I met a scorpio male after coming out of a longterm relationship (12 years and 2 kids). I knew I no longer loved this other person and things werent right anymore. I got on really well with this scorpio and I liked him a lot. Unfortunately the person in my longterm relationship decided that he wanted me back. He tried firstly to scare my scorpio friend off but when that didnt work he changed tactics. I told my scorpio I didnt love this other person and that it was over but I didnt want him hurt in anyway I just couldnt be with him if there was no love on my behalf. He accepted this but then my longterm partner asked, pleaded, begged etc for scorpio to go away. He said if he left me alone then I might go back with him and that we had kids together etc (I only found this all out much later). Basically my scorpio agreed to do this - he never told me this but said he couldnt take all the hassel so I told him fine if he wanted me then he could call. I heard nothing for over a week but one night about 4 in the morning he rung my mobile. I know it was him but he never left a message. The next day (I was told) he had asked out his ex-girlfriend although nothing came of this. I have never returned to my longterm partner as I said earlier I dont love him that way (I know that even more now for the love I have for my scorpio friend). Advice is what do I do - did he leave me be because he wasnt interested (but all the signs said he was - he took so much stick and abuse for me and never complained once just kept saying it didnt matter once I was ok) or did he leave me because my ex-partner asked him to for the sake of our children etc (I know my scorpio was a proud and honest person and very much emotionally soft). Its been a few months now and my ex-partner has kind of accepted that I'm not coming back. I have told him I care for him but dont love him in that special way. He told me all of the above and said he was going to contact my scorpio and tell him to contact me as he said he had never seen me as happy for a long time as when I was with my scorpio. He has never contacted him and I have told him not to for I dont know what to do for the best. I know I love my scorpio but then I know deep down that my ex-partner hates him because I love him so much (I deny this to my ex as it is easier but he keeps saying he can see it in my eyes). I think deep down I'm afraid to know the truth and am I reading to much in to it all because I care so much for my scorpio. Truthfully would someone who cared about you give you up? Did him trying to contact me that night mean anything (I know that when he give his word he hated to break it - which he did by even trying to phone me (told my ex he would stay completely away). Help Help Help. I cant go on like this I need to know so any scorpio out there please post a reply on the behaviour of a scorpio (he was the one and other one I know).