@scorpdiva
15 Years1,000+ Posts
I would not tell Sag#1 about Sag#2...you were on-off with Sag#1 and although you love him, you were keeping your options open because you weren't getting what you wanted. If you now put all your effort into Sag#1, things should be better this time around. Sags need a lot of validation(like Scorps) too. Just try not to analyze/worry about everything. I know its hard! I do the same thing...lol
Posted by WynterBourne
😕 Mmmm. I think Sag #1 can probably handle whatever you need to tell him about Sag #2.Unless you think he's the really real jealous type, of course.
Sagg #1 can get very jealous, he got upset at me over the weekend cause I went to a concert with my sister and that I went to a club afterwards. Last night he basically told me he doesn't want me going out and if I do, don't tell him. I told him about an older guy I went on a date with during our break and he brings that up all the time.
Posted by TheLadySagittarius
I would not tell Sag#1 about Sag#2...you were on-off with Sag#1 and although you love him, you were keeping your options open because you weren't getting what you wanted. If you now put all your effort into Sag#1, things should be better this time around. Sags need a lot of validation(like Scorps) too. Just try not to analyze/worry about everything. I know its hard! I do the same thing...lol
That's what I told him last night but talk about things we need from one another and we can only work on those things to see if we can make this work. I analyze everything so it's going to be hard...........
Thanks ladies for your thoughts on this
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So I have been posting on for some time about Sagg #1 and more recently about Sagg#2, while me and Sagg#1 hadn't seen each other in like 2 1/2 months and we finally seen each other last night, and all those feelings came back. I should have thought about this whole thing a little more before I just jump into something and didn't think. I think that Sagg #2 wants to have a relationship but at the same time Sagg #1 we have been having a relationship that's off and on but my heart is really with him. I don't want to tell Sagg #1 about the Sagg #2 situation because I know it will be a big problem and he probably will never speak to me again? Would I be wrong if I take that route and Sagg #2 I think he is cool but I don't want to take it any further and it's still early so hopefully it won't be hard to let him know that. I also posted this on the Scorp board to see what my fellow scorps think.