Sag consuming my mind!!!!

Ok is she sending messages to my brain to think about her!! WHATEVER I do something reminds me of her!!

I'm taking a break from women and getting over her, she is full on in to a young sag now so i'm long gone in her eyes yet something keeps drawing us back in one form or another, granted we have kids but she wants me there more than she wanted her ex ever. I dont want to take things literally but its hard, I cant wait around for her anymore and I told her set times this week I could see the kids (first time we have done this) and she lost it with me!! I was like woooaaah lets take a step back, I'm trying to get on with things (she always says this do to me)

But you know what........ I'm addicted to her and its not good!! I love her to bits even after all the last 4 months and whats been happening, But I'm going to take all your advice and leave her be, if it will happen with us it will happen and I truly believe she hopes for this too but is having too much fun with her new found single fame!!

I dont know where I will be romantically but who knows, its not really known for a sag to go back??

Although she is a Aquarius rising would this be a big influence??

well, you can talk it out here as much as you like 🙂

I dont have too much experience with aqua rising

Posted by DMV
well, you can talk it out here as much as you like 🙂

I dont have too much experience with aqua rising

DMV its good to talk it out here, I feel I'm slowly moving on and I'm putting things in place to occupy myself but she just has me over a barrel mentally!!

Posted by Stryker77

Posted by DMV
well, you can talk it out here as much as you like 🙂

I dont have too much experience with aqua rising

DMV its good to talk it out here, I feel I'm slowly moving on and I'm putting things in place to occupy myself but she just has me over a barrel mentally!!

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I think the fact we had sex 2 weeks ago hasnt helped, She is unbeliavable in bed, no shadow of a doubt, and I'm missing that!! like dynamite....

bwhahahaha its hard to say goodbye to good sex but its possible if the person attached the the penis or vagina isnt healthy for you.

Posted by DMV
bwhahahaha its hard to say goodbye to good sex but its possible if the person attached the the penis or vagina isnt healthy for you.

Ha yes this is something i'm trying to figure out!!! I imagined you actually laughing out loud as you typed that!!

Go date the scorpio

Posted by Sag89
Go date the scorpio

Ha Really? The scorpio I met for a drink was nice but i told her upfront about me so we were cool, I have to say something though, I joined a new gym and got chatting to 2 girls really fun etc but they turn out to be sag's! Have I got a Sag magnet on me or something? my 2 best mates are sag too

Posted by Stryker77

Posted by Sag89
Go date the scorpio

Ha Really? The scorpio I met for a drink was nice but i told her upfront about me so we were cool, I have to say something though, I joined a new gym and got chatting to 2 girls really fun etc but they turn out to be sag's! Have I got a Sag magnet on me or something? my 2 best mates are sag too

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🙂 you must a nonjudgemntal fun person to be around.

your sag has the same bday as me. Cusp of the Revolution

Posted by DMV
your sag has the same bday as me. Cusp of the Revolution

I have to meet you DMV!! _??

Posted by Stryker77

Posted by Sag89
Go date the scorpio

Ha Really? The scorpio I met for a drink was nice but i told her upfront about me so we were cool, I have to say something though, I joined a new gym and got chatting to 2 girls really fun etc but they turn out to be sag's! Have I got a Sag magnet on me or something? my 2 best mates are sag too

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I don't know the situation sounds draining. Wouldn't you rather be with someone who wants to love you like you want?

Posted by Sag89

Posted by Stryker77

Posted by Sag89
Go date the scorpio

Ha Really? The scorpio I met for a drink was nice but i told her upfront about me so we were cool, I have to say something though, I joined a new gym and got chatting to 2 girls really fun etc but they turn out to be sag's! Have I got a Sag magnet on me or something? my 2 best mates are sag too

I don't know the situation sounds draining. Wouldn't you rather be with someone who wants to love you like you want?

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Yes it has the last few weeks been very draining but I've got myself out and about the last few weeks and I feel better and getting my confidence back, I don't know why I can't shake her off though, I literally find it so hard to leave go, she has got me big time

Posted by Stryker77

Posted by Sag89

Posted by Stryker77

Posted by Sag89
Go date the scorpio

Ha Really? The scorpio I met for a drink was nice but i told her upfront about me so we were cool, I have to say something though, I joined a new gym and got chatting to 2 girls really fun etc but they turn out to be sag's! Have I got a Sag magnet on me or something? my 2 best mates are sag too

I don't know the situation sounds draining. Wouldn't you rather be with someone who wants to love you like you want?

Yes it has the last few weeks been very draining but I've got myself out and about the last few weeks and I feel better and getting my confidence back, I don't know why I can't shake her off though, I literally find it so hard to leave go, she has got me big time

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Ok

Posted by aquavita
and what is worse, a poor example to your children. Weak character, a thief. Betrayed your own family trust. The ones u ought to care for most.

Ok aquavita, I know this and your right but I have now made changes in my life to make myself a better person and someone my kids can look up to you, Ive lost my family and home because of my action and that will never leave my soul. Its probably too late for my family but I understand your point and I have heard this from my sag for the last 4 months so its a reality for me, i'm not proud of myself. I just come on here to maybe see if there is a crumb of hope for us, I have had great advice on here and Its nice to speak to different people, I was only asking for a different perspective from different sag's.

Posted by Stryker77
Ok is she sending messages to my brain to think about her!! WHATEVER I do something reminds me of her!!

I'm taking a break from women and getting over her, she is full on in to a young sag now so i'm long gone in her eyes yet something keeps drawing us back in one form or another, granted we have kids but she wants me there more than she wanted her ex ever. I dont want to take things literally but its hard, I cant wait around for her anymore and I told her set times this week I could see the kids (first time we have done this) and she lost it with me!! I was like woooaaah lets take a step back, I'm trying to get on with things (she always says this do to me)

But you know what........ I'm addicted to her and its not good!! I love her to bits even after all the last 4 months and whats been happening, But I'm going to take all your advice and leave her be, if it will happen with us it will happen and I truly believe she hopes for this too but is having too much fun with her new found single fame!!

I dont know where I will be romantically but who knows, its not really known for a sag to go back??

Although she is a Aquarius rising would this be a big influence??

Probably not. I'm a Sag with Aquarius rising and if I've moved on to seeing new people then it means I'm done for good. If there was any hope then I'd still be fighting for the relationship.

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Posted by Stryker77
Ok is she sending messages to my brain to think about her!! WHATEVER I do something reminds me of her!!

I'm taking a break from women and getting over her, she is full on in to a young sag now so i'm long gone in her eyes yet something keeps drawing us back in one form or another, granted we have kids but she wants me there more than she wanted her ex ever. I dont want to take things literally but its hard, I cant wait around for her anymore and I told her set times this week I could see the kids (first time we have done this) and she lost it with me!! I was like woooaaah lets take a step back, I'm trying to get on with things (she always says this do to me)

But you know what........ I'm addicted to her and its not good!! I love her to bits even after all the last 4 months and whats been happening, But I'm going to take all your advice and leave her be, if it will happen with us it will happen and I truly believe she hopes for this too but is having too much fun with her new found single fame!!

I dont know where I will be romantically but who knows, its not really known for a sag to go back??

Although she is a Aquarius rising would this be a big influence??

Probably not. I'm a Sag with Aquarius rising and if I've moved on to seeing new people then it means I'm done for good. If there was any hope then I'd still be fighting for the relationship.

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Thanks I appreciate that, I'll see what happens and let you know if a miracle happens!!!

Posted by CluelessCancer
STryker Good luck. I' feel bad for you. I hope you find a rainbow at the end of the rain.

Thanks, me too....

Posted by DMV
your sag has the same bday as me. Cusp of the Revolution

I totally forgot that we had the same birthday DMV.

@Stryker77 Wow met 3 of us. Whatcha gonna do?? lol

Ha I'm the lucky one here!!

I have to be honest here, it's starting to sound like this is a codependent relationship. I don't like this situation one bit. She's dating another guy and openly tells you about it but you two had sex two weeks ago? You need to leave her alone NOW! She has one foot in and one foot out and you are better than someone giving you pieces of themselves. Yeah, you messed up, SO WHAT! We all make mistakes in life. What matters is what you do after the mistake.

You have control over you mind, emotions, and thoughts. NO ONE should have that kind of control over you EVER!!!

Posted by Sagtastic2
I have to be honest here, it's starting to sound like this is a codependent relationship. I don't like this situation one bit. She's dating another guy and openly tells you about it but you two had sex two weeks ago? You need to leave her alone NOW! She has one foot in and one foot out and you are better than someone giving you pieces of themselves. Yeah, you messed up, SO WHAT! We all make mistakes in life. What matters is what you do after the mistake.

You have control over you mind, emotions, and thoughts. NO ONE should have that kind of control over you EVER!!!

Hi well not exactly true, she is not open at all about this guy she is seeing, I wouldnt have known about it if it wasnt by chance I saw him leave the house and I put 2 and 2 together and we argued and she said she was casually seeing someone etc, yes the sex really messed me up and she regrets it, she doesnt rub this relationship in my face I think its my analytical virgo looking in to it too much.