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10 Years
Has this Sag man changed?
Posted by Capmercury87
What's his venus and mercury
Mercury is Capricorn Venus is Aquarius
Make him prove himself
Posted by UnicornSag
I don't think so. I wouldn't believe him. You were physical with him but you weren't in official relationship?
Yes....we were basically bf and gf smh
Posted by RooSagicorn
Well maybe? But I’d think you’d need more from him than that after 9 months.. what does he have to say for himself? What does he mean by be with you?
He said he was going through a lot with his family (which he was I never met anyone in his family though which was an issue) now I guess he wants to be official
Posted by UnicornSag
I don't think so. I wouldn't believe him. You were physical with him but you weren't in official relationship?Yes....we were basically bf and gf smh
Basically?
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Acted like we were together but wasnt
I plan on making him tap dance I️ honestly don’t even want to go back into the situation
Posted by UnicornSag
I don't think so. I wouldn't believe him. You were physical with him but you weren't in official relationship?Yes....we were basically bf and gf smh
Who knows lol 🤷🏾♀️ I don’t care to be honest lol
so...what was he doing for 9 months?
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Posted by UnicornSag
I don't think so. I wouldn't believe him. You were physical with him but you weren't in official relationship?Yes....we were basically bf and gf smh
Basically?
Acted like we were together but wasnt
I don't know what this means?
For me being together means: kissing,hugging, holding hands, having sex, having long conversations, doing things together, spending time together...
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We did all of that,no title though
Eh sounds like he was hiding something or someone... what a bunch of BS he missed you after 9 months? Go with your gut and stay away he did you a favor. If he never saw you as his GF or acknowledged as such then you were in a one way relationship. You can do a whole lot better.
I honestly believe he had something else going on as well..... it was too suspect.
Posted by RooSagicorn
Well maybe? But I’d think you’d need more from him than that after 9 months.. what does he have to say for himself? What does he mean by be with you?He said he was going through a lot with his family (which he was I never met anyone in his family though which was an issue) now I guess he wants to be official
What do you want?
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I don’t want to be with him I don’t love him anymore 🤷🏾♀️
Posted by beebeeN
Long story short, dealt with a Sag man for a few years. He didn’t want to be in a relationship but we basically were in one (didn’t want to share me with anyone else, talked everyday, etc.) I got tired of the disappearing acts and him not making things official so i left him alone. It’s been around 9 months and he came back saying he is in love with me and wants to be with me...is he genuine?
Only you know that.
We don't know him.
Posted by RooSagicorn
Well maybe? But I’d think you’d need more from him than that after 9 months.. what does he have to say for himself? What does he mean by be with you?He said he was going through a lot with his family (which he was I never met anyone in his family though which was an issue) now I guess he wants to be official
What do you want?
I don’t want to be with him I don’t love him anymore 🤷🏾♀️
Well then it doesn’t matter! Does it?
She's weird. lol
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I am lol
Posted by Evoxxxscorpio3
Lol if you really don’t give a shit you wouldn’t he here asking these questions.
Just curious for an outside opinion
Posted by RooSagicorn
Well maybe? But I’d think you’d need more from him than that after 9 months.. what does he have to say for himself? What does he mean by be with you?He said he was going through a lot with his family (which he was I never met anyone in his family though which was an issue) now I guess he wants to be official
What do you want?
I don’t want to be with him I don’t love him anymore 🤷🏾♀️
Well then it doesn’t matter! Does it?
She's weird. lol
I am lol
What's you sun sign? lol
My ex Sag kept on coming back to but ain't buying his words again. Both Sags, never will I. 😆
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I just knew he was lying to me after awhile my therapist had to point this out.... disappearing because of “family issues” smfh looking back on it I was a fool....Sag annoy me to no end
OP,
You know the truth...that he wasn’t committed to you. Bf/Gfs don’t pull disappearing acts. Are you upset at him or at the fact that you allowed him to do this? I’m not shifting blame on you or defending him as people should treat others with respect. You’re simply asking a question that you already know the answer to. Who knows why he’s coming around now. That will be revealed with time but his past behavior is relevant because he nor you have held him accountable. You shouldn’t get involved with him at all but if you must, keep him in the friendzone.
Posted by beebeeN
Long story short, dealt with a Sag man for a few years. He didn’t want to be in a relationship but we basically were in one (didn’t want to share me with anyone else, talked everyday, etc.) I got tired of the disappearing acts and him not making things official so i left him alone. It’s been around 9 months and he came back saying he is in love with me and wants to be with me...is he genuine?
He shopped around and is settling for you now, He's full of shit. Almost a year later? Yeah right. He's gonna disappear again when someone else catches his attention.
It just depends on what you're willing to put up with. You gave him too much freedom those years you were together. He's looking for that again. I would tell him to go shove it! He's gonna get all the comforts of home without living there, if you know what I mean. smh.
He knows how you are now and knows what you will put up with, he's gonna play you,I bet.
Posted by beebeeN
Long story short, dealt with a Sag man for a few years. He didn’t want to be in a relationship but we basically were in one (didn’t want to share me with anyone else, talked everyday, etc.) I got tired of the disappearing acts and him not making things official so i left him alone. It’s been around 9 months and he came back saying he is in love with me and wants to be with me...is he genuine?He shopped around and is settling for you now, He's full of shit. Almost a year later? Yeah right. He's gonna disappear again when someone else catches his attention.
It just depends on what you're willing to put up with. You gave him too much freedom those years you were together. He's looking for that again. I would tell him to go shove it! He's gonna get all the comforts of home without living there, if you know what I mean. smh.
He knows how you are now and knows what you will put up with, he's gonna play you,I bet.
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I think a part of me want to wheel him in to get back at him and that isn’t healthy lol I knew he was lying to me he acts like he’s sooooo sincere but I feel it, he’s full of shit. He’s “in love” with me now....after all we have been through? It was a great learning experience but I’m off it
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Long story short, dealt with a Sag man for a few years. He didn’t want to be in a relationship but we basically were in one (didn’t want to share me with anyone else, talked everyday, etc.) I got tired of the disappearing acts and him not making things official so i left him alone. It’s been around 9 months and he came back saying he is in love with me and wants to be with me...is he genuine?