Why are Sag men like this?

went on 2 separate dates with 2 different Sag guys. but they acted all aloof/distant, so quiet and overall just came off unengaging all throughout. 2 different people yet have that same personality.

this can't be a coincidence.

you think maybe there's zero interest then they call you up like you guys didn't have the worst date ever. maybe for them it was cool coz you were engaging but they gave absolutely nothing on their end to keep the convo going, almost like they only cared about the interest directed AT THEM.

my Leo venus not gonna stand for this shit.

do Sag men always try to play it cool?

messaging me like we had the BEST TIME ever BAhahah wtf.

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Posted by virgoOPPP

went on 2 separate dates with 2 different Sag guys. but they acted all aloof/distant, so quiet and overall just came off unengaging all throughout. 2 different people yet have that same personality.

this can't be a coincidence.

you think maybe there's zero interest then they call you up like you guys didn't have the worst date ever. maybe for them it was cool coz you were engaging but they gave absolutely nothing on their end to keep the convo going, almost like they only cared about the interest directed AT THEM.

my Leo venus not gonna stand for this shit.

do Sag men always try to play it cool?

messaging me like we had the BEST TIME ever BAhahah wtf.

Lol that’s not how Sag men are with me. They get all excited, and chase, want sex, to see me etc.

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that's how they are over the phone/videochat/messages BUT in person i'm just not feeling it.

it's weird, maybe we just don't vibe.

Posted by Hapis

I've said it before,:

"Ben Stein... as a Sag.. made me realize every Sag I've ever met was boring. Or an alcoholic. Or both. You know what boring alcoholics do for fun? They collect the bottles of all the booze they've drank.. it's like pokemon for winos.

I hear tales of adventurous Sags from across the lands, I've just never met one."

I'm sure I'll get heat from it but it's TRUE

it almost felt like dating that alcoholic Scorpio sun/Gem moon. collected bottles too. there's not much difference between them, only the Scorpio never asked me to buy him all kinds of shit. the Sags held on to their money, shared little of themselves and that stinginess really threw me off. and lied about a small thing like height too.

and this man was Sag sun/Sag moon.

@Hapis

and my dad is a Sag who is also an alcoholic. he'd be generous to me BUT a cheapass to everyone else. but i always credit his good traits that i like to his Scorpio moon.

but much like the Sags i've dated, he shares nothing of himself. he had lived in a different country for 18 years now, would leave me messages of love with the same, repetitive contents. he'd be sending me money too. but all these feel so obligatory of him.

the only time i got him to emotionally snap was when i went MIA for half a year when he came to visit. but then he snapped back to being distant again.

sooooooo weird.

all he ever does is drink, look depressed and watch random shit like he's high.

Posted by Hapis

My pharmacist is even a Sag... super good guy, but holy shit is he dull.

i've always wondered why Gems and Sags keep marrying and divorcing each other.

now i understand.

no 2 people could be so different. Gems are lively, fun, generous, keep convos going, engage themselves and they like to travel.

Sag may have a great sense of humor, a quiet thoughtfulness about them but they are FAR from what's written about them.

the proximity to Scorpio and Cap may explain a lot of things.

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My pharmacist is even a Sag... super good guy, but holy shit is he dull.

i've always wondered why Gems and Sags keep marrying and divorcing each other.

now i understand.

no 2 people could be so different. Gems are lively, fun, generous, keep convos going, engage themselves and they like to travel.

Sags may have a great sense of humor, a quiet thoughtfulness about them but they are FAR from what's written about them.

the proximity to Scorpio and Cap may explain a lot of things.

Lol I actually know a Sag and gem couple. She drags him everywhere. She is very interesting and know a little about everything. Hes quiet and wears sweaters in the summer. Again, super nice dude. But I'm with you, think the sales pitch is more for the exception and not the rule. It's not really a knock on them it's more of a lack of "wow factor" from all my experiences.

Sag women are nothing like the men IMO. Sag women get wild.

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Sag women are EXACTLY what's wrriten about Sag. must be the expectations, but the men are a letdown.

i knew a Gem girl who dated a Sag, dragged him everywhere like she's his manic pixie dream girl haha but that didn't last coz he wanted to just stay at home like he's retired (they're both in their 20s!) and have her work for their household income. she dropped his ass.

i remember reading about Brad Pitt sitting on his couch smoking weed all day before he met Angelina and him mentioning it clues you in to how negatively he thought about himself.

don't know these people on a deep level, but that REVEALS a lot about how Sag men are really like and whose fault that was.

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@Hapis

and my dad is a Sag who is also an alcoholic. he'd be generous to me BUT a cheapass to everyone else. but i always credit his good traits that i like to his Scorpio moon.

but much like the Sags i've dated, he shares nothing of himself. he had lived in a different country for 18 years now, would leave me messages of love with the same, repetitive contents. he'd be sending me money too. but all these feel so obligatory of him.

the only time i got him to emotionally snap was when i went MIA for half a year when he came to visit. but then he snapped back to being distant again.

sooooooo weird.

all he ever does is drink, look depressed and watch random shit like he's high.

I'm sorry to hear that about your dad. For you and for him.

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it's fine. people are what they are. being stubborn myself, i've learned to stop constantly forcing change even if it's for the better.

Bitch watch a documentary or something mentally stimulating. Ur mind is fucked

Most people these days are playing it cool in dating.

Short answer: yes. We’re the fuckin worst

I really don’t like small talk to begin with but I get so awkward around romantic interests that I just straight up avoid them. I’ll talk to everyone in the room except them. It’s weird. God bless my husband and every man who ever dealt with my ass

I remember when my childhood crush asked me out and said he was surprised I agreed to go out with him and had no idea I crushed on him ...he said I always acted like I wasn’t even interested in saying hi to him

My Sag fwb/dude i'm 'dating?' isn't like how you describe. Idk, maybe cause I'm a Sag as well (sun, moon, merc) it'a different but he makes things more fun n we can talk about anything and everything, we do all sorts of random things, he pays for shiz, etc.

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My bff is interesting, fun, and always on the go, wanting to do this or go to that event. But the cheapness factor is there when it comes to his romantic interests too. He is sag sun/scorp moon. We have always been platonic, and some of my best and funnest memories were with him.

In a romantic setting, I have went on dates with several sag men myself, to where I felt strongly attracted to them and their mind and thought I wanted to fck them, but meeting and going on the actual date killed off that desire entirely. Like you, I also found them reserved, depressed, awkward, boring, and cheap. Don't engage ME for a date and then say you have no money. It's a turn off for me. Also, they were quick to kill off a conversation without even realizing it. I think there are some unfortunate mercury placements for these guys at play or something - scorp, sag, cap?? They didn't want to dance with me or drink. Just kinda sat there. When we went our separate ways, I got the same messages enthusiastically asking when can they see me again. Like.... um we gonna pretend like you weren't a total wet blanket for 3 straight hours just now or what.

I should say that sometimes the boring, reserved, awkward, depressed thing can work for me in the form of an aqua or cap. It's just never done it for me with sag though. Maybe because I lack all the fire in my chart.

i don't understand what Gems see in them. they can be good looking to be sure, funny in an out of nowhere way but melancholic. Edgar Allan Poe right up on here.

there's something about the idea of being with them that's attractive but ACTUALLY being with them is NOT BAhahah.

we share the same thoughts about Sag men. guess it's a mercury thing.

Posted by nanobot

My bff is interesting, fun, and always on the go, wanting to do this or go to that event. But the cheapness factor is there when it comes to his romantic interests too. He is sag sun/scorp moon. We have always been platonic, and some of my best and funnest memories were with him.

In a romantic setting, I have went on dates with several sag men myself, to where I felt strongly attracted to them and their mind and thought I wanted to fck them, but meeting and going on the actual date killed off that desire entirely. Like you, I also found them reserved, depressed, awkward, boring, and cheap. Don't engage ME for a date and then say you have no money. It's a turn off for me. Also, they were quick to kill off a conversation without even realizing it. I think there are some unfortunate mercury placements for these guys at play or something - scorp, sag, cap?? They didn't want to dance with me or drink. Just kinda sat there. When we went our separate ways, I got the same messages enthusiastically asking when can they see me again. Like.... um we gonna pretend like you weren't a total wet blanket for 3 straight hours just now or what.

I should say that sometimes the boring, reserved, awkward, depressed thing can work for me in the form of an aqua or cap. It's just never done it for me with sag though. Maybe because I lack all the fire in my chart.

i don't understand what Gems see in them. they can be good looking to be sure, funny in an out of nowhere way but melancholic. Edgar Allan Poe right up on here.

there's something about the idea of being with them that's attractive but ACTUALLY being with them is NOT BAhahah.

we share the same thoughts about Sag men. guess it's a mercury thing.

All Astrology aside, when a man invests time, money and his brain with you, he probably likes you. If he only spends his time with you, then he probably likes your body.

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Posted by Hapis

My pharmacist is even a Sag... super good guy, but holy shit is he dull.

i've always wondered why Gems and Sags keep marrying and divorcing each other.

now i understand.

no 2 people could be so different. Gems are lively, fun, generous, keep convos going, engage themselves and they like to travel.

Sag may have a great sense of humor, a quiet thoughtfulness about them but they are FAR from what's written about them.

the proximity to Scorpio and Cap may explain a lot of things.

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I agree that we are boring. That’s actually why we get along with Gems so well. They love talking about themselves and asking questions, don’t give a crap about how we don’t ask stuff. I love to travel but I need a partner to pull stuff out of me. I’m pretty boring and a workaholic when I’m not traveling. I also am super distant and Gemini’s will contact everyday, even when you forget to respond. It’s a good match for me. But I would be bored with a Sag. I think others bring out our passion.

I don’t even know how to do small talk or questions to ask people cause it feels invasive.

Virgo men are boring to me though. They pretty much do the same thing. Watch and observe, and ask nothing.

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I really don’t like small talk to begin with but I get so awkward around romantic interests that I just straight up avoid them. I’ll talk to everyone in the room except them. It’s weird. God bless my husband and every man who ever dealt with my ass

I remember when my childhood crush asked me out and said he was surprised I agreed to go out with him and had no idea I crushed on him ...he said I always acted like I wasn’t even interested in saying hi to him

I’m the same way. I’m so friendly as a friend and a ridiculous, awkwardly social person when I like you. It sucks. I wish it was the reverse.

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I really don’t like small talk to begin with but I get so awkward around romantic interests that I just straight up avoid them. I’ll talk to everyone in the room except them. It’s weird. God bless my husband and every man who ever dealt with my ass

I remember when my childhood crush asked me out and said he was surprised I agreed to go out with him and had no idea I crushed on him ...he said I always acted like I wasn’t even interested in saying hi to him

I’m the same way. I’m so friendly as a friend and a ridiculous, awkwardly social person when I like you. It sucks. I wish it was the reverse.

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then when we were sitting down, after hours of no physical contact he just caresses the top of my hand for like 30 secs then he goes back to browsing his phone AAAAANNNDDD it weirded me out hahaha wtf.

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I really don’t like small talk to begin with but I get so awkward around romantic interests that I just straight up avoid them. I’ll talk to everyone in the room except them. It’s weird. God bless my husband and every man who ever dealt with my ass

I remember when my childhood crush asked me out and said he was surprised I agreed to go out with him and had no idea I crushed on him ...he said I always acted like I wasn’t even interested in saying hi to him

I’m the same way. I’m so friendly as a friend and a ridiculous, awkwardly social person when I like you. It sucks. I wish it was the reverse.

then when we were sitting down, after hours of no physical contact he just caresses the top of my hand for like 30 secs then he goes back to browsing his phone AAAAANNNDDD it weirded me out hahaha wtf.

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You should’ve touched him but then he probably would’ve tried to have sex with you lol. I think Sag hold back to see if they like a person. You can get fucced and left or they can actually get to know you and take their time a little. (Not that long) but usually we come on too quickly and then get grief about it so we learn to stand back a little.

It gets better the more they like you but he will need help in knowing what you want. Sag are so blunt, we aren’t good at guessing. He probably didn’t want to invade your space.

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Posted by Hapis

My pharmacist is even a Sag... super good guy, but holy shit is he dull.

i've always wondered why Gems and Sags keep marrying and divorcing each other.

now i understand.

no 2 people could be so different. Gems are lively, fun, generous, keep convos going, engage themselves and they like to travel.

Sag may have a great sense of humor, a quiet thoughtfulness about them but they are FAR from what's written about them.

the proximity to Scorpio and Cap may explain a lot of things.

I agree that we are boring. That’s actually why we get along with Gems so well. They love talking about themselves and asking questions, don’t give a crap about how we don’t ask stuff. I love to travel but I need a partner to pull stuff out of me. I’m pretty boring and a workaholic when I’m not traveling. I also am super distant and Gemini’s will contact everyday, even when you forget to respond. It’s a good match for me. But I would be bored with a Sag. I think others bring out our passion.

I don’t even know how to do small talk or questions to ask people cause it feels invasive.

Virgo men are boring to me though. They pretty much do the same thing. Watch and observe, and ask nothing.

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speak for yourself! I'm not boring! I'm the life of every party!

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Posted by brianafay

I really don’t like small talk to begin with but I get so awkward around romantic interests that I just straight up avoid them. I’ll talk to everyone in the room except them. It’s weird. God bless my husband and every man who ever dealt with my ass

I remember when my childhood crush asked me out and said he was surprised I agreed to go out with him and had no idea I crushed on him ...he said I always acted like I wasn’t even interested in saying hi to him

I’m the same way. I’m so friendly as a friend and a ridiculous, awkwardly social person when I like you. It sucks. I wish it was the reverse.

then when we were sitting down, after hours of no physical contact he just caresses the top of my hand for like 30 secs then he goes back to browsing his phone AAAAANNNDDD it weirded me out hahaha wtf.

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one thing I will say is we don't like making the "First" move.... rejection will make us super depressed. It's one thing if we reject(which we won't), but if we get rejected its game over.

I'm 100% sure before I do anything.

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Posted by Hapis

My pharmacist is even a Sag... super good guy, but holy shit is he dull.

i've always wondered why Gems and Sags keep marrying and divorcing each other.

now i understand.

no 2 people could be so different. Gems are lively, fun, generous, keep convos going, engage themselves and they like to travel.

Sag may have a great sense of humor, a quiet thoughtfulness about them but they are FAR from what's written about them.

the proximity to Scorpio and Cap may explain a lot of things.

I agree that we are boring. That’s actually why we get along with Gems so well. They love talking about themselves and asking questions, don’t give a crap about how we don’t ask stuff. I love to travel but I need a partner to pull stuff out of me. I’m pretty boring and a workaholic when I’m not traveling. I also am super distant and Gemini’s will contact everyday, even when you forget to respond. It’s a good match for me. But I would be bored with a Sag. I think others bring out our passion.

I don’t even know how to do small talk or questions to ask people cause it feels invasive.

Virgo men are boring to me though. They pretty much do the same thing. Watch and observe, and ask nothing.

speak for yourself! I'm not boring! I'm the life of every party!

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Lol you are a riot.

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Posted by brianafay

I really don’t like small talk to begin with but I get so awkward around romantic interests that I just straight up avoid them. I’ll talk to everyone in the room except them. It’s weird. God bless my husband and every man who ever dealt with my ass

I remember when my childhood crush asked me out and said he was surprised I agreed to go out with him and had no idea I crushed on him ...he said I always acted like I wasn’t even interested in saying hi to him

I’m the same way. I’m so friendly as a friend and a ridiculous, awkwardly social person when I like you. It sucks. I wish it was the reverse.

then when we were sitting down, after hours of no physical contact he just caresses the top of my hand for like 30 secs then he goes back to browsing his phone AAAAANNNDDD it weirded me out hahaha wtf.

one thing I will say is we don't like making the "First" move.... rejection will make us super depressed. It's one thing if we reject(which we won't), but if we get rejected its game over.

I'm 100% sure before I do anything.

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Sags surprise me. they're not at all what i thought they'd be.

I know a few....introvert, fond of the booze, depressed types

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I know a few....introvert, fond of the booze, depressed types

those are the only Sags i keep dating

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I know a few....introvert, fond of the booze, depressed types

those are the only Sags i keep dating

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