And so are the days of your life........

This topic was created in the Virgo forum by kitty69 on Wednesday, March 16, 2011 and has 25 replies.

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@kitty69
16 Years

So heard from the ex Virgo love of my life again, after a year. Hes moved to Nevada, and messaged again. I have'nt responded. If any of you have followed my story thus far, you'll understand my frustration. Why the constant messing with my head, I ask you?. You Virgos keep insisting, once you've finished with someone that's it, sooooooooo——?? why not leave me alone, once and for all, grrrrrrrrr.

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@kitty69
16 Years

Ahhhh Mister Cajin, forever the naughty boy, hows the girlie? Thanx Miss Elle, sorry bout the rant, bit emotional today eh?

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Posted by kitty69

So heard from the ex Virgo love of my life again, after a year.

Just like on my thread about women blinding themselves ... here it is in full example.

He's not the love of your life .. if he were the love of your life, he'd be WITH you. But, after a year, you still let your feelings cloud any judgement you have on the topic.

It finished .... drop it, ffs ... he's nothing, never way .. wtf would you come in here or anywhere else and make him more than he ever was?

Gawd, women are so fucked up .. it's a wonder they can ever find a man to tolerate them.

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It's the truth .... it's been a year.

Apparantly you cannot handle the truth ... and this is what he banks on everytime he pulls your chain and you're dumb enough to fall for it ..... AGAIN

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@kitty69
16 Years

Ahhh Mister Caj, this makes perfect sense now, I'm just sorry things didnt pan out. Onwards and upwards yeah?

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@kitty69
16 Years

For the love of jesus P Angel, since your the expert on my personal situation, why dont you break it down for me. This man has been to see me numerous times since our break up, I make no attempt to see him, get in touch with him, hes now moved to America, Im in Australia, what the hell is the point hes trying to make. YOU may as well finish the story!!!!!!!!!

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Posted by kitty69
P Angel @# $ % )&*!!!

lmao did I catch a "nine'er" in there?

I'm surprised you are able to converse with her in the first place. I thought everyone on dxp fell into one of three categories, they've either blocked p angel, been blocked by p angel, or both. I was convinced she was just typing messages so she can read them.

Still don't know where she came from blocking me regarding the proper discipline of a spoiled brat.

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Anywho kitty from what I can gather, he may not believe in burning bridges. What do the messages contain when he does contact you? How would you say he is messing with your head?

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@kitty69
16 Years

Your funny OP3CRIMSON, lets not even entertain P Angel...

You can view the whole story, if you go back far enough on my previous posts.

To cut a long story short, met two years ago, fell desperately in love, had a relationship for a year. Since then, hes visited on a number of occasions, tried to contact me i haven't responded. The last time I saw him was 1 year ago. He has now moved to America, and text me yesterday, he just said hello, his number had changed, don't know if that has any bearing, asked what Id been up to. Got the better of me I did respond by asking what he was up to , he told me, I didn't tell him anything about me, then he said night night, what the?. I don't understand the point of this. He never could communicate his feelings even when he kept coming round, I don't understand his need to keep popping up in my life. I told him when we split I could never be friends with him ever, I cant do it. So why persist? Every time he does it , it hurts alotttt.

Just a side note, I did ask him why he sent me the good luck with your life text, to which he replied, he didn't mean it. He dumped me via text, wishing me well, hmmm nice eh—

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@VirgoVixxxen
16 Years1,000+ Posts

Oh I'm sory OP.

Rest assured it wasn't anything bad. I actually said something to Sorti but realized I could just put it in the thread he just created on the misc. board.

In any event, good luck to you and I do wish you all the best.

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Hmm, you telling him that you can't be friends with him would set off something inside me that demands my attention. I would make it my quest to change your mind. Just something about being basically called a bad person or a complex inside me where I want everyone to like me. Just a possibility that he thinks the same way.

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@kitty69
16 Years

Ahhh, interesting angle OP3, {yeah you know me}, sorry i digress, your name just makes me want to break into song hehehehe!.

So in essence, its nothing to do with me - re feelings, more to do with the conquest per se—

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@kitty69
16 Years

So today I finally got the courage to tell him to lose my number, he said OK. The end. A sad day indeed...

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Posted by kitty69
For the love of jesus P Angel, since your the expert on my personal situation, why dont you break it down for me. This man has been to see me numerous times since our break up, I make no attempt to see him, get in touch with him, hes now moved to America, Im in Australia, what the hell is the point hes trying to make. YOU may as well finish the story!!!!!!!!!

I just don't understand why people are so stupid .. seriously.

I guess I will have to explain it to you *** sighs ***

He continues to contact you ... and then he fucks with your head ... and you keep falling for it everytime.

The point is .... H looks in your direction and you call him the love of your life, while you run around in circles. Meanwhile, he's sitting back laughing with his boys, saying **gimme five bro**

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Posted by P-Angel
It's the truth .... it's been a year.

Apparantly you cannot handle the truth ... and this is what he banks on everytime he pulls your chain and you're dumb enough to fall for it ..... AGAIN

That's is what I said to you, which lead you to ask me to explain it to you.

seriously ... are you really that dumb?

It's been a year, you still fall for his shit, he probably laughs his fucking ass off at you just like me .. watch, I'll show you

rflmao

^^^^

And now you say you finally got the courage to tell him to lose your number? It only took you what? A year?

look, I'll show you again ..

rflamo

^^^^