Sag and break ups

This topic was created in the Sagittarius forum by Sagg101 on Thursday, April 24, 2014 and has 8 replies.

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12 Years

I'm so sick of feeling so low. I miss being happy and bubbly and alive. I feel so emotionally dead. Is it true that Sags are bad with dealing with emotions ?

How do you guys deal with break ups ?

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12 Years

Posted by mariathesag
As a scorp moon, it takes me years to get over someone, and the obssession is still there long after the physicality of it is gone

I have a scorp moon to. So I'm going to feel like this for a while?

I'm usually good at forgetting the pass and moving on but this hurts like a knife

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15 Years25,000+ PostsSagittarius

Posted by mariathesag
As a scorp moon, it takes me years to get over someone, and the obssession is still there long after the physicality of it is gone

aint that the truth. I have to completely remove the person from my life. no facebook, blocked calls. you must not exist.

its the only way i can get over people.

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15 Years25,000+ PostsSagittarius

Posted by Sagg101
Posted by mariathesag
As a scorp moon, it takes me years to get over someone, and the obssession is still there long after the physicality of it is gone

I have a scorp moon to. So I'm going to feel like this for a while?

I'm usually good at forgetting the pass and moving on but this hurts like a knife

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you need a new obsession. work, friends, hobby, something else to occupy your thoughts.

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12 Years

Posted by DMV
Posted by mariathesag
As a scorp moon, it takes me years to get over someone, and the obssession is still there long after the physicality of it is gone

aint that the truth. I have to completely remove the person from my life. no facebook, blocked calls. you must not exist.

its the only way i can get over people.

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Can I ask, my sag has ended our relationship but she is in pain and is hurting and is confused if she has made the right decision, however im very much still in her life, she wants me around and as soon as I retreat she panics, shen spends time with me but zero intimacy, when i dont contact her she asks if im ok, she actively asks me to come over to see the kids etc, what is she up to? from reading the above it seems she isnt ready to cut me out of her life?

I asked her out to the cinema last week and its not a "never" its a "im not ready for that yet" yet?! so she will be ready sometime just not now!!?? i'm so confused with her

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Posted by Stryker77
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Posted by mariathesag
As a scorp moon, it takes me years to get over someone, and the obssession is still there long after the physicality of it is gone

aint that the truth. I have to completely remove the person from my life. no facebook, blocked calls. you must not exist.

its the only way i can get over people.

Can I ask, my sag has ended our relationship but she is in pain and is hurting and is confused if she has made the right decision, however im very much still in her life, she wants me around and as soon as I retreat she panics, shen spends time with me but zero intimacy, when i dont contact her she asks if im ok, she actively asks me to come over to see the kids etc, what is she up to? from reading the above it seems she isnt ready to cut me out of her life?

I asked her out to the cinema last week and its not a "never" its a "im not ready for that yet" yet?! so she will be ready sometime just not now!!?? i'm so confused with her

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tbh all that "i dont know" would get her next'd. i cant stand it when men are all "i dont know" "im busy" "I will let you know"

dude, aint nobody got time for that.

Listen up virgo, dont be a pushover and so mutable that she walks all over you. put your goddamn foot down and read her the riot act. Stop waiting on her to make a decision and then proceed accordingly. How about you make a decision to drop her ass and exactly why and let her eat your dust.

You need to tell her that all this idk shit is for the birds. Your either down for me or your not. You either forgive and move on or you dont.

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12 Years

Ha I guess I'll man up, I gave her a talking to tonight about where I am and that it won't last treating me like this because I'll be gone, she mellowed a little but she has got some deep anger