Sagittarius Man w/ Scorpio Moon and Venus

I must say this guy I just met has a very intense presence but he is also one of the sweetest guys I've ever met. One thing about him that I find very attractive is that he is so attentive to me. It is just the beginning, I know, but I want to know how to keep this guy interested. Any advice?

One more thing: he mentioned to me that he wants to settle down soon, which I thought was impossible for a Sag man. Lol. He also said that he wants to settle down with a girl who is not so experienced sexually so that he can "show her new things" in the bedroom. Would this have anything to do with his Scorpio Venus or moon? Anyone with this combo in their chart?


His:
Sag Sun
Scorpio Moon
Scorpio Venus
Aries Mars
Rising: Aquarius
Mercury: Sag
Jupiter: Capricorn

Mine:
Pisces Sun
Aries Moon
Capricorn Venus
Capricorn Mars
Rising: Gemini
Mercury: Aquarius
Jupiter: Cancer


Thanks in advance

Lol be careful, sounds a tad bit controlling.

Agree with Wadaly372
I had an experience with a Sag man with Venus In Scorpio and he was sweet and very kind attentive like yours.Moved very fast as well, as soon as he started talking to me outside of work he would call me babe/sweetheart. But it didn't feel right to me (he had a lot of personal baggage) and I guess I came off as aloof/reserved. I was affectionate but I wasn't like babe i love you like he was. That might have rubbed him the wrong way because he had an family emergency come up and stopped talking to me for like two weeks when I tried to reach out to him. I thought he was dead/missing/ in jail but quickly answered a text from a girl he didn't know (who was my friend that made me give her his # to test to see if he would answer or not)so I never talked to him again. He went from babe I miss you the very next day after I saw him to not answering my texts/calls and that is an asshole move to me.
I still haven't had sex before and when I told my ex Sag he treated me like I was a unicorn saying stuff like "hes glad I never had sex before most girls sleep around now a days", he wont force me to have sex with him, he would still date me if we didn't have sex, sex really didn't matter to him but he'd like it we did as long as I didn't lay there (um ok?).
Be careful, if you want to keep this one just be your usual loving Pisces self, just don't do anything you don't want do, he might disappear on you from my experience.

Posted by MuseTheMermaid
Agree with Wadaly372
I had an experience with a Sag man with Venus In Scorpio and he was sweet and very kind attentive like yours.Moved very fast as well, as soon as he started talking to me outside of work he would call me babe/sweetheart. But it didn't feel right to me (he had a lot of personal baggage) and I guess I came off as aloof/reserved. I was affectionate but I wasn't like babe i love you like he was. That might have rubbed him the wrong way because he had an family emergency come up and stopped talking to me for like two weeks when I tried to reach out to him. I thought he was dead/missing/ in jail but quickly answered a text from a girl he didn't know (who was my friend that made me give her his # to test to see if he would answer or not)so I never talked to him again. He went from babe I miss you the very next day after I saw him to not answering my texts/calls and that is an asshole move to me.
I still haven't had sex before and when I told my ex Sag he treated me like I was a unicorn saying stuff like "hes glad I never had sex before most girls sleep around now a days", he wont force me to have sex with him, he would still date me if we didn't have sex, sex really didn't matter to him but he'd like it we did as long as I didn't lay there (um ok?).
Be careful, if you want to keep this one just be your usual loving Pisces self, just don't do anything you don't want do, he might disappear on you from my experience.

That sounds very weird...I hope my guy doesn't pull a stunt like that on me. How long did you guys date for? Do you feel that he wanted more attachment from you because it seems as if you were distant toward him? Do you remember your guy's moon sign? The guy I'm talking to seems like he actually needs my attention constantly and talks a lot about wanting someone to "balance" him out with affection and be very loving. He's very intense and I'm hypnotized lol. But I definitely have my eyes open.

@Dapadon

It was very short, he asked me out at the end of May and I stopped talking to him in September. I also broke up with him between that time because he didn't handle his personal business very well and it affected the relationship. He swore his child ex was not his bc. she cheated, didn't get a paternity test. I gave him benefit of the doubt, his ex sued him for child support and he was forced to take a paternity test, turns out child was his. He picked up a 3rd job to help pay for child support and told me he wouldn't have another day off in January of this year. This happened back in July 2015. That was too much for me to handle, I couldn't be in a relationship with someone that I wouldn't see for 6+ months and it wasn't even long distance. He didn't tell me why he picked up a 3rd job. We still kept in touch and he ended up quitting the job we worked at together (too stressful) and wanted to see me before I left for school. He told me he wanted to make things work between us even though it would be a physical distance. ( I was going to school and hour away)

. Everything was good but then out of the blue he sent me a picture with him and his baby and told me he visited his child and I was blindsided by that. He told me he didn't have a kid but in the back of my mind i had my doubts but believed him. I felt like he pulled a bait and switch, had I known before hand I wouldn't have dated him. He had a lot of baggage and I had none, and the baby was the straw that broke the camels back, I felt like I'm too young (18) to be dealing with of all that mess and have my own stuff to worry about (work+ school). So after I found out he had a child I became extremely distant. It bothered me a lot but I didn't know how to talk to him about it, I didnt want to make it seem like I was making him choose between me and his child (something that I would never do). I also felt like he should not be in a relationship and that he has his own stuff he needs to handle but I didn't know how to end it. Until he started to ignore me, then I just stopped caring.

I do believe he became more attached/needy because I was distant, but my distance came from uncertainty about the relationship.He was a moon in Leo if I remember correctly. I found it flattering the attention he gave me, but looking back I'm like meh.