Sagittarius giving the cold shoulder

This one runs deep... I guess that's me doing that.


Hey all, fellow scorpio here. I'm into this girl. A girl of fire. Yeah, and I actually got an excellent respons to my cunning plan to make her mine. You know, the success every scorpio (I suppose I should add mildly obsessive) dreams about. That's how we roll.

I called her, two whole friggin' years after having met her once. I just had her on my mind and gave her a call - she of course started asking the obvious questions like: "You mean to tell me I left that big of an impression on you? That's impossible. What's this all about?" etc. Well, she must have been enticed by the surprise (do you know where I am hiding, archer?), baffeled with the boldness and spellbound by this mysterious creature (good luck figuring us out!) with no apparent rhyme or reason; because she followed her suspicion by literally inviting me on a date.

Well, this is all fun and games but yours truly, scorpio, was so riled up in the succes that he actually just... didn't do much of anything with it. I didn't call her again and just went on with my life. It was like the infatuation was there but I was so comfortable once the adrenaline and hardship was gone that I lost my ways.

Now, I'm once again, a few years ahead (still...) infatuated by her. But now she's giving me the ice cold attitude where she won't respond to any of my attempts (texts and messanging attempts which are easy to ignore, mind you). What to do to get her to at least talk to me? I believe that once a girl leaves her self that vulnerable and actually takes the step herself of suggesting a date, she's bound to retreat if it's not pursued. But... yeah. Will she give me a second... god, can't belive I'm saying this... chance?

Thank you all for reading.

She probably realized your full of yourself and is doing better with someone better

dude move on ...seriously....you play games too much;than again you love the adreline. You hunted the dear down but didnt shoot it....What, did you think it was going to be standing around waiting for you to take aim at the bulls eye again? Did you think your "plan" was going to work? You thought you were going to just waltz back into her life ater dissing her.....haha! (Build her up, break her down mentally) Man you are either really funny or really arrogant....

you sound almost stalker like....meet her once....called after two years.
then not doing anything about the offer that was on the table
and then calling and texting over and over because she is not responding to your assholeness.
yeah....grey area of stalker.......lmao!

Maybe unlike you, she moved on and has a b/f now..... Did you ever think about that?


and Thank you for giving us something to read......

Posted by CarbonMonoxide

Nah, probably not.

I like the odds of probably.

Posted by Sag89
She probably realized your full of yourself and is doing better with someone better

Absolutely, based on me wanting to meet her and then chaning my mind? Also, I'd like seeing her with someone amazing, but she's been single since and seeing how I'm full of myself there's obviously no one better! Serisouly though, I'm very much into myself but I believe everyone is equal.

Posted by CrabbyTwins
dude move on ...seriously....you play games too much;than again you love the adreline. You hunted the dear down but didnt shoot it....What, did you think it was going to be standing around waiting for you to take aim at the bulls eye again? Did you think your "plan" was going to work? You thought you were going to just waltz back into her life ater dissing her.....haha! (Build her up, break her down mentally) Man you are either really funny or really arrogant....

you sound almost stalker like....meet her once....called after two years.
then not doing anything about the offer that was on the table
and then calling and texting over and over because she is not responding to your assholeness.
yeah....grey area of stalker.......lmao!

Maybe unlike you, she moved on and has a b/f now..... Did you ever think about that?


and Thank you for giving us something to read......

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It's all about the games, friend! I never thought she'd be waiting around, especially since she's a sagittarius. But even the smallest of sparks survive within the scorpio and I'm at the whatever-stage where I don't lose anything per-se by trying to contact her.

Obviously there's the stalker reference, that's prominent. You need to see the intensiti for what it really is - something powerful, not harmful. A scorpio is extremely intense and the line between obsession and power is very clear but sometimes obscure. I would never in a million years try to contact her if she wouldn't want me to, but we're talking a message and a chat-invitation, not a door-step visit.

But seriously, would she really interpret my communication that way? I find it hard to believe wanting to meet someone is considered being an a-hole.

Posted by CarbonMonoxide
Um...

Are you actually a Leo in disguise?

And if not, are you high?

*chuckles*

Catnip for the cat at the piano? A cigarr, if anything.

@whatever Not to be mean, but you came off as a total douchebag. What would she have to talk to you about? It's not even like you were cool and just lost contact. You behaved like an ass. I'm glad she wasn't all dumb and needy answering your messages. You're tripping right now lol.

In detail: I met her and we conversed. We had a great time, we both laughed. Then, two years later I called her (at this point we had no obligations towards one another, I only decided it would be exciting to resume our brief contact), she answered positevely but literally I was the one who sent the last message (after our call) with my IM-details and she didn't add me or text me back. After that I went on with my life (yes, I should have taken her up on the date but I didn't figure as much) and then decided to contact her again and she didn't respond. Where's the "ass"-part?

I was being very sarcastic in my post. Of course I didn't have a "cunning plan" to "get her". Well, the plan was: call her.

Posted by Mebs
@whatever Not to be mean, but you came off as a total douchebag. What would she have to talk to you about? It's not even like you were cool and just lost contact. You behaved like an ass. I'm glad she wasn't all dumb and needy answering your messages. You're tripping right now lol.

Yep

Posted by CarbonMonoxide
Um...

Are you actually a Leo in disguise?

And if not, are you high?

If he was a leo he wouldn't have ditched her like a pansy.

Totally scorpio.. unevolved scorpio that is

Grow up please. Your "type" of scorpio is the reason why so many women on here are confused. Take some notes from an evolved and grow a pair

Lol damnnnnn, aren't you just the Sagi lady killer 😛

if it were me, i wouldn't talk to you again

Posted by brianafay
Lol damnnnnn, aren't you just the Sagi lady killer 😛

Lmao 😄

Posted by Reason
https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/gemini/online-dating-gemini-s-had-a-change-of-heart-2922499/#2922500

wah wah wahhhhhh


lol

Posted by WhateverOS

Regards,
the powerful but deadly scorpio.

You might try the Aries forum, those chicks always have a hard-on for powerful but deadly scorp boys.

Posted by CarbonMonoxide

Posted by Wynter

Posted by WhateverOS

Regards,
the powerful but deadly scorpio.

You might try the Aries forum, those chicks always have a hard-on for powerful but deadly scorp boys.

Did you mean "strap-on"? 😉

Hehehe

😛

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lol

Heh heheh

THATs giving the cold shoulder? ive seen the cold shoulder, and THAT is not it.

Posted by CarbonMonoxide

Posted by happykitsune

Posted by CarbonMonoxide
Um...

Are you actually a Leo in disguise?

And if not, are you high?

If he was a leo he wouldn't have ditched her like a pansy.

Totally scorpio.. unevolved scorpio that is

I was referring to his overinflated ego and obvious arrogance, NOT the fact that he blew her off.

Actually, now that I think about it, Scorpio works too.

😄

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lol oh yeah true. And yes, it does work well for scorpio too. They always gotta be right 😛