@Leo0807
10 Years
She invited me to her house for my birthday on Sunday today
Understanding Sagittarians in Relationships
Sagittarians are known for their honesty, independence, and love for adventure. They can be emotionally distant but are also caring and optimistic. Recognizing their traits helps in navigating relationships with them. They often value freedom and honesty, and their reactions may be influenced by their desire for truth and exploration.
Your addicted to the drama. Makes you feel alive and at the center of your universe.
Your giving me whiplash with your emotions on this one dude. One minute you love her, the next it's die bitch die, and now your calling her the love of your life. Smh.
Fuck wine. Have your ever tried Kava? She introduced me to that. It's like liquid Xanax.
Posted by Leo0807
I couldn't decline her offer. I tried to. I mean I really tried to ghost her today too but she....I dunno, man. She already knows of all the effects that she has over me so we're way past cutting each other off at this point. Never mentioned the Sag not one time in our conversation, though. I wonder what that's about? No I don't. But she apologized for yesterday. I didn't think that she really did anything wrong that warranted an apology but I accepted it anyway and then I told her that I was sorry again for telling her to die or whatever it was that I originally said. She just rolled her eyes. You can't really offend a Sag with words anyway. This much I do definitely know. But then we had lunch together. She's the love of my life even if she doesn't exactly feel the same type of way about me. Fucked. But it is what it is.
is she a sag? i have heard sags are quite generous and they love their friends. hope you can tell if this is just a friend gesture from her or not.
Posted by LadyNeptune
Your addicted to the drama. Makes you feel alive and at the center of your universe.Your giving me whiplash with your emotions on this one dude. One minute you love her, the next it's die bitch die, and now your calling her the love of your life. Smh.
Giving you whiplash? Are you a rusher or a dragger?
Posted by Leo0807
I couldn't decline her offer. I tried to. I mean I really tried to ghost her today too but she....I dunno, man. She already knows of all the effects that she has over me so we're way past cutting each other off at this point. Never mentioned the Sag not one time in our conversation, though. I wonder what that's about? No I don't. But she apologized for yesterday. I didn't think that she really did anything wrong that warranted an apology but I accepted it anyway and then I told her that I was sorry again for telling her to die or whatever it was that I originally said. She just rolled her eyes. You can't really offend a Sag with words anyway. This much I do definitely know. But then we had lunch together. She's the love of my life even if she doesn't exactly feel the same type of way about me. Fucked. But it is what it is.is she a sag? i have heard sags are quite generous and they love their friends. hope you can tell if this is just a friend gesture from her or not.
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Then why does she keep coming to me and not the other way around? I'm not a stalker, much to your dismay.
Posted by LadyNeptune
Your addicted to the drama. Makes you feel alive and at the center of your universe.Your giving me whiplash with your emotions on this one dude. One minute you love her, the next it's die bitch die, and now your calling her the love of your life. Smh.
Giving you whiplash? Are you a rusher or a dragger?
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— Are those fishing terms?
My point is the way your fluctuating from one extreme to another is a sign of instability. Even if she wasn't hung up on the Sag I'd doubt she's see you as relationship potential, your too unpredictable.
Posted by LadyNeptune
Your addicted to the drama. Makes you feel alive and at the center of your universe.Your giving me whiplash with your emotions on this one dude. One minute you love her, the next it's die bitch die, and now your calling her the love of your life. Smh.
Giving you whiplash? Are you a rusher or a dragger?
— Are those fishing terms?
My point is the way your fluctuating from one extreme to another sign of instability. Even if she wasn't hung up on the Sag I'd doubt she's see you as relationship potential, your too unpredictable.
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Hey now unpredictable can be quite fun....and you never seen Whiplash?! You're asleep.
Posted by Leo0807
I couldn't decline her offer. I tried to. I mean I really tried to ghost her today too but she....I dunno, man. She already knows of all the effects that she has over me so we're way past cutting each other off at this point. Never mentioned the Sag not one time in our conversation, though. I wonder what that's about? No I don't. But she apologized for yesterday. I didn't think that she really did anything wrong that warranted an apology but I accepted it anyway and then I told her that I was sorry again for telling her to die or whatever it was that I originally said. She just rolled her eyes. You can't really offend a Sag with words anyway. This much I do definitely know. But then we had lunch together. She's the love of my life even if she doesn't exactly feel the same type of way about me. Fucked. But it is what it is.is she a sag? i have heard sags are quite generous and they love their friends. hope you can tell if this is just a friend gesture from her or not.
Then why does she keep coming to me and not the other way around? I'm not a stalker, much to your dismay.
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not calling you a stalker, just sags are so about spending time with their friends that it is hard to tell when they are interested in one. thats why i said hope you can tell if she thinks of you as a friend or more.
I think everyone who read your last thread is severely shaking their heads. Probably not a good idea to come back in two days to tell us how crazy she is. You will get a lot of "I told you so"
Posted by Leo0807
I couldn't decline her offer. I tried to. I mean I really tried to ghost her today too but she....I dunno, man. She already knows of all the effects that she has over me so we're way past cutting each other off at this point. Never mentioned the Sag not one time in our conversation, though. I wonder what that's about? No I don't. But she apologized for yesterday. I didn't think that she really did anything wrong that warranted an apology but I accepted it anyway and then I told her that I was sorry again for telling her to die or whatever it was that I originally said. She just rolled her eyes. You can't really offend a Sag with words anyway. This much I do definitely know. But then we had lunch together. She's the love of my life even if she doesn't exactly feel the same type of way about me. Fucked. But it is what it is.is she a sag? i have heard sags are quite generous and they love their friends. hope you can tell if this is just a friend gesture from her or not.
Then why does she keep coming to me and not the other way around? I'm not a stalker, much to your dismay.
not calling you a stalker, just sags are so about spending time with their friends that it is hard to tell when they are interested in one. thats why i said hope you can tell if she thinks of you as a friend or more.
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But I'm not trying to be friends with her. This much she does know. I don't even know why she even changed her mind on when she agreed to be my girlfriend to begin with. Two days before the 4th of July. And then she denies that conversation ever taking place. I don't know. She's weird and confused and doesn't even know what she truly wants.
Posted by Redoctober2000
Wow!! After all that "name-calling" you gave her... Man, you quickly ate up your vomit no sooner had you spat it out!!You are no lion. Just a domesticated cat!!!
Lol
Posted by Explicit
How is she the love of your life if you guys never even dated or slept together yet?And why are you allowing this annoying girl to mess with your emotions? She said she wasn't into you and that she was in love with someone else. So why are you allowing her to play with you by inviting you to her house for YOUR birthday and giving you mixed signals? Be like "bitch I'm not your daddy's dick, don't play with me." And avoid her. She seems like trouble. She loves attention. She loves how obsessed you are with her, and even though the feeling isn't mutual, she continues to egg you on to keep receiving that attention from you.
Hoes like this need to be ignored. Tell her to go get attention from the guy she's in "love" with.
If she wants to play games then you're gonna have to start thinking like a woman. Beat her at her own manipulative woman games. Get one of your female friends to play along. Take pics together and post it on your social media, and make sure it shows up on her news feed, Get her back! And if she contacts you, be like, "I'm really falling for this other girl, I don't think it's a good idea to be talking to you."
Oh, man. You're a straight up SAVAGE.
But unfortunately, I could never be that petty.
Posted by Leo0807
I couldn't decline her offer. I tried to. I mean I really tried to ghost her today too but she....I dunno, man. She already knows of all the effects that she has over me so we're way past cutting each other off at this point. Never mentioned the Sag not one time in our conversation, though. I wonder what that's about? No I don't. But she apologized for yesterday. I didn't think that she really did anything wrong that warranted an apology but I accepted it anyway and then I told her that I was sorry again for telling her to die or whatever it was that I originally said. She just rolled her eyes. You can't really offend a Sag with words anyway. This much I do definitely know. But then we had lunch together. She's the love of my life even if she doesn't exactly feel the same type of way about me. Fucked. But it is what it is.is she a sag? i have heard sags are quite generous and they love their friends. hope you can tell if this is just a friend gesture from her or not.
Then why does she keep coming to me and not the other way around? I'm not a stalker, much to your dismay.
Because you are weak without pride and she is laughing at you behind your back and why not?! Afterall you are nothing but a joke!!!
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You sound pretty pissed off on my behalf. I admire your loyalty.
Posted by Shadowcat
Dude, what the fuck are you doing? WALK AWAY. We accept the love that we feel we deserve. All of this inconsistency, the mind games and there's another man. Are really okay with all of that?
What's your sign?
Good god man, too much fucking drama!
She doesn't seem like an authentic Sag to me. I, and every other sag I know, could never be so malicious to anyone. I'm horrified even when I accidentally hurt someone.
She's a sociopath. Astrological placements can't explain or excuse crazy.
Posted by Shadowcat
Dude, what the fuck are you doing? WALK AWAY. We accept the love that we feel we deserve. All of this inconsistency, the mind games and there's another man. Are really okay with all of that?What's your sign?
Also more importantly are you okay with not being her first choice?
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Gimme a hint. Are you a fire, air, water or earth sign?
And I honestly think that this guy is nothing more than a mere figment of her Imagination. She's getting back at me MOST LIKELY for trolling her with the shit that I was telling her about regarding all the fake shit that I did with my friend (who at one point she tried to hit on). She's bisexual. I didn't mention before that I joked about lightweight wanting to fuck the shit out of her. And I loved the reaction that I got from outta that. So I decided to take it one step even further (given my nature) and I told her that I ate her pussy out about 3 weeks before she and I even met. I didn't exactly like the reaction to that take. But said friend is also invited to her house for my birthday on Sunday so.....fingers crossed for a fucking threesome? Let's pray for it.
Posted by Shellyd238
Good god man, too much fucking drama!She doesn't seem like an authentic Sag to me. I, and every other sag I know, could never be so malicious to anyone. I'm horrified even when I accidentally hurt someone.
She's a sociopath. Astrological placements can't explain or excuse crazy.
Where's the drama at? Shit is cool right now from where I am.
You're a Leo? I have Pluto in Scorpio and Venus in Virgo.
Posted by leowww
Trolling
You're so disgustingly beautiful.
Posted by Leo0807
You're a Leo? I have Pluto in Scorpio and Venus in Virgo.Nope.
Anyhow......walk away. It seems like you two have already messed this up.
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Sagittarius then. Last and final answer.
Posted by Leo0807
But unfortunately, I could never be that petty.
Leos: Crush your enemies. See them driven before you. Hear the lamentations of their women. Because I am the SHIT.
Dude, Leos raise it to an ART FORM. All the fixed signs except Taurus keep a side eye on the peeps that disrespect them. Taurus don't wait, it's like "stomp stomp stomp stomp" "Are you still alive?" "stomp stomp stomp stomp" "Now?".....Then the next day it's like nothing happened. WTF.
Posted by Leo0807
You're a Leo? I have Pluto in Scorpio and Venus in Virgo.Nope.
Anyhow......walk away. It seems like you two have already messed this up.
Sagittarius then. Last and final answer.
I'm a Cap dude, the fact that I listed inconsistency as a red flag was a big hint IMO. Sag is my venus. She's toying with you, not only that but you shot yourself in the foot by engaging in the mindgames. You've tainted your relationship with manipulation, which is basically a fucking toxin. Do you even trust this girl? Does she trust you? You have already both screwed this up, end it and move on. Just next time don't play head games.
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I'm not gonna lie, Capricorns are the only ones that I generally like outta all of the earth signs. Some Virgos are cool too.
She's going to use you as long as you allow her to and then forget about you fast as lightning when some better opportunity appears. Then you're going to be hurt...again...and you'll have no one to blame but yourself because, while even though I'm sure you're aware of everything I'm saying, you'll still gladly walk into her arms because you can't help it and have no will power.
I would suggest you tell her you can't go, but I know that you won't do that. You probably won't be done with her until she's absolutely destroyed you and pulls the no contact card on you (and means it)
Posted by Scenic
She's going to use you as long as you allow her to and then forget about you fast as lightning when some better opportunity appears. Then you're going to be hurt...again...and you'll have no one to blame but yourself because, while even though I'm sure you're aware of everything I'm saying, you'll still gladly walk into her arms because you can't help it and have no will power.I would suggest you tell her you can't go, but I know that you won't do that. You probably won't be done with her until she's absolutely destroyed you and pulls the no contact card on you (and means it)
You know what, Pisces? You're absolutely right. But what about my birthday, though?
Posted by Scenic
She's going to use you as long as you allow her to and then forget about you fast as lightning when some better opportunity appears. Then you're going to be hurt...again...and you'll have no one to blame but yourself because, while even though I'm sure you're aware of everything I'm saying, you'll still gladly walk into her arms because you can't help it and have no will power.I would suggest you tell her you can't go, but I know that you won't do that. You probably won't be done with her until she's absolutely destroyed you and pulls the no contact card on you (and means it)
You know what, Pisces? You're absolutely right. But what about my birthday, though?
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That's what friends are for. If you can even find one buddy to hang out with then you're already setting yourself up for a better birthday.
Posted by Scenic
She's going to use you as long as you allow her to and then forget about you fast as lightning when some better opportunity appears. Then you're going to be hurt...again...and you'll have no one to blame but yourself because, while even though I'm sure you're aware of everything I'm saying, you'll still gladly walk into her arms because you can't help it and have no will power.I would suggest you tell her you can't go, but I know that you won't do that. You probably won't be done with her until she's absolutely destroyed you and pulls the no contact card on you (and means it)
You know what, Pisces? You're absolutely right. But what about my birthday, though?
That's what friends are for. If you can even find one buddy to hang out with then you're already setting yourself up for a better birthday.
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Then that's what I'll do. Fuck being in the friend zone.
Posted by BlushingBride
Don't do it! Come to mine instead,the door is open,so are my legs
What's your sign?
Posted by Scenic
She's going to use you as long as you allow her to and then forget about you fast as lightning when some better opportunity appears. Then you're going to be hurt...again...and you'll have no one to blame but yourself because, while even though I'm sure you're aware of everything I'm saying, you'll still gladly walk into her arms because you can't help it and have no will power.I would suggest you tell her you can't go, but I know that you won't do that. You probably won't be done with her until she's absolutely destroyed you and pulls the no contact card on you (and means it)
You know what, Pisces? You're absolutely right. But what about my birthday, though?
That's what friends are for. If you can even find one buddy to hang out with then you're already setting yourself up for a better birthday.
Then that's what I'll do. Fuck being in the friend zone.
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'Atta go. Just go in with a positive attitude and probably keep your phone off. That way she can't ruin your night with texts/calls and if you go drinking, maybe less chance of drunk texting. Hope you have fun
Posted by Scenic
She's going to use you as long as you allow her to and then forget about you fast as lightning when some better opportunity appears. Then you're going to be hurt...again...and you'll have no one to blame but yourself because, while even though I'm sure you're aware of everything I'm saying, you'll still gladly walk into her arms because you can't help it and have no will power.I would suggest you tell her you can't go, but I know that you won't do that. You probably won't be done with her until she's absolutely destroyed you and pulls the no contact card on you (and means it)
You know what, Pisces? You're absolutely right. But what about my birthday, though?
That's what friends are for. If you can even find one buddy to hang out with then you're already setting yourself up for a better birthday.
Then that's what I'll do. Fuck being in the friend zone.
'Atta go. Just go in with a positive attitude and probably keep your phone off. That way she can't ruin your night with texts/calls and if you go drinking, maybe less chance of drunk texting. Hope you have fun
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You're a cool ass Pisces. For real. I hope nothing but all good things come your way for the rest of the year.
You know what, Pisces? You're absolutely right. But what about my birthday, though?
Happy early Birthday, btw!
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Thank you, love! Are you a August or a September Virgo child?
Posted by Leo0807
I couldn't decline her offer. I tried to. I mean I really tried to ghost her today too but she....I dunno, man. She already knows of all the effects that she has over me so we're way past cutting each other off at this point. Never mentioned the Sag not one time in our conversation, though. I wonder what that's about? No I don't. But she apologized for yesterday. I didn't think that she really did anything wrong that warranted an apology but I accepted it anyway and then I told her that I was sorry again for telling her to die or whatever it was that I originally said. She just rolled her eyes. You can't really offend a Sag with words anyway. This much I do definitely know. But then we had lunch together. She's the love of my life even if she doesn't exactly feel the same type of way about me. Fucked. But it is what it is.is she a sag? i have heard sags are quite generous and they love their friends. hope you can tell if this is just a friend gesture from her or not.
Then why does she keep coming to me and not the other way around? I'm not a stalker, much to your dismay.
not calling you a stalker, just sags are so about spending time with their friends that it is hard to tell when they are interested in one. thats why i said hope you can tell if she thinks of you as a friend or more.
But I'm not trying to be friends with her. This much she does know. I don't even know why she even changed her mind on when she agreed to be my girlfriend to begin with. Two days before the 4th of July. And then she denies that conversation ever taking place. I don't know. She's weird and confused and doesn't even know what she truly wants.
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that's good that you let her know you want more than friends. the ball is really in your court now whether you are ok with her current behavior, whether you are willing to see where it goes, or you want absolute commitment. follow your heart.
You know what, Pisces? You're absolutely right. But what about my birthday, though?
Happy early Birthday, btw!
Thank you, love! Are you a August or a September Virgo child?
September! 🙂
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I'll be sure to wish a wonderful happy birthday to you when the time comes then. You're pretty nice for a Virgo. Most of the time, Virgos don't usually seem to like anyone. I mean, from my experience anyway. They're only cool if they already like you as a person. But then we have compatible moons so there's also that too
Posted by Scenic
She's going to use you as long as you allow her to and then forget about you fast as lightning when some better opportunity appears. Then you're going to be hurt...again...and you'll have no one to blame but yourself because, while even though I'm sure you're aware of everything I'm saying, you'll still gladly walk into her arms because you can't help it and have no will power.I would suggest you tell her you can't go, but I know that you won't do that. You probably won't be done with her until she's absolutely destroyed you and pulls the no contact card on you (and means it)
You know what, Pisces? You're absolutely right. But what about my birthday, though?
That's what friends are for. If you can even find one buddy to hang out with then you're already setting yourself up for a better birthday.
Then that's what I'll do. Fuck being in the friend zone.
'Atta go. Just go in with a positive attitude and probably keep your phone off. That way she can't ruin your night with texts/calls and if you go drinking, maybe less chance of drunk texting. Hope you have fun
You're a cool ass Pisces. For real. I hope nothing but all good things come your way for the rest of the year.
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Thanks, man. You're pretty cool, yourself. You took what I said in my first post in stride. That's just me speaking my mind, but it rarely goes over well, whether it be irl or online. I wasn't trying to be an ass. Anyway, just believe in yourself and you'll eventually be in a better place.
Posted by Leo0807
I couldn't decline her offer. I tried to. I mean I really tried to ghost her today too but she....I dunno, man. She already knows of all the effects that she has over me so we're way past cutting each other off at this point. Never mentioned the Sag not one time in our conversation, though. I wonder what that's about? No I don't. But she apologized for yesterday. I didn't think that she really did anything wrong that warranted an apology but I accepted it anyway and then I told her that I was sorry again for telling her to die or whatever it was that I originally said. She just rolled her eyes. You can't really offend a Sag with words anyway. This much I do definitely know. But then we had lunch together. She's the love of my life even if she doesn't exactly feel the same type of way about me. Fucked. But it is what it is.is she a sag? i have heard sags are quite generous and they love their friends. hope you can tell if this is just a friend gesture from her or not.
Then why does she keep coming to me and not the other way around? I'm not a stalker, much to your dismay.
not calling you a stalker, just sags are so about spending time with their friends that it is hard to tell when they are interested in one. thats why i said hope you can tell if she thinks of you as a friend or more.
But I'm not trying to be friends with her. This much she does know. I don't even know why she even changed her mind on when she agreed to be my girlfriend to begin with. Two days before the 4th of July. And then she denies that conversation ever taking place. I don't know. She's weird and confused and doesn't even know what she truly wants.
that's good that you let her know you want more than friends. the ball is really in your court now whether you are ok with her current behavior, whether you are willing to see where it goes, or you want absolute commitment. follow your heart.
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My heart is treacherous.
At this point the OP and his post just need to be ignored. Why seek advice when you wont take it? Basically you cut off you dick and made a sacrifice to her, promising to be her fuckboy and slave from now on. No need for love or respect just there to be her toy.
Wonderful.
Posted by malloryor
At this point the OP and his post just need to be ignored. Why seek advice when you wont take it? Basically you cut off you dick and made a sacrifice to her, promising to be her fuckboy and slave from now on. No need for love or respect just there to be her toy.Wonderful.
You're a dumb bitch. I took the other Piscean's advice. And had you have known that, you probably wouldn't've made yourself look super fucking ultra stupid just then. Fuck off and go away.
I have nothing constructive to add to this OP - BUT Whiplash was a fucking awesome moveh
Posted by LadyNeptune
Your addicted to the drama. Makes you feel alive and at the center of your universe.Your giving me whiplash with your emotions on this one dude. One minute you love her, the next it's die bitch die, and now your calling her the love of your life. Smh.
Welcome to the toxic pool that dating is now. Bunch of fucking psychos out there.
Posted by malloryor
At this point the OP and his post just need to be ignored. Why seek advice when you wont take it? Basically you cut off you dick and made a sacrifice to her, promising to be her fuckboy and slave from now on. No need for love or respect just there to be her toy.Wonderful.
You're a dumb bitch. I took the other Piscean's advice. And had you have known that, you probably wouldn't've made yourself look super fucking ultra stupid just then. Fuck off and go away.
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Oh honey, you're the super fucking ultra stupid one here. You really aren't very bright and that's just sad.
Posted by Shellyd238
Good god man, too much fucking drama!She doesn't seem like an authentic Sag to me. I, and every other sag I know, could never be so malicious to anyone. I'm horrified even when I accidentally hurt someone.
She's a sociopath. Astrological placements can't explain or excuse crazy.
Where's the drama at? Shit is cool right now from where I am.
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LMFAO
Fuck wine. Have your ever tried Kava? She introduced me to that. It's like liquid Xanax.
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Wanna try.
Where do you get it?
Posted by malloryor
At this point the OP and his post just need to be ignored. Why seek advice when you wont take it? Basically you cut off you dick and made a sacrifice to her, promising to be her fuckboy and slave from now on. No need for love or respect just there to be her toy.Wonderful.
You're a dumb bitch. I took the other Piscean's advice. And had you have known that, you probably wouldn't've made yourself look super fucking ultra stupid just then. Fuck off and go away.
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Save the bass okay, because you cant even stand up to this chick who treats you like shit so dont come acting like you have a backbone now when you have a keyboard and a screen protecting you. Use that bass for where it counts.
I read the advice the other Pisces gave you, I actually read all of the advice people here gave you. I have also read your posta before where you have been given very solid advice and all you do is run in the OPPOSITE direction just to come back and bitch and moan about how unfairly she is treating you.
So no, you look dumb with all these endless threads. The fact that someone willingly and OPENLY treats you like a toy that they can toss out whenever they please, says a lot about what they KNOW they can get away with while dealing with you. Meaning you have taught her you will tolerate her mistreatment of you. The fact that despite how she treated you, YOU STILL considered going to her house for dinner because it is your bday, says a lot about your self esteem. She doesnt care about you and your bday, she just wants to make sure you are still pussy whipped.
But you will be right back here next week, with the same sob story and the same blame game when at this point the blame is solely on you.
Dont be mad at me for pointing out the obvious, you need to look in the mirror and realize how toxic this all is and stop this madness.
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I couldn't decline her offer. I tried to. I mean I really tried to ghost her today too but she....I dunno, man. She already knows of all the effects that she has over me so we're way past cutting each other off at this point. Never mentioned the Sag not one time in our conversation, though. I wonder what that's about? No I don't. But she apologized for yesterday. I didn't think that she really did anything wrong that warranted an apology but I accepted it anyway and then I told her that I was sorry again for telling her to die or whatever it was that I originally said. She just rolled her eyes. You can't really offend a Sag with words anyway. This much I do definitely know. But then we had lunch together. She's the love of my life even if she doesn't exactly feel the same type of way about me. Fucked. But it is what it is.