UPDATE ON MY SAGGY DILEMMA

Okay so for those of you that read my other post titled "sagg man broke my heart in a million piecies" I ran into him last night at the casino...he was hugging me and stuff, asked me if i got married on him. I told him no, and i asked him if he got married he said no. He told me how he misses me and stuff...blah blah blah.... His family was there we're all hugging me and stuff. it really felt good to see them. and then at the end of the night he tried to get me to go back home with him. At first i told him to let me call him when i get back to my car becuz i didn't drive.He wound up calling me before i got back to my car. I didnt aswer becuz my bestfriend was helping me decide weather or not to go. I decided not to becuz it was at 3:00am and im not a booty call, which im sure he woulda tried. I told him we could link up the next day(today). He suppose to call. He hasn't yet. I dont fee bad bout not going last night...but i guess it would hurt if he doesnt call to see me today...jus a lil bit. Was this good?bWhat should i do now...serious answer's only please. i just dont wanna be caught up in his web again...

U made a excellent choice! They respect a woman that doesn't give in easily. There's nothin for you 2 do now but wait, but don't let him get into your head. They are extremely flighty. Whether he calls today or not has nothing to do with you not going to his house last night. Today would have played out the same I'm sure. If he doesn't call, o well. You're jus back where u were before you ran into him right?

thanks you guys. He did text me today actually, saying "hey wat u doin" at around 4:00pm. I texted bac saying im chillin what u up to, he said "same" i said oh ok, we're u still trynah see me today...and he never responded. I was feeling pretty stupid like maybe i sounded a lil anxious. My bestfriend asked her boyfriend and he said it was fine because i dissed him last nite and agreed to see him 2day and there was nothing wrong with following up on it. As long as i didnt keep texting or asking. (which i didnt!:-) ...) but im going to listen to yall...he was all like s u still have my num...i was like yea...he like so why dont u never use it? I was like i didnt know u wanted me to..u asked for your space so thats what u gave you. He just shook his head at me (in a "no" motion) i dunno what this guy wants from me...it was nice seeing him, it brought back alot of feelings...i just wish he could get it together, but he's prolly not even into me like that...or even missed me truly...he prolly only wanted me last night jus to have sex...although that hurts my feelings...gotta face facts right—

lol. if yall feel like your repeating yourselves dont feel bad lol. my bestfriend says im NEVER satisfied...and that he does miss me, its just that he wants what he wants and i have to show him he cant have it his way...