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Incest Fantasies?
Understanding Incest Fantasies and Their Psychological Context
Incest fantasies are common and often reflect subconscious desires or curiosity. They do not imply real intent or behavior. If such topics arise in conversation, it’s important to set boundaries and consider the psychological reasons behind these thoughts. Consulting a mental health professional can provide clarity and support.
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Is there any hope of blaming it on auto-correct?
Posted by certified
TMV, I asked you not to share this shit on dxp, dude...-_-
let's just take a break from texting eachother for now if you're gonna be all closed minded and shit.
ROFLMAO!
Is there any hope of blaming it on auto-correct?
Unfortunately not. There was... explicit details that... not even in my most deluded imaginings could be misconstrued as an auto-correct error. Pretty deliberate.
for shame
Posted by DonAmanMarat
Let's FUCK! I'll FUCK Anything that Moves!!!! LMAO at this thread.
LOL no normal human being would even think of fucking their family members. Gross!
*ever.
Is there any hope of blaming it on auto-correct?
Unfortunately not. There was... explicit details that... not even in my most deluded imaginings could be misconstrued as an auto-correct error. Pretty deliberate.
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I think I'd be inclined to sever the relationship.
I have no idea how, though-- sorry. :/
Just running with something like that, not knowing how it will be received; awfully presumptuous on their part.
Yeesh.
quite the oxymoron??_ incest + fantasy. LOLOLOLOLOL
incest nightmare perhaps.
I'm not surprised by any of that at all.
People are more "adventurous" sexually than we think, and if not??_ we're all curious. imo, our tastes varies as much as our personalities. to think that sex falls into a few categories and will always be satisfying in a few flavors is really closed minded.
incest??_ ehhh, yea that's weird. but i can see how some people can get off on the idea of sex with a step-family member.
LMAO @ this thread. I don't know how to answer but let me just say, the know it alls of the psychology world say it's not that unusual to develop some kind of crush on a family member. The chemicals in your brain responsible for attraction don't discriminate. I was reading about this just yesterday in one of those "Ask a Dr" sections of a magazines. This girl had sexual fantasies about her uncle. The doctor said it is not uncommon at all, it's just that nobody talks about it for fear of being judged, etc. So, the feelings are healthy but acting on them is not.
This thread reminds me of Sante Kimes & her son. They had a long time sexual affair even when his father( her husband) was still alive. Most parents don't move with their children to college, but Sante did. She lived at the same dorm as her son! How? I don't how but she pulled it off. They went on to become a fantastic duo, robbing & scamming people from state - state. Dubbed by the media "Mommy & Clyde". LMAO
He was fantasizing about doing you and one of your family members? It's not incestuous for him or am I missing a piece of the puzzle?
It would be gross for you to engage in the act with your relative, but not for him/her. I've wanted to do the guy I was dating relatives before, but that's because I really liked their family... A father/son duo fantasy entered my mind once (not MY family though!). I would have to kill myself.
What goes through your head when you start to think of something like that? Besides the obvious.
Maybe (s)he's just *special* like that, which is fine. Just let me walk away from that shit.
Posted by DonAmanMarat
Let's FUCK! I'll FUCK Anything that Moves!!!! LMAO at this thread.LOL no normal human being would even think of fucking their family members. Gross!
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No normal human would even have these types of discussions unless they was in therapy..but the OP is an admitted tranny dick sucker so you can only imagine the types of creeps she deals with
No normal human would even have these types of discussions unless they was in therapy..but the OP is an admitted tranny dick sucker so you can only imagine the types of creeps she deals with
You're trying too hard, Damen. At least work on some new material lol.
Posted by WaterCup
LMAO @ this thread. I don't know how to answer but let me just say, the know it alls of the psychology world say it's not that unusual to develop some kind of crush on a family member. The chemicals in your brain responsible for attraction don't discriminate. I was reading about this just yesterday in one of those "Ask a Dr" sections of a magazines. This girl had sexual fantasies about her uncle. The doctor said it is not uncommon at all, it's just that nobody talks about it for fear of being judged, etc. So, the feelings are healthy but acting on them is not.
Ok, NO!
Amino acids are the building blocks of the proteins that are found in our bodies. The closer relation to another person, the more similar the amino acids are to our own, and since we subconsciously reacting to pheromones that transmit their genetic compatibility which is different than our own, because our sexual cues evolved to protect close family members from procreating. So you should not be sexually attracted to a close relative!
The olfactory system is equipped with highly organized neural circuits from the olfactory epithelium to the olfactory bulb. We detect a huge variety of odorants in the environment; transmit the information to the brain; and convert it into appropriate output responses, including odor perception and discrimination, emotional change, hormonal release control, and behavioral expression.
So if you wanna fuck your siblings, parents, aunts, uncles or first cousins, you are like literally genetically fucked!
Is your immediate family member a twin sister or a sister very close in age to you?
I've heard of guys fantasizing about threesome with hot twins, etc.
It's not incestuous for HIM, and he probably thinks it won't be for you either, since "you should BOTH be focusing on HIM, and not each other".... smh!
It's still creepy beyond belief to me, so I'd just back away slowly...
Posted by WaterCup
LMAO @ this thread. I don't know how to answer but let me just say, the know it alls of the psychology world say it's not that unusual to develop some kind of crush on a family member. The chemicals in your brain responsible for attraction don't discriminate. I was reading about this just yesterday in one of those "Ask a Dr" sections of a magazines. This girl had sexual fantasies about her uncle. The doctor said it is not uncommon at all, it's just that nobody talks about it for fear of being judged, etc. So, the feelings are healthy but acting on them is not.Ok, NO!
Amino acids are the building blocks of the proteins that are found in our bodies. The closer relation to another person, the more similar the amino acids are to our own, and since we subconsciously reacting to pheromones that transmit their genetic compatibility which is different than our own, because our sexual cues evolved to protect close family members from procreating. So you should not be sexually attracted to a close relative!
The olfactory system is equipped with highly organized neural circuits from the olfactory epithelium to the olfactory bulb. We detect a huge variety of odorants in the environment; transmit the information to the brain; and convert it into appropriate output responses, including odor perception and discrimination, emotional change, hormonal release control, and behavioral expression.
So if you wanna fuck your siblings, parents, aunts, uncles or first cousins, you are like literally genetically fucked!
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Tell the bolded part to the people involved in such relationships. What I wrote is what was written by the doctor in the article I read. I'm not an expert in how the brain works. All I know though is that people do fuck their aunts, grandfathers, etc. Plus they claim that the relationships are intense.
Another thing, cousin to cousin relationships are a norm in other cultures & those people do sleep with each other. So, are you saying that all of them must be genetically fucked just because they can get it up for cousin Pushpa?
Cousin Pushpa
Posted by geminicandIe
WC, why do they marry each other?My mom works with someone who went to their country to bring their aunt's daughter to USA and marry her.I attended their wedding, lol.
I guess it is the NORM! He had to do what parents choose for him, and parents choose someone familiar, from family!! Ha!
IDK why & they have no real answers either other than "it's been done for generations" in their culture. My friend's sister is also married to her cousin, her father's brother's son. The girl is currently expecting. As long as they don't share parents they are good to marry.
Posted by munchkin
Is your immediate family member a twin sister or a sister very close in age to you?I've heard of guys fantasizing about threesome with hot twins, etc.
It's not incestuous for HIM, and he probably thinks it won't be for you either, since "you should BOTH be focusing on HIM, and not each other".... smh!
It's still creepy beyond belief to me, so I'd just back away slowly...
Unfortunately no. If it was my sister I could understand that. It's still a disturbing thought for me, but I would at least get that one.
Posted by SanchoMuyTerrible
Ew, was it your dad?
This one gets a cookie.
The best thing to do is to tell them openly and honestly, you are not into it, and if they continue to bug you, you won't be able to stay friends either.
I know. I'm trying very, very hard to understand and not get all judgey but I'm having a hard time dealing with this one.
I'm probably just being dramatic but I still need perspective.
Both my siblings are big fat hairy guys... Nope, never had incest fantasies.
As a teenager I fantasized that my mom would remarry and I could fuck a hot stepsister...does that count?
Posted by LibraSid
Both my siblings are big fat hairy guys... Nope, never had incest fantasies.As a teenager I fantasized that my mom would remarry and I could fuck a hot stepsister...does that count?
LOL
You're dating a woman (right?) ...even then that's fucking weird to want to see father/daughter incest. That's more perverted than my fantasies. mother/daughter or sister/sister I could understand, but father/daughter and mother/son are not what mentally okay people actually wish to see. I wouldn't even admit to people that I watch that kind of porn. Most people wouldn't.
The one in question is female, yes.
What people fantasize about in their own heads or choose for pornography, that's pretty whatever to me. As long as it isn't like an authentic snuff film or anything like that where people are actually being hurt, it's all pretty harmless, nonthreatening.
It's the actively wanting another person to participate in this... that's where I'm running into some trouble.
Posted by SanchoMuyTerrible
Ew, was it your dad?This one gets a cookie.
You're dating a woman (right?) ...even then that's fucking weird to want to see father/daughter incest. That's more perverted than my fantasies. mother/daughter or sister/sister I could understand, but father/daughter and mother/son are not what mentally okay people actually wish to see. I wouldn't even admit to people that I watch that kind of porn. Most people wouldn't.
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Parent/child incestuous relationships are actually very common. There's a site, I forgot its name but I'll write it as soon as I remember. Anyway, they have over a million members from all over the world in such relationships & most are in it with their own parents. I remember reading one story by a woman from Europe. She is married but continues to sleep with her own father. She said it started while she was a teen & was talking to her father about boys. So to "help" her learn how to master some skills, he taught her.
In their site they also have a section where people have only fantasized about doing certain things with their parents & they put those fantasies in writing on the site.
I was obsessed with the site for a while because some of the stories were intriguing & I couldn't stop myself lol. It was gross but hey, I'm curious about the things other people do behind closed doors.
So you should not be sexually attracted to a close relative!
If you wanna fuck your siblings, parents, aunts, uncles or first cousins, you are like literally genetically fucked!Tell the bolded part to the people involved in such relationships. What I wrote is what was written by the doctor in the article I read. I'm not an expert in how the brain works. All I know though is that people do fuck their aunts, grandfathers, etc. Plus they claim that the relationships are intense.
Another thing, cousin to cousin relationships are a norm in other cultures & those people do sleep with each other. So, are you saying that all of them must be genetically fucked just because they can get it up for cousin Pushpa?
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You think I wouldn't tell them? But than again Idk who Pushpa is, or if that person would have the context to understand. But google tells me first that its a female Indian name, and a culture where historically sexual attraction as little to nothing to do marriage, but wikipeadia is also telling me its not legal to marry your first cousin there and Hinduism forbid marriage until the degree of 6th cousin. Its not my intent to insult any culture, but the disadvantages of incestuous reproduction is well documented, whither its practiced or not.
And yes I think its rational to conclude, first cousins are a little too close for comfort.
So you should not be sexually attracted to a close relative!
If you wanna fuck your siblings, parents, aunts, uncles or first cousins, you are like literally genetically fucked!Tell the bolded part to the people involved in such relationships. What I wrote is what was written by the doctor in the article I read. I'm not an expert in how the brain works. All I know though is that people do fuck their aunts, grandfathers, etc. Plus they claim that the relationships are intense.
Another thing, cousin to cousin relationships are a norm in other cultures & those people do sleep with each other. So, are you saying that all of them must be genetically fucked just because they can get it up for cousin Pushpa?
You think I wouldn't tell them? But than again Idk who Pushpa is, or if that person would have the context to understand. But google tells me first that its a female Indian name, and a culture where historically sexual attraction as little to nothing to do marriage, but wikipeadia is also telling me its not legal to marry your first cousin there and Hinduism forbid marriage until the degree of 6th cousin. Its not my intent to insult any culture, but the disadvantages of incestuous reproduction is well documented, whither its practiced or not.
And yes I think its rational to conclude, first cousins are a little too close for comfort.
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My point is, they still arouse each other regardless of the relationship between them. Whether marriage over there has anything to do with attraction or not, they are still getting it on, is my point. Google must have incorrect data because my friend's sister just married her cousin in december 2013. They even have the same surname!
You must understand that some people will continue with tradition regardless of what the law says. Like in my country for an example...young boys are encouraged to seek medical circumcision than go get it done the traditional way due to the high risk of infections. But they still go against the law & do it anyway because it's their tradition/culture.
Actually the Middle East has highest accounts of first and second cousin marriages and in some nations close to 50% , but forced marriages (not arranged marriages) is also highly prevalent. So I assume that sexual preference isn't really considered there either.
But that's my point, it's not if you marry your cousin that something??s wrong with you, but if you are in fact sexually attracted to your close relative instinctively, not conditionally. Then something inside of you isn't functioning the way it does in the majority.
Idk man family tree's can get funny. Cus by western law you can legally marry your second cousin, but I would not be able to legally marry my second cousins on mothers side, because we have a first cousin genetic relationship.
Which has nothing to do with incest and everything to do with our grandmothers being sisters who married our grandfathers who where brothers.
Posted by Astrobyn
Actually the Middle East has highest accounts of first and second cousin marriages and in some nations close to 50% , but forced marriages (not arranged marriages) is also highly prevalent. So I assume that sexual preference isn't really considered there either.But that's my point, it's not if you marry your cousin that something??s wrong with you, but if you are in fact sexually attracted to your close relative instinctively, not conditionally. Then something inside of you isn't functioning the way it does in the majority.
I'm not an expert so I can't say for certain that something must be wrong. IDK. People are complex.
Posted by DonAmanMarat
In the Middle East they fuck goats and eat their mothers' genatalia...let's not bring in the sadistic muhammads in here, make me sick! You get to hear of 9 year old girls being married to a 65 year old virgin grandpa....another day in Afghanistan.
I married & have dated "Muhammads"...they are nothing like that. Many treat their mother like gods. Ever heard the term "Ma kasam"? It's like an oath, similar to putting your hand on the Bible swearing to tell the truth & nothing but. Ma kasam = I swear on my mother
Posted by DonAmanMarat
Why are we getting all serious about this anyway? People joke about incest all the time (except in the Middle East where beastiality and incest are a common occurance) OP took this WAY TOO serious with his/her dirty mind. Who knows, maybe TMV gotta few lose screws here...fantasizing incest and all?
I've heard women call men mother-fuckers, but an African man would kill you if you said such a thing to him. Other people dont take that kind of talk lightly. They'll have you wearing your own intestines as a necklace. IJS
Posted by DonAmanMarat
Why are we getting all serious about this anyway?
idk why you assume its so damn serious?
It may just be a topic that some find interesting or more importantly a little challenging to explore. There is really only so much effort I'm willing to put into a topic like Manscaping or what makes a person "creepy".
Posted by DonAmanMarat
In the Middle East they fuck goats and eat their mothers' genatalia...let's not bring in the sadistic muhammads in here, make me sick! You get to hear of 9 year old girls being married to a 65 year old virgin grandpa....another day in Afghanistan.I married & have dated "Muhammads"...they are nothing like that. Many treat their mother like gods. Ever heard the term "Ma kasam"? It's like an oath, similar to putting your hand on the Bible swearing to tell the truth & nothing but. Ma kasam = I swear on my mother
"Ma kasam" means having to bury your mother with her genitalia clipped off and having them on your dinner plate...trust me. They eat their parents' genitals so they can have parents' spirit "relived and burning in their heart." Islam is a Pagan Moon cult, after all...what do you expect? They worship sex and death under this false pretense of "peaceful religion," NOPE! Everything the bible condemns, qu'ran permits: incest, pedophilia, beastiality, rape, sexual abuse, murder, theft, bullshitting the non-muhammads and whatever more devilry that deserves to get burnt on stake.
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I rest my case. Americans are the most ignorant people on earth. Another person on yahoo made ignorant jokes about mud huts. Too many retards over there. Some of you do need to travel before spewing these ignorant statements. It makes you appear illiterate.
Posted by DonAmanMarat
Why are we getting all serious about this anyway? People joke about incest all the time (except in the Middle East where beastiality and incest are a common occurance) OP took this WAY TOO serious with his/her dirty mind. Who knows, maybe TMV gotta few lose screws here...fantasizing incest and all?I've heard women call men mother-fuckers, but an African man would kill you if you said such a thing to him. Other people dont take that kind of talk lightly. They'll have you wearing your own intestines as a necklace. IJS
Ya? Well...I sure do hear a lot of "motherfucker" in rap lyrics.
...And they sure do say motherfucker a lot round where I'm from and I dont see no one getting their stomachs ripped open for it. Maybe a rare fight here and there but no dead bodies for a fucked mother.click to expand
I was referring to the part where you said people joke about incest all the time. Not where I'm from. People get killed for that sort of thing in other parts of the world. Again, IJS.
*raises hand*
Excuse me, DonAmanMarat does not speak for me, and that comment is just as ignorant as his.
Posted by Astrobyn
*raises hand*Excuse me, DonAmanMarat does not speak for me, and that comment is just as ignorant as his.
My apologies to the not so ignorant ones ofcourse.
So you should not be sexually attracted to a close relative!
If you wanna fuck your siblings, parents, aunts, uncles or first cousins, you are like literally genetically fucked!Tell the bolded part to the people involved in such relationships. What I wrote is what was written by the doctor in the article I read. I'm not an expert in how the brain works. All I know though is that people do fuck their aunts, grandfathers, etc. Plus they claim that the relationships are intense.
Another thing, cousin to cousin relationships are a norm in other cultures & those people do sleep with each other. So, are you saying that all of them must be genetically fucked just because they can get it up for cousin Pushpa?
You think I wouldn't tell them? But than again Idk who Pushpa is, or if that person would have the context to understand. But google tells me first that its a female Indian name, and a culture where historically sexual attraction as little to nothing to do marriage, but wikipeadia is also telling me its not legal to marry your first cousin there and Hinduism forbid marriage until the degree of 6th cousin. Its not my intent to insult any culture, but the disadvantages of incestuous reproduction is well documented, whither its practiced or not.
And yes I think its rational to conclude, first cousins are a little too close for comfort.
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"The same texts permit marriage between second cousins if the man and woman are related in other ways."
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Some Indians are Muslim--
"India: For Muslims, governed by uncodified personal law, it is acceptable and legal to marry a first cousin."
It isn't good; there is a significantly higher risk for birth defects-- but it's been going on for years.
*shrugs*
Posted by TMV
Hopefully this is the weirdest thing I'll ever have to post about on DXP.Let's say that you're trading text messages of a... *cough* sexual *cough* nature with someone and during the course of that conversation they bring up some rather graphic situations involving you with a member of your immediate family.
How do you respond to something like that? Furthermore, how do deal with that person thereafter?
I can see flack coming a mile away for my message LOL.
It wouldn't freak me out at all. Sexual atraction happens on a subconscious level..if you make the choice to bring it to light then you'll deal with morality issues.
I was attracted to a second cousin of mine..and he was attracted to me too (Virgos smh) but we made light of this and joked around. Nothing ever happened.
This dealing from my side and how I relate to my family.
If someone I was flirting with brought that up...I'd honestly see it as having a vivid imagination. It doesn't need to translate in reality.
I'm an only child and men in my family really are not all that so it would puzzle me if he imagined myself with some guy in my family.
If you think way back though, in different times and cultures..this was not only found acceptable but necessary. Think of all the Royal families for instance.
My advice to you TMV is to relate to your first reaction when you heard that and not intelectualize further.
I have to admit I went through a huge twin incest phase I really put some heat on the porn search engine....especially gay twins going at it hammer and tongs its really rare and it got me off to put it bluntly
Its exquisite and full on to watch. there's that air of narcissism and taboo being brought to the forefront that turns me on and the big "fuck you" to mediocre majority of social norms in itself has its own merits.
Its like as if they are fucking themselves but they just so happen to be their own brother...lol.
to me personally its a hard limit because I value my family too much to cross that line and I have no sexual feelings towards anyone in my family. I'm very affectionate to everyone in my family though thats just the way i am.
and In regards to the ignorants I'm not gonna point my finger and say your ignorant. it's silly and I find it funny when dumb people get offended and think its the worse insult to be called ignorant. I don't know why it feels good for people to express the ignorance and douche baggery online its like the equivelaint of sniffing your own farts in the real world in a room full of other people, its bliss for you but everyone else has to smell your rancid ass.
Since there are so many "open minded" & oh so "non-judgmental" individuals here on DXP, I wonder how many would continue to date a true mother fucker if he confessed.
Posted by WaterCup
Since there are so many "open minded" & oh so "non-judgmental" individuals here on DXP, I wonder how many would continue to date a true mother fucker if he confessed.
no. I'm sorry, I can't compete with that.
Posted by WaterCup
Since there are so many "open minded" & oh so "non-judgmental" individuals here on DXP, I wonder how many would continue to date a true mother fucker if he confessed.no. I'm sorry, I can't compete with that.
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One woman at the scorpio board once wrote about her mother fucking husband & she was still living with him. I believe she was trying to break them up or something like that. It was the most bizarre thread ever.
Posted by geminicandIe
I remember that thread, WC.
I am trying to think of her name...hmmm.I remember p-angel ripping her apart though, lol.
As if it's her fault.
Sure it was not you trolling 😄? If I remember correctly, it was during the time when you used to mess up with the scorps hard. Those days were hilarious. You've grown.
My advice to you TMV is to relate to your first reaction when you heard that and not intelectualize further.
Regurgitate, refuse to understand, drop phone in a bucket of bleach and disappear from the face of the Earth for a while.
Gotcha.
Thing is, people will always follow their first emotional reactions to stuff. If it was that bad..I can only imagine what's going through your mind now.
lol@ bucket of bleach.
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Hopefully this is the weirdest thing I'll ever have to post about on DXP.
Let's say that you're trading text messages of a... *cough* sexual *cough* nature with someone and during the course of that conversation they bring up some rather graphic situations involving you with a member of your immediate family.
How do you respond to something like that? Furthermore, how do deal with that person thereafter?