@patchyhentges
7 Years
Any advice on combatting nasty people (males in particular) of your sign?
How to Handle Men with Scorpio Mars and Sun Placements
Men with Scorpio Mars and Sun often have intense, confrontational tendencies that can lead to conflicts. To manage interactions, stay calm, set clear boundaries, and avoid escalation. Focus on self-awareness and assertiveness to protect yourself. Understanding their emotional depth can help you navigate encounters more effectively and reduce misunderstandings.
Alpha don't care about any scenario they're put in. You do what you want when you want. Everyone else adjust. If Scorps or anyone sense weakness, it will be treated as
a thing to exploit. Read the book The Art of War. Leo's are great people and war is won before the first blow.
Posted by AnotherTaurusGuyReturns
Don’t get involved in it. I think it will reflect badly on him if you turn out to do a good job.
The issue is at some point I feel like with the nasty people of a given sign I would have to get involved in it.
Ignore.
They want you to react
Yes but what about in situations where you HAVE to deal with them or might be competing for say the same job or promotion as them?
Ignore.
They want you to react
Yes but what about in situations where you HAVE to deal with them or might be competing for say the same job or promotion as them?
Don’t let them know you’re going for it.
Quit trying to be alpha
Put your head down and do your work.
Ignore them
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They'll suspect it given their paranoid nature.
For some strange reason, all confrontations with my husband, and anyone, ends when he tells them he's going to whip their ass.
He does this with no hesitation, on the job or off, he means it, they know it, and it's over before it started.... just like LibraSupreme said. Hubby has Aries/Taurus Mars in the 1st house.
Kill them
Whats your sign?
Gemini
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Just the other thread you were saying you were a Scorpio and "god among men".
The majority of your posts, if not all of them, are about Scorpios or mention Scorpios. You are obsessed with Scorpios. The ones that are being nasty to you probably sense your weakness.
It is problems with that sign that brought me so obviously I want to know more but you're an Aries, your sign is an idiot. I can actually respect a Scorpio but Aries are a bunch of try-hards. BTW, Capricorns and Scorpios beat you all day everyday. Leos and Sags are far superior fire signs than yours, now go jump off a mountain like a blind dummy.
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I think we just found the source of your prooooooblems, LOL!
Haha
Serious though, Aries are annoying, they are a disgrace to all fire signs. Can we have a switch though? Us fire signs want Cancer and you water signs can have Aries.
LOL @ god of war, please, a Capricorn runs circles around Aries and that's on a bad day. Bow down losers!
Serious though, Aries are annoying, they are a disgrace to all fire signs. Can we have a switch though? Us fire signs want Cancer and you water signs can have Aries.
LOL @ god of war, please, a Capricorn runs circles around Aries and that's on a bad day. Bow down losers!
capricorn is tough, i will admit. (i love aries though if they are the sweet ones, but if they are sweet, they will cry easily -- usually watery)
capricorn mercury singularity
Serious though, Aries are annoying, they are a disgrace to all fire signs. Can we have a switch though? Us fire signs want Cancer and you water signs can have Aries.
LOL @ god of war, please, a Capricorn runs circles around Aries and that's on a bad day. Bow down losers!
Why do u want cancer? Cuz Oj Simpson knife skills? Or Mike Tyson bite skills?
Cancer could totally dominate in battle.
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Eh I always get alone well with Cancers.
Plus they get Connor McGregor and Jon Jones so Cancers FTW.
Screw Aries, they're losers and soft.
Yo guys.
So I've met some good Scorpios over the years and even had some great times with women that have that placement. The issue I have had is that I notice whenever I run into guys who have a Sun, Venus and Mars in Scorpio (the Mars ones are the worst), I have a confrontation waiting for me.
Its not all Scorpios either, some I have met have been really cool guys. Strangely enough my friend who is like a brother to me has a Sun, Moon, Venus and Pluto in Scorpio so its not like I hate the sign as a whole. Its the Mars in Scorpio that I feel like I will have to face and defend myself against.
Now I am a guy and I have a lot of planets in Leo but I don't really see myself starting most of these fights.
Majority of the time I have something, a guy with that placements wants it, and starts a passive-aggressive smear campaign against me. I currently have a former boss with that placement who has been spreading some nasty rumors about me even to colleagues at a new workplace of mines. The truth is that I worked for the dude and he played favorites, often ridiculed me in team meetings and tried to hurt my career every chance he got. I put in my two weeks notice and ended up at a new job where I make a lot more and am a part of a better company.
Anyways I don't mesh well with the types but I feel like I can't avoid them either because these types of folks are just desperate for a confrontation and drama.
At some point, I do know I will have to combat guys with this kind of a placement and really prepare for war.
Any advice?
As a female Scorp who had a close Scorp male friend (and our friendship ended rather badly)...
- Scorp males are manipulative. They KNOW how to pull your strings, because they are so good at reading other people. The way to get around it - is to get above it. You cannot let their actions affect you - and indifference works well here. Standing up to them, and showing them that you are not afraid of them, or calling them on their bs works well too. They respect people who can hold their own, and have the audacity to challenge them constructively
- Also appeal to respect. Scorps love to be respected. Don't be too fluffy/suck-up because they can see that from a mile away. Just being yourself and being who you are, and constructive compliments, go a long way
Hope this helps!
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I liked your post since you genuinely tried to help.
The issue I have is that it seems like Scorpio males are highly prone to being envious when someone has it better than them yet put up the morally self-righteous act all the while gossiping people behind their backs and attempting to dig up dirt on everyone. It is the hypocrisy that you have to deal with which makes me not like your sign very much, generally speaking though since I have seen some cool folks from that sign.
One other problem I genuinely have with your sign is the fact that you guys are desperately going across the web trying to promote yourself as the strongest sign and put other signs down.
For some strange reason, all confrontations with my husband, and anyone, ends when he tells them he's going to whip their ass.
He does this with no hesitation, on the job or off, he means it, they know it, and it's over before it started.... just like LibraSupreme said. Hubby has Aries/Taurus Mars in the 1st house.
sounds like my Libra Sun/Scorpio Mars as well - no questions asked lol
Ignore.
They want you to react
Say this louder for the people in the back. Once you show that it bothers you, you play right into their hands.
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Yo guys.
So I've met some good Scorpios over the years and even had some great times with women that have that placement. The issue I have had is that I notice whenever I run into guys who have a Sun, Venus and Mars in Scorpio (the Mars ones are the worst), I have a confrontation waiting for me.
Its not all Scorpios either, some I have met have been really cool guys. Strangely enough my friend who is like a brother to me has a Sun, Moon, Venus and Pluto in Scorpio so its not like I hate the sign as a whole. Its the Mars in Scorpio that I feel like I will have to face and defend myself against.
Now I am a guy and I have a lot of planets in Leo but I don't really see myself starting most of these fights.
Majority of the time I have something, a guy with that placements wants it, and starts a passive-aggressive smear campaign against me. I currently have a former boss with that placement who has been spreading some nasty rumors about me even to colleagues at a new workplace of mines. The truth is that I worked for the dude and he played favorites, often ridiculed me in team meetings and tried to hurt my career every chance he got. I put in my two weeks notice and ended up at a new job where I make a lot more and am a part of a better company.
Anyways I don't mesh well with the types but I feel like I can't avoid them either because these types of folks are just desperate for a confrontation and drama.
At some point, I do know I will have to combat guys with this kind of a placement and really prepare for war.
Any advice?