Sag women can you help me to understand part 1

Helloooo Ladies, first off id like to say i appreciate any help you can give me about this situation im in. let me preface to say i met a sag woman of 35 some 4 months ago. her divorce is not finalized, she moved out before the sale went through on her home, her support was limited due to ex having to pay old mortgage, and the judge denied her addtional support for her two children. that left her to pay her new rent on limited income. which shes being evicted due to back rent unless the monies come though at the closing march 31. why do i mention all this?

she is not the girl i met some 4 months ago. we started a passionate love affair too soon. when she moved she moved 20 miles toward my direction which is blocks away. the convenience to see her is very easy. i let her do whatever she wanted. which was to be with me. on occassion due to the stress we had several bad fights that took their toll. her birthday, new years eve and valentines day. wow 3 of the best days were spent in misery. we were both to blame. i have my own stresses im going through and she hers. they intertwined takin there toll on us. she wanted no more drama, she couldnt take it with all she was going through. i understood but her financial situation was deteriorating and she wouldnt take my help. the final straw was when a shelf collapsed in her bathroom, we didnt have the parts to fix and i wanted to think on what to do, she wanted action and called my right hand man on the phone and belittled me in front of him. in my feeling bad i walked to my coat and left. she told me not to come back. she sent me a text that if i couldnt take the heat i wasnt for her. i am a great guy, she will pray for me and down the road we can be friends when the time is right.

i was devestated at this turn of events. although she had forgivin me for the fights we had, this had taken its last toll. under normal stress conditions none of the fights nor arguments would have occured. not to mention the alcohol involved. which i believe was the primary cause.

my right hand guy would call her or text her always to see if she needed any work done. i always felt intrusion. that he should of went through me to help her not contact her direct. after the breakup her went to her house to speak with her because he knew that days before she had gone out on a date and i found out. he spoke with her ask her the bottom line quesion after talking about many things about me. he said" do you love him" she said i do.