Sag - Scorp friendships

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Hello lovely Sag's!

I'm a female Scorp and I realized that I tend to attract many Sag female friends, or should I say I tend to meet more female Sag's in the recent years. My closest real friend is a Sag, but I feel like she's more of a Pisces or something because she is a little emotional and very understanding. It's as if we have an understanding of each other, but we are still different. She is very humble and wise.

In the past I had another Sag girlfriend who I felt was envious of me because of the comments she would make or questions she would ask me--as well as my Scorp intuition. As a typical Sag she would harass me with all kinds of forward questions, which was just too much for me as a secretive Scorp. Needless to say I kind of shimmied my way out of this friendship (I do this a lot I think because of my Libra Venus) and she came crying to me and would literally stalk me (maybe her Scorp venus?). I just could not see myself being friends with her because I knew the kind of person she was and that she didn't have my best interests at hand.

Recently I have been hanging out with two new Sag girls. They are easy to hang out with and seem to be very level headed, which I like. I am not sure of their other placements (I think one girl has a Virgo moon from when I checked one time, which grounds her). We always have fun and can talk about alot of things easily. We do have a lot of differences, and I am keeping them both at arms length distances for now as to not ruin anything because I tend to become intolerant quite easily. I also try not to get too deep with them with my 'feelings', because I know it's like a foreign language to ya'll!

Do any of you Sag's have good Scorp friends? It kind of surprises me that I have had so many coming into my life. I am very cautious with friends and usually don't let them get to close until I fully get to know them. I just wonder how others have viewed the Scorp - Sag friendship dynamic? Please share any insight or stories!! 🙂
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i actually get along with scorpios very well.

my bff is a scorpio girl since like kindergarten. probably because i dont pry into her business. i let her talk. we have fun. its very grown up relationship.

my former coworker at my job is a scorpio male. me and him were 2 peas in a pod. we ate lunch together everyday. i would treat, he would treat. we hung out after work. we used to argue like a married couple. i truly love him as a friend. when he quit the job i felt like i lost a limb. he does visit from time to time and ask to see me first. i feel so loved! i told him i would take a bullet for him. we just had an understanding.

for some reason i form easy and quick relationships with scorpios, particualy the women. the male friendships are cool as long as it stays platonic.
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Thank you for your insight as a sag. Sounds like you have a good bond with scorps 🙂
You must not be the type of sag to pry, which is good. I admire those who are able to ask forward questions, some of which I would never ask, but I just can't handle it. Like my ex sag friend would ask me about my possessions, how much money I make, how much money I have saved up. Maybe it was just her curiosity, but I don't reveal these things to anyone because once someone knows, I feel they will view you in a different light. Not only that, but as a friend, this should not matter. Therefore I had to re-evaluate my friendship with her.

One thing I have realized that I forgot to mention, is that you girls are considerate...for the most part. I mean in regards to going somewhere or doing something, it doesn't have to be what YOU want, like an aires, which I really can appreciate. Maybe it's my libra placement, but I like to come to an agreement on things rather than have one person order around where we are going or what we are going to do.
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no, lol, i definitly pry...i just know when, how, and much i can get really to the bottom of a person.

i do go with the flow more so than not. i figure i can have a good time anywhere. i still am fickle and cancel often.

ive learned that with people, i will ask a few specific but generalized interesting questions. if i like the answers, tone, and body language...i keep going. if i dont like one of those three i stop. i also have to be genuinely interested to ask someone about themselves.

i am one of those people where when i ask you how your are, i actually mean it and expect a specific answer.