Story is a bit messy. I married a man who had a kid with this person. When we dated, I was told they had been over for a while, I had no experience dating anyone with kids and would never again after this experience alone. I offered to get together with the her, offered info for a background check if she wanted, respected their need to communicate and even tolerated some of her antics since I figured she needed time to adjust to her ex dating someone seriously. We are now married with 2 young kids and it's been 5 years. She will not move on. She texts my husband using pet names, sending him pictures of herself despite him telling her to stop or just ignoring her. She has caused embarrassing scenes at any shared events for her kid, my husband has had to bring the child to a therapist at this point bc of what goes on in her care. I have no interest in replacing her as a mom and have told her this but she seems more fixated on my husband in an ownership sense. She has come into our home and knocked ornaments off our Christmas tree while my husband was gathering their kid's stuff, she rips pages out of the kid's homework pad if she thinks I've helped. On and on and on. I am past the point of being civil with this woman and have no more empathy or concern for her feelings after all the trouble she has caused. We have essentially had to cut her out completely unless there is an emergency with their kid. I've read that Scorpios can be possessive over family and obsessive over lovers but this? for this long? She seems obsessed with what my husband does for me as compared to her when they dated. Their relationship was brief and the kid is a result of a drunken one night stand after they'd already broken up. She also seems a bit delusional to be honest, as if to her the only problem is that her boyfriend has a wife and other kids with no interest in her romantically...is this ever going to end? She goes from irate outbursts trying to get into our car to being sugary sweet an hour later in an email about school arrangements. I understand any situation with kids is bound to be messy in general and I understand the likely allegiance to a fellow Scorpio but I was curious about this from an astrological perspective and figured Id go straight to the communal source. Sorry that was lengthy, Thanks for any thoughts. I am a Pisces/Aquarius cusper with heavy Gemini influence in my natal chart. I tend to identify more with the Aquarius traits. She is mid November Scorpio.
