traveling back in time in way. I've been living proof of this lately.


It's fun🙂

I love this!

Posted by Sagittarius89
Yea and this goes for anyone.

If someone liked you once they can like you again. No matter what happened. All that matters is how you go about it.


All you have to do is be the person you were before they didn't.


It's like traveling back in time in way. I've been living proof of this lately.


It's fun🙂

awesomeness

I was actually just thinking of a simple "hey"

o.o I wasn't being naughty about it tho...

No not at all because that's not the way it's happened or will happen. I've never fallen for more than one guy at a time. I may find qualities in two that I like, but falling for a guy takes a lot for me.
Also I don't just want this scorpio for sex or I would have texted him back last friday saying I'd be right over.
Yes I enjoy teh sex, but come on, I actually want a relationship too

Texted him. We had a short convo basically asking if he was mad at me about the texts from friday and he said no and asked why. Nothing else beyond that so I'm just gonna drop it until it haunts me again

lol...talking to yourself?

Posted by THEKingofLibra

Posted by happykitsune
o.o I wasn't being naughty about it tho...

Dude I'm confused. Its all rather simple.

You either like the guy or not. As it stands right now you don't really like the guy, but you want to explore the sexual avenue with him. Which is disgusting in own right, but I digress.

So you gonna text him, he is gonna text you, pull the classic push-pull with you, then rape you a little, then you gonna push him away afer 2 weeks, he is gonna amplify that shit back at you and you wont talk to each other for a month

But really, who gives a shit. Then some other random guy will come along and you'll casually date him, maybe a blowjob here and there, until this scorp guy comes back into the picture and now you are juggling 2 cocks in your mind, can't quite decide and unwilling to commit you find yourself a third guy.

You see a pattern here? Its hilarious.

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