Sagittarius if your bf or gf hurts you badly is the relationship finished forever.

If your bf or gf like really hurt your feelings not cheating but maybe unkindness or said something that hurt your self esteem. How could they go about apologising and rebuilding the relationship?

Do u need space to heal

Or is it done?

Maybe maybe not

Yes because I'm reasonable about things most (if not all) Sag tend to use their brain to think instead of their hearts. We're analytical creatures, at least I am. I broke up with my Gemini boyfriend of 3 years after his first mistake (texting his ex behind my back, trying to meet up) Don't get me wrong, I loved him so it wasn't easy but I love myself more and it seemed like the right thing to do so I did. Not heartless just analytical, I make decisions based on facts 🙂

And get this, 2 years later he's still crying, begging me to take him back...

No mother fucking chance. No sir!

Posted by aquanib
Two threads down you're crying over your gemini gf whom you drove away with temper tantrums.

Out of curiosity, what did you do to this one that she needs space to heal?

By the way i posted about this in sagg section i because yes she is mostly Gemini but has a sag moon so I needed both perspectives.

I'm guessing u read my other thread.basically I was going through a really tough time with my dad and his marriage to another woman and us having a strained relationship. So I was very angry and upset and my gf was always happy happy and I didn't want to talk that day but she kept pestering me. And I just lost my temper and said something like stfu you stupid fat pig or fat slob. And she's a little chubby and conscious about her weight so I guess that really hurt her self esteem. she cried and like I said things went rapidly downhill from then on, two weeks later she ended it with me.

Im not just saying this but I feel terrible . I didn't mean to say it like it came out

Without me even thinking of it. I know thats not an excuse but I want to change so she can give me another chance. We had an amazing connection.

It depends on what it is exactly but after I've had some time to cool off, I'm willing to accept a genuine apology. The thing is that afterwords, if my trust has been broken, I might not be willing to trust him again.

Basically even after I forgive, he'll be on probation until his actions prove that he's really sorry, and he gains my trust back.

And I'm a Sag with a Gem ascendant BTW.

Posted by SinounSupreme
Yes because I'm reasonable about things most (if not all) Sag tend to use their brain to think instead of their hearts. We're analytical creatures, at least I am. I broke up with my Gemini boyfriend of 3 years after his first mistake (texting his ex behind my back, trying to meet up) Don't get me wrong, I loved him so it wasn't easy but I love myself more and it seemed like the right thing to do so I did. Not heartless just analytical, I make decisions based on facts 🙂

And get this, 2 years later he's still crying, begging me to take him back...

No mother fucking chance. No sir!

That's not love if you left someone over texting back. And you just like the fact someone wants you lol... two years and you leave over a message, you was never in fully lol.

Posted by arose32

Posted by SinounSupreme
Yes because I'm reasonable about things most (if not all) Sag tend to use their brain to think instead of their hearts. We're analytical creatures, at least I am. I broke up with my Gemini boyfriend of 3 years after his first mistake (texting his ex behind my back, trying to meet up) Don't get me wrong, I loved him so it wasn't easy but I love myself more and it seemed like the right thing to do so I did. Not heartless just analytical, I make decisions based on facts 🙂

And get this, 2 years later he's still crying, begging me to take him back...

No mother fucking chance. No sir!

That's not love if you left someone over texting back. And you just like the fact someone wants you lol... two years and you leave over a message, you was never in fully lol.

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No I was onto him for the longest he tried to hide it

What is his chart OP?

The only thing that sends me off running and not looking back is disrespect.

It's good and bad in every relationship and the ones that's worth it, I believe you should fight thru bad Times. But if I'm blatantly disrespected, I'm out.

Posted by mzmee
The only thing that sends me off running and not looking back is disrespect.

It's good and bad in every relationship and the ones that's worth it, I believe you should fight thru bad Times. But if I'm blatantly disrespected, I'm out.

I agree 100%