Am I The Only Scropio.......

This topic was created in the Scorpio forum by Scorpionlady on Friday, February 6, 2009 and has 12 replies.

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@Scorpionlady
20 Years1,000+ Posts

That don't have a romantic bone in my body.

I was just thinking... I am so affectnate and loving to my Gem, always touching and kissing him...very sexual and intense, passionate, but don't know how to be romantic.

I guess I should be happy that he is romantic. πŸ™‚ so I don't have to be.

But I want to be romantic towards him...

How the hell do I do that?

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@juwanapla
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Being passionate is romantic SL! Touching, kissing, loving...that is what romance is about. A nice dinner for two is romantic. What are you thinking of? Sleepless in Seattle? Chic flix? That is hollywood romance. Keep on doing what your doing.

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@juwanapla
20 Years1,000+ Posts

I don't believe in hearts and lace and frilly shit. I believe in the openess of my heart and all the little gestures. I kiss behind the ear when he least expects it. I touch on his thigh when he's driving. A pinch on the butt when we are in the porno store renting movies. That's romance!!!!!!
Ahh, I replied because it was one post worth replying to. LOL

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@zenalchemy
18 Years5,000+ Posts

That don't have a romantic bone in my body.

mmmm, don't really find scorps to be romantic --- the ones I meet will try to burst the bubble behind the frilly romantic stuff...

leave the romance to libra

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@llorei
17 Years

I couldn't even begin to guess....
Ummm... flowers and poems?
I can see a guy doing that
If a lady did that I would believe that it would be considered sweet not romantic

What makes a woman romantic?
Dinner? Elaborate plans w all her attention on her manβ€”? Plans solely up to her ie to demonstrate how attentive and knowledgeable she is in regards to her man as an individual?

Is so, it's there but I haven't allowed myself to get into one of those types of relationships.

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@Roxanne
17 Years500+ Posts

SL: you are not alone my lovely πŸ™‚

passion is not the same as romance. romance is about atmospherics whereas passion is about physical feeling.

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@Roxanne
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SIL: most of those points are elements of usual loving relationships are they not? the only trouble is that in time, people come to take eachother for granted unless you constantly find new ways to keep the spark alive.

it all seems a bit exhausting. why not just exhaust yourself in the usual fashion and have done with it πŸ˜›

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@Scorpionlady
20 Years1,000+ Posts

Roxi
SL: you are not alone my lovely πŸ™‚

passion is not the same as romance. romance is about atmospherics whereas passion is about physical feeling.

Roxi, you the only one that understands me. πŸ™‚

SIL
Those suggestions are good. Did I mention my love is a Gemini πŸ™‚ who can't keep still, hard to pin down, and always on the move....hahahaha

-Slip a handwritten note in his coat pocket for him to discover
I have not done that one, sounds interesting

-Leave a loving message on his work voice mail, if he has a private line.
I normally do that via email or txt messages

Thinking about writing him a poem for V-Day and read it to him.