Wasting my time

I absolutely hate getting played by men but what's crazy is this time even though I loved this man i watched his actions and when I noticed he was selfish, self centered , and careless. I left him. The cherry on top was the constant bragging of other woman's interest in him. I dropped him because I felt if he really came back that meant he cared but only one stupid text and then more prideful ignoring. I hate that I just got played but I deleted all his contact. It hurts so much but at least I'm learning to respect myself. I wish I understood why he put me through this... I have a few ideas like his shitty ex. But I am not your emotional dumpster . UHG wtf

some men just enjoy the company/ego stroking of many women. It help lessen their insecurities. it makes them feel valued and like a big man. Whats better than one woman calling you telling you how great you are? 3 women calling you telling you how great you are. shit, some are even raised to think like this. Sounds like he cycles his women.

trust, you dont want to be apart of that. let the other women have him and learn for themselves. you just caught on quicker than they have.

dont worry, you didnt lose out on anything and neither did he. so what other girls want him. this isnt a contest. You both just wanted different things.