Sagittarian Problem Solving

So... let's say you have a social or emotional problem with yourself, your companion, family or friends.
How do you solve problems you have with them?

A) Drinking
B) Smoking
C) Shopping
D) Clubbing
E) Avoid the issue
F) Make new friends
G) All of the above
H) Talk it out
I) Other... please explain

^^^ so true 😄

But no, OTHER
because it really depends on who I'm having the problem with and how serious the problem is.
Also, VERY IMPORTANTLY, if I have enough time/space to think before I react. Because if not, I will most likely just flip shit and blow everything out of proportion. 🙂

First, I decide rather or not I feel they're worth it...
- If they're not - meaning the bad outweighs the good with them - I will probably stop talking to them altogether/with or without an explanation, depending on how close we were or how long I've known them. Obviously, if we were best friends I will feel obligated to explain myself or tell them what they did wrong; but if I've only known them for a short time or we weren't really that close...they probably won't even get that respect from me.

-If they are worth it - meaning they mean alot to me and I'm not really willing to ruin our relationship over a minor problem - I will talk to them about it...tell them they did something shitty and PLUS they will get my whole spiel about I shouldn't even have to tell them I'm bothered, since they know me well enough to know when I would be bothered by something. The end. I'm over it already. Don't make me talk to you about it again kind of thing.
(Usually it's alot of "haha you know you're wrong" type of deal.)

Posted by brianafay

-If they are worth it - meaning they mean alot to me and I'm not really willing to ruin our relationship over a minor problem - I will talk to them about it...tell them they did something shitty and PLUS they will get my whole spiel about I shouldn't even have to tell them I'm bothered, since they know me well enough to know when I would be bothered by something. The end. I'm over it already. Don't make me talk to you about it again kind of thing.
(Usually it's alot of "haha you know you're wrong" type of deal.)

Fascinating.
This is exactly what I am dealing with. I am a Virgo and I want to perfect things.
My Sag hates explaining herself when all I am trying to do is gain an understanding of where I went wrong so that I can consciously adjust it.

When she has a problem drinking and smoking are her first choices, which just annoys me.

I would expect that as adults two people could communicate to each other what they feel, what went wrong and why. This whole "I should'nt have to tell you thing" is not conducive to learning.

I am likely to make the same mistake again and again...

Women want mind readers... and those kind of men are few and far between.

I don't find this fair to me at all...

Virgos and Sags are so different. And it takes leaps and bounds to come to a middle ground. My mother is a Virgo and my father a Saggie. It was very hard for them. When they finally split and my mother left for good, my father never got over it. But he wanted to be free and she let him go and she went on to be remarried to someone else. He smoke and drank also. He eventually died, but he called my mother about month before and told her she was the best woman he had ever had. And after he died, she admitted to loving him more than my stepdad. Today shes in her 60s and she looks back on their situation with much regret wishing she had done things differently. I dont see how but maybe thats just the Virgo in me also, but I figure what can you do. You let go of people who want to be free, shed your tears, and move on.

so you think sags can thing to solve a problem HAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA!

Posted by james tate
so you think sags can thing to solve a problem HAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA!

If you look at the solution list, it's pretty obvious 😛

I pick G!
The funnest route.