Saggitarians as friends

Ive known my sag for a number of years. I truely enjoy the friendship we have together. This year I have allocated to just enjoying my single life and pursuing some personal goals for myself. I really enjoy talking to him and having him in my life. He does some things that I find confusing so I thought maybe you guys could enlighten me on sag behavior.

He travels 16 hours to come and see me. Thats eight hours by plane coming and going. He says he likes me. He pays for everything once we see each other. He always comes back if we fight or not. He gave his mom my number like I asked in case something happens to him (hes in military.)

Is this how you guys typically act with friends? I just dont wanna read into his behavior.

We'll go to great lengths for a friend. I suspect though he likes you more than just a friend. Him coming back is his way of not giving up on you. He probably views the situation as "US." Yeah...he definitely wants more than friendship.

Thanks beautiful soul...

What do u mean as "us?" He does not like emotional stuff at all. He will clam up and leave. He wont even let me park and sit with him at airport. He says im too "needy." I just like to check with him once a day to see how hes doing. This is needy to a sag? He says im fun and im wild enough for him.....I guess those are good compliments.

Hes def a mans man...all testosterone.

He has six planets in fire and five planets in air.

I just wanna keep things simple this year so Im trying to keep things light.

You're welcome 🙂



Truthfully you're not clingy or needy. The air in his chart tell you that and makes it hard for him to deal with his or any emotional situation. Have you asked him about taking it further. I know when we're ready, were upfront and make our intentions known. Maybe he's just afraid to make a move because of his past.

Yes hes has a hard past with women. He wants his military career and thats fine. Hes told me his goals and I respect them.
Now, he wants me to fill in that void that comes with such choices and I refuse too. Your goals are your goals not mine since im not apart of your life. Good luck with them. I told him I want companionship with a man and he said he knew that.
Well if you know that then we both know that we want two different things outta life. So we dont take it there.

Since we want two different things it does make being friends very hard.

How persistant are sags when they want something?

Im gonna enjoy my single life and try to spend some "me" time this year. He has threatened to just show up unannounced though.

I think if sags really want something they will usually chase it