Sagittarius Woman and Gemini Man- Is He Gone or Temporarily Disappeared

I met a Gemini guy in his early 50's a few months ago out of and I didn't take him to serious (I'm a Sagittarius in my mid 40's). He asked could he have my phone number and I said no and that I was seeing somebody (and I was). He stayed on my mind, why I don't know for about 6 weeks later I asked his friend for his phone number and he authorized the request. We texted and talked on the phone everyday for 4 weeks until I went to visit. It was an amazing weekend of conversation, outings, and sex. The attractions was once in a lifetime AMAZING! I was supposed to meet his other friends but I wanted to leave the event early because I was tired. I returned home and we continued talking and texting and came up with plans for me to come back in a couple of weeks and he offered for me to stay at his house and utilize his car while he was at work. He also referred his place as "our place" a couple of times. A couple of days after booking flight arrangements he said something that hurt my feelings, I told him and he apologize. He texted me the next day to see if I had returned from another trip and I told him I would call him later. He didn't answer my call. I texted him and told him I don't do the ignoring thing to well do you want to continue to pursue this or are we done. He texted back and said that we were good. A day went by where I didn't contact and he didn't contact me but I did text him the next day to tell him to contact me when he got a chance as he was out of town for the weekend. I didn't hear from him until I contacted him that Sunday to see if he was still expecting me that Wednesday as discussed. He texted me back and said no I haven't heard from you. I tried to call and he said he couldn't talk he was I work and I sent a nasty text detailing my feelings. I haven't heard from him since and it's been 3 weeks. Is he gone for good?

He sounds like a douche. I hope he's gone!

@ Harukka

I mentioned that I did text him one day but didn't want to interrupt his trip from visiting a sick family member and friends. From there it went to plain old hurt your feelings nasty. I apologized the next day—