@fatalbutterfly
20 YearsVirgo
A virgo needs Scorpio help!!!
Hmmm....What did you do for him to behave this way?. What did you accuse him of etc?
Either he's really immature or he's out to get revenge..thats outrageous what he did..
Either he's really immature or he's out to get revenge..thats outrageous what he did..
Wow, that sounds immature to me! Did something happen b/t you asking him for the money to when he sent you the text?
I need help I don't get it are Scorpios really just that cruel once they changed there mind or am I missing something here.
What he did is atrocious, scorpio or no scorpio. It might be a revenge situation, but nevertheless, don't be harsh on yourself by dealing with such cr@ap.
What he did is atrocious, scorpio or no scorpio. It might be a revenge situation, but nevertheless, don't be harsh on yourself by dealing with such cr@ap.
am so sorry, but what he did sending you that pic seems so mean and disrespectful.
even if he was just trying to get a reaction out of you (seeing as you didn't respond to his 2 text msgs).
"that started a frenzy of fighting and accuseing from 11pm - 2:56am last message on my cell phone" - where did you guys leave this? is it over or are you trying to work things out?
even if he was just trying to get a reaction out of you (seeing as you didn't respond to his 2 text msgs).
"that started a frenzy of fighting and accuseing from 11pm - 2:56am last message on my cell phone" - where did you guys leave this? is it over or are you trying to work things out?
Yeah thats outrageous..and very immature...Ditch the dimwit
This guy is 1-a mooch, 2-immature, and 3-spiteful.
Wow. that one sentence is enough for me to dump the dimwit, as MM said.
Wow. that one sentence is enough for me to dump the dimwit, as MM said.
"This guy is 1-a mooch, 2-immature, and 3-spiteful.
Wow. that one sentence is enough for me to dump the dimwit, as MM said."
Totally agree.
Wow. that one sentence is enough for me to dump the dimwit, as MM said."
Totally agree.
He has some serious apologizing to do whether you two stay together or not. I would also forget about the money. I would not waste my time trying to get it back, and I would let him know that too. It's a sad way to end a relationship, but this says something about his character that you don't need to miss.
I have'nt heard from him since that Saturday, I was sometimes very suspicious and non trusting. I would sometimes lash out and with stupid things and he would blow it and I would apoligize and things would be good. I don't know exactly I sometimes wrote blogs and things in myspace to get him jeolous because he seemed to be paying less and less attention to me. I know it frusterated him in the beginning that I had serious trust issues but I never cheated on him I never did anything bad,except act paranoid and accuseing but I always regreted it.He always seemed to forgive me too. He just has been so distant the last two weeks. The bad part is that the Sunday before he text me we were with each other and everything seemed so normal and good and it kind of all came out of the blue. I can't approach him.... The girl he was with was a little chubby not fat but chubby and I was a pissed off female so after alot of fighting I wrote "she looks a littel fat try rolling her in flour to find the wet spot" I never said I was an angel.... anyways his reply "kinda like your fat ass we should role you in flour."
end of converstaion and we have not text each other since... its stupid and sometimes I even giggle about it but then it makes me cry. I really don't and can't say what happen if it was pent up in him from my last bout of lack of trust, or he is truely plain evil I don't know him to be so he was very patient with me, I too believe something happened actually something he misunderstood it was completely not him. Somewhere I keep thinking my own lack of self confidence and maybe the lack in him made him bezirk, he knew though that my last boyfriend I had found out after everything was over was married and his wife was 8 months pregnant and I believed and trusted him and it was a shock for me, I told him that too.
He said I was to clingy and needy but he was the one that started out with I fall hard and fast do you think you could fall for me, he was the one that wanted to take us to dating status and in a relationship status.
I'm as confused as all this sounds and I wonder if he will call me and I can't figure out how someone could be so mean I was starting to care and feel alot for, I wonder if he even cares about what he did and if he even thinks about it or maybe he laughs about it I don't know, I still miss him and I know I shouldn't but I do.
end of converstaion and we have not text each other since... its stupid and sometimes I even giggle about it but then it makes me cry. I really don't and can't say what happen if it was pent up in him from my last bout of lack of trust, or he is truely plain evil I don't know him to be so he was very patient with me, I too believe something happened actually something he misunderstood it was completely not him. Somewhere I keep thinking my own lack of self confidence and maybe the lack in him made him bezirk, he knew though that my last boyfriend I had found out after everything was over was married and his wife was 8 months pregnant and I believed and trusted him and it was a shock for me, I told him that too.
He said I was to clingy and needy but he was the one that started out with I fall hard and fast do you think you could fall for me, he was the one that wanted to take us to dating status and in a relationship status.
I'm as confused as all this sounds and I wonder if he will call me and I can't figure out how someone could be so mean I was starting to care and feel alot for, I wonder if he even cares about what he did and if he even thinks about it or maybe he laughs about it I don't know, I still miss him and I know I shouldn't but I do.
Sorry I guess what I am really wondering is do you think he is sorry about it too, and is there anything I can do. I'm afraid to do what I want to do I'm afraid he will just viciously attack again and I will feel worse then I do now. Right now I'm waiting for him to come to me and say sorry I just hope its not false optimisim and I'm afraid I wont have him in my life anymore.
" I guess what I am really wondering is do you think he is sorry about it too, and is there anything I can do."
Fatalbutterfly, as Scorp-in-law pointed out, we are only getting pieces of info here. But the pieces you've chosen to share .... well, put it this way - if it were me, rather than wondering if he's sorry and what i can do, i would ask myself this: do i really want to be in a relationship where we can be vicious and mean to each other?
don't be afraid to lose this guy...instead ask yourself what he brings to your life that's worth all this hurt, disrespect and nastiness.
i know that's probably not what you want to hear. but i think it's important for you to look inward first before even thinking about getting back together with him and ask yourself these hard questions. you'll know what to do.
Fatalbutterfly, as Scorp-in-law pointed out, we are only getting pieces of info here. But the pieces you've chosen to share .... well, put it this way - if it were me, rather than wondering if he's sorry and what i can do, i would ask myself this: do i really want to be in a relationship where we can be vicious and mean to each other?
don't be afraid to lose this guy...instead ask yourself what he brings to your life that's worth all this hurt, disrespect and nastiness.
i know that's probably not what you want to hear. but i think it's important for you to look inward first before even thinking about getting back together with him and ask yourself these hard questions. you'll know what to do.
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I don't want to go over the whole thing basically we broke up we got back together we fought we made up... I have trust issues and would sometimes get bent out of shape or accuse him of things.... finally one day he said "thats it I am done you accuse more then anyone I know" so he gave me the boot. So I begged for forgiveness and a whole week he left me unanswered. Then came the text messages the first one saying "you make me so mad but", and the third one saying "if you want be at my house at 8pm" and of course I was there happy to be given a second chance.
Everything seemed fine I went over sunday like I usually did work schedule permitting and left Monday morning he asked me for a kiss, I gave it to him and I left like usual. The only thing that occured is that he owed me 40 dollars from the week before and had told me he had it so I just assumed he would give it to me and I needed gas so I asked for it, he did not have it but $ 2.10 I was a little annoyed but figured I would make it to the ATM. I really thought nothing of it, but after that monday morning he was differant not as responsive with texts and wouldn't pick up when I called. So I text him "Is everything ok with us" his response " I don't think you are what I am looking for" I was devastated... but I didn't respond, the next day he wrote "When all is said and done I just don't want to date you anymore" I still made no response.... I work Graveyard and on the dot from my shift he sends me a picture message... I was terrified I knew it was something god awful I did not want to see but I opened it anyways.... and it said "Out at the bar with the girls" and there he was with some chick on his arm I blew it... that started a frenzy of fighting and accuseing from 11pm - 2:56am last message on my cell phone.
Now why would he push it to that level if he did not want me and he did not find us compatiable why maike me explode.... I need help I don't get it are Scorpios really just that cruel once they changed there mind or am I missing something here.