Sag sun venus in scorpio advice _??

So here's the thing, I wonder if you people with this placements purposely try to get the person u r interested in jealous by action or words? Long story short, everytime I mention my friend ( 2 occasions now) he would say " she's cute" or " she's hot" the thing is they are not attractive attractive that he will need to mention anything. They r very close to me. There are tons of hotter girls around wheeee we go out .. I just laugh it off n never get jealous really. I just wanna know what his intention is! In person he doesnt even care.... n only stare at me like a scorpionic way.. do u guys think I should have acted a little jealous at least? lol

Yeah we r seeing each other. Meh, I don't really find it rude n I know he does it for reason.. either to get my attention or just plain immaturity like you say.. He has the ability to get all the hot girls around why compliment on my friends? silly really

My Sagi friend with Venus in Scorp just loves drama in general. She loves to pick fights with her SO's ...she admits she does it. I think she equates drama with passion.

Nip that rude ass shit in the bud now or he will keep upping the ante.

The fact that hes commenting on a friend? Too close to fucking u home for those shenanigans.

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Posted by beautifuldiaster
I have a huge crush on superman. Like whoaaaa. If I said he was perfect in front of my guy I would not be doing it to spark jealousy but more just mentioning what I like in a man.

It's only conversation.

If it happens a lot and with people while you are out then yeah - immaturity. I most often compliment other women because I find them aesthetically beautiful, or their outfit is classy... I'd never say anything about the hot jogger than runs by to him, I am more likely to pretend not to notice him for the sake of my guy.

Exactly. It's called common courtesy. Nothing wrong with complimenting TV personalities. It amuses me how some people get jealous over that. lol

Speaking for myself, if I suspect that someone is deliberately trying to make me jealous, I'd make it a point to be extra nonchalant and aloof, just to spite them. "Oh yeah, my friends are hot all right!"

I would never give my partner any reason to doubt my interest or loyalty in him, so that sort of behavior would annoy the hell out of me.

EXACTLY!

I make sure of it! Must be my Scorpio parts lol.

No reason to create events to pull in attention... if you sit back and do you, the attention comes to your front door.

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Exactly. The thing is, he has all other hot Latino girls head over heel with him. All his friends are hot hot hot. I never act jealous or get insecure. But my friends, not to be mean but they are very average. One is one innocent girl the other is 40 years old ok looking lady. In person,'I could tell that there's nothing but he mentioned it via text. However the point is he never mentioned anything when any other girls are hot or pretty. IF they were it would b me mentioning it and he just brush it off like " oh yeah she's kind of pretty" what is he getting act exactly. I'm waiting for a third time strike.... In my opinion he just want drama and I'm not going to give it to him.

Posted by bnr7013
The things I say are the honest truth. It isn't a matter of what I say but rather how you take it. If someone is hot, I'll say it - we don't get jealous & we don't have the energy or time to try & make someone jealous. Don't analyze our words...some people think too much into it & only upset themselves. However, you need to understand that when we are committed, it's at 100% . I admit that we can be harsh and blunt but everything that comes out of our mouth should never be doubted. If you don't like it, there are plenty of other fish in the sea - not to be rude but we need confident better halves. You did good if you didn't act jealous - just make sure you always say how you feel because we can take exactly what we dish 😉

I strongly disagree. There are much hotter n prettier girls around. Why not mention them? Why mention my friends !!! lol

If this helps, he's pretty insecure n I have been with a few guys he knows n he's well aware of that. Now that's all the past n we agreed to leave it as that but I have a feeling it's his way of trying to get me back somehow..

Posted by brianafay
My Sagi friend with Venus in Scorp just loves drama in general. She loves to pick fights with her SO's ...she admits she does it. I think she equates drama with passion.

Can not say it better myself. Sucks for people who r in love with them..... lol.... It's been a year now, I read the game well it just get out of hands most times ..Ofcoz the make up is always worth it lol

I'm a sadge with a scorpio moon & scorpio venus.

I would never ON PURPOSE try to make someone jealous... maybe tactlessly yet honest:/
I've never mentioned or mentioned I thought someone was hot in front of someone I may be interested in I'd rather have an air of mystery 🙂
If I do talk about it I probably see nothing coming out of the friendship.

Posted by saweetz1988
I wonder if you people with this placements purposely try to get the person u r interested in jealous by action or words?

Yeah, probably. Testing from a bit of insecure jealousy I guess. But not maliciously tho...I do like to comment on how people look in general.

But I'm a jealous person with love anyway...so probably tit for tat will happen.

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Posted by bnr7013
The things I say are the honest truth. It isn't a matter of what I say but rather how you take it. If someone is hot, I'll say it - we don't get jealous & we don't have the energy or time to try & make someone jealous. Don't analyze our words...some people think too much into it & only upset themselves. However, you need to understand that when we are committed, it's at 100% . I admit that we can be harsh and blunt but everything that comes out of our mouth should never be doubted. If you don't like it, there are plenty of other fish in the sea - not to be rude but we need confident better halves. You did good if you didn't act jealous - just make sure you always say how you feel because we can take exactly what we dish 😉

I strongly disagree. There are much hotter n prettier girls around. Why not mention them? Why mention my friends !!! lol

And why exactly did you mention your friends? Seems like you kept a tally for a reason....besides, he was probably just being nice or didn't know what to say in response to you bringing them up? I don't have all of the details but all I know is how someone with those placements typically act with regard to jealousy. We know what we bring to the table & are very selective with the company we keep. You've earned a spot in our lives & we know our own value. Jealousy....hmmm...for what reason? 😉

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I brought my friend out n when we messaged he commented on it... He knows we r real close... The second round I just told him my friend was driving me home ( he's seen her around) she's like 40 n we are in our 26 n he says she's hot lol. I'm glad I have earned the spot in his life... I don't doubt his intention at all n I know he wouldn't do anything silly. Just trying to work out why mention that's all.

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Posted by saweetz1988
I wonder if you people with this placements purposely try to get the person u r interested in jealous by action or words?

Yeah, probably. Testing from a bit of insecure jealousy I guess. But not maliciously tho...I do like to comment on how people look in general.

But I'm a jealous person with love anyway...so probably tit for tat will happen.

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I feel the same.

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Posted by saweetz1988
I wonder if you people with this placements purposely try to get the person u r interested in jealous by action or words?

Yeah, probably. Testing from a bit of insecure jealousy I guess. But not maliciously tho...I do like to comment on how people look in general.

But I'm a jealous person with love anyway...so probably tit for tat will happen.

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+1

Posted by busyeyes88
@OP. My ex sag used to click or make comments on picks of women in front my very face and would blunty tell me he was doing it to make me jealous. He was 52 years old. Totally disrespectful in my opinion. He had VIS. He could dish it but he couldn't eat it... To be honest Becabuse of the flirting and bluntness of the sag nature I will never touch a sag again. But I Am currently in a friendship with a taurus male who has his moon in sag and two other placements in sag.. I dont think this is gonna fare well either 😢. I am taurus With leo rising and leo moon.

I can totally understand how that will hurt Leo moon peeps... Unfortunately I have Aqua moon and I get over it within mins... I was just analysing his words n what was the intention underneath... I just blushed it off n laugh about it... eventually he will learn to stop... normally I'm the one who would comment on girls looks infront of my man cause I admire women beauty but when he's the one commenting on my friends that caught me by surprise.... Esp when his cap moon doesn't allow much compliments to me with words lol...

Posted by busyeyes88
@OP. My sister is a sag with aqua moon! She has a very cool moon indeed. So I guess you having that moon can handle his comments. Cap I find cold in a sign so I guess his moon must be pretty detached ie not one for giving compliments. I love beauty never hesitate to compliment a woman myself but if I have a flirtatious SO who does it... Well it gonna be his funeral! It's a trait I can control and all my exes used to push my jealousy buttons on purpose! wrong move.. Hence them being exes!! Lol

Yeb. We both are detached emotionally but yet do share that extreme passion elsewhere with music n all... n Ofcoz crazy love making apart from that we r detached haha..... I do enjoy my moon but I do love Leo moon people we think very much alike as well!!!!!

Sometimes I wonder if I should just pretend to be jealous so he's happy haha

venus in scorp....sigh! too predictable and too boring.

Posted by krebbsmann
venus in scorp....sigh! too predictable and too boring.

After a year yeah it gets like that. Has not been an easy ride though _—

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@krebbsmann. I totally agree. Glad I'm not the only one who thinks this. My venus is in Pisces was far more sexual and dynamic than his venus in scorpio.There is so much 'hype' about these two placements together. Big disappointment.

Everyone thinks Scorpio Venus is some magic placement for erotica... guess what! IT'S NOT!

We only settle with those we truly love deeply and we are vanilla lovers BUT, it IS passionate and it is NEVER dull.

It's a loyalty placement - for better or worse. Hard to let go of our loves.

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hehehee youre just like me :p

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Posted by busyeyes88
@krebbsmann. I totally agree. Glad I'm not the only one who thinks this. My venus is in Pisces was far more sexual and dynamic than his venus in scorpio.There is so much 'hype' about these two placements together. Big disappointment.

Everyone thinks Scorpio Venus is some magic placement for erotica... guess what! IT'S NOT!

We only settle with those we truly love deeply and we are vanilla lovers BUT, it IS passionate and it is NEVER dull.

It's a loyalty placement - for better or worse. Hard to let go of our loves.

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All I can is , best make loving experience I ever had n yes it's hard to let go off hehe