Sagittarius bf cheated on me.. opinions please?

This topic was created in the Sagittarius forum by Rinoa on Sunday, May 7, 2017 and has 3 replies.

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@Rinoa
9 Years

Hey guys, I just wanna ask your opinions about this thing that happened to me days ago.. I've been in a long distance relationship with a fellow sag..he's born dec 8, '89 and I am on dec 17, '86.. we havent seen in person until now, we just met on facebook..we've been in a relationship for exactly 4 months.. everything was going well before until this incident happened that opted him to break up with me.. we had plans of meeting and getting together supposed to be this upcoming August..and we are planning to live together soon after that.. but then, this happened.. there was this party where he got drunk, and apparently there is this girl who fancies him for quite a few months who told him that she has feelings for him..then he got laid with this girl.. I knew days after that his behavior changed..thats why I kept asking him whats wrong, if everything between us is okay.. then one day, he confessed these things to me.. and he said, "I dunno who I like/love anymore.. give me sometime alone to think away from both of you..I do want us to be friends...and if I do make up my mind soon, and decide what I want, and is that I want to continue something with you...and ofc, you won't think it's too late for us...I want to tell you...I still want us to keep in touch..."

do you still think he will come back? I even told him I can forget everything that happened just for him not to break up with me.. but still he did.. sometimes I feel like he doesnt really loved me at all, just leaving me like this..?? but when I think back of all the times he spent with me, all the long night convos..he did love me..

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@Deedee86
10 Years1,000+ Posts

I know that many people will disagree with me but I find it hard to call what you guys had a relationship. You haven't even met in person or spent any real time together. You fell in love with a really good writer.

Please don't let this guy break your heart.

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@Gemitati
11 Years25,000+ Posts

I had addressed this on several occasions and here we go again!

He cheated on me and dumped me but I want him back!!!

As soon as we let them - tjey WILL!!!

And they ARE NOW! Why not?