AQUA MAN/ SCORPIO WOMAN: ANY SUCCES STORY?

AQUA MAN/ SCORPIO WOMAN: ANY SUCCES STORY?

Posted by Whatu
Idk but I really struggle to get along with aqua woman, they make all these assumptions on me based on their past experiences and assume they are the most interesting person in the world. So Im constantly telling them that their rightious bullshit is wrong and trying to explain the shit they don't understand. The relationship would be intense if I met one I liked, lots of arguments and then make up sex!

i thought she was asking about Aquarius MAN and scorpio woMAN?

Not sure if you're a man, whatu.

The only reason why a person would make assumptions on their past relationships is that they are into astrology and then say, "oh! that guy is born on that day/month so he has to act this way." that is kind of self defeating and very dumb to do in my opinion. Always look at someone with fresh eyes.
Unless they are just generally looking at EVERY man the "same" way. If they aren't interesting they aren't interesting. You should tell them they are boring as hell. 😛

OP, you have to do some research on your own. There's actually alot. But Scorpio woman's top three real life marriage (statistics) are Virgo, Gemini, and Pisces man.
I bet if the aqua man has alot of those signs in his chart, it will help /also with your chart, but ultimately in the end, it has to have 'sparks' unless you are looking for arranged marriage.
And sometimes arranged marriages they just care if you are getting along in the first year.

In my experience....
*Very persistent, don't let that fool you.
*Awesome courtship, don't let that fool you.
*Incredible Sex. don't let that fool you.

My advice would be to play it very cool for at least a few months. Don't give in to his advances and you will drive him bat-shit crazy! Don't talk much or let him know much about you but DO ask lots of questions during this time. Re-ask again because if it's a story he tells the first time he likely won't remember what he said the second time. This is a great time to nail down if he is emotionally available, and if you really like him and want a long term relationship this is what you need to know.

I wish you Luck.... 😉

Posted by IrresistableScorp

Posted by FixedWater
In my experience....
*Very persistent, don't let that fool you.
*Awesome courtship, don't let that fool you.
*Incredible Sex. don't let that fool you.

lmao.. I hear ya sister...

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**** giggling **** They are something aren't they! Mine still hasn't left me alone and he's been on "no contact" for a very long time.

Weve been on and off for 15 years!! Created an excuse many times a month of two before marriage.. Now and again, he wants to start a family with me (after he knew im seeing another man) Thing is, we both have a weird bond with one another. We always seem to come back after breakups (of his creation).. My question is, suppose i take him back this time and we do get married.. Would it be any better?!?!!! Do aquarius men get committed once they decide they want kids, family and stuff. he's 42 and im 34. Thank u all for your responses!

Well, I think my comment is redundant...

Posted by FixedWater

Posted by IrresistableScorp

Posted by FixedWater
In my experience....
*Very persistent, don't let that fool you.
*Awesome courtship, don't let that fool you.
*Incredible Sex. don't let that fool you.

lmao.. I hear ya sister...

**** giggling **** They are something aren't they! Mine still hasn't left me alone and he's been on "no contact" for a very long time.

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May I co - sign this fellow Stinger ladies?
Them AquaMen are impossible, one still attempts to write me after all these years. 😱

Posted by CluelessCancer
Aqua men next to virgo men are eternal bachelors.

Yet they both deeply yearn for family, children and marriage.


[shakes my head]

Posted by TheLadyScorpio

Posted by FixedWater

Posted by IrresistableScorp

Posted by FixedWater
In my experience....
*Very persistent, don't let that fool you.
*Awesome courtship, don't let that fool you.
*Incredible Sex. don't let that fool you.

lmao.. I hear ya sister...

**** giggling **** They are something aren't they! Mine still hasn't left me alone and he's been on "no contact" for a very long time.

May I co - sign this fellow Stinger ladies?
Them AquaMen are impossible, one still attempts to write me after all these years. 😱

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Oh please do join in 🙂
Do you think every Scorp Woman should try one just for the exasperating experience that will teach her a valuable lesson on how to Control Emotion? Lol

Posted by TheLadyScorpio

Posted by CluelessCancer
Aqua men next to virgo men are eternal bachelors.

Yet they both deeply yearn for family, children and marriage.


[shakes my head]

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They really do yearn for that kind of commitment.
I once did a little experiment and searched only Aqua men of the dating site I was on. I think out of all the pages of Aqua men there were only a couple that had ever been married and had kids.
Really... so bizarre.

Posted by FixedWater

Posted by TheLadyScorpio

Posted by CluelessCancer
Aqua men next to virgo men are eternal bachelors.

Yet they both deeply yearn for family, children and marriage.


[shakes my head]

They really do yearn for that kind of commitment.
I once did a little experiment and searched only Aqua men of the dating site I was on. I think out of all the pages of Aqua men there were only a couple that had ever been married and had kids.
Really... so bizarre.

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Once you hear a AquaMan or Virguy finally settled a committed relationship, the first thing out of their lips are dreamy thoughts on marriage, being a father raising their lovely children, have you as the mother and building that home nest as a family. That is all they would speak of, those two signs, though one fixed and the other mutable are quite the dichotomy.

Posted by FixedWater

Posted by TheLadyScorpio

Posted by FixedWater

Posted by IrresistableScorp

Posted by FixedWater
In my experience....
*Very persistent, don't let that fool you.
*Awesome courtship, don't let that fool you.
*Incredible Sex. don't let that fool you.

lmao.. I hear ya sister...

**** giggling **** They are something aren't they! Mine still hasn't left me alone and he's been on "no contact" for a very long time.

May I co - sign this fellow Stinger ladies?
Them AquaMen are impossible, one still attempts to write me after all these years. 😱

Oh please do join in 🙂
Do you think every Scorp Woman should try one just for the exasperating experience that will teach her a valuable lesson on how to Control Emotion? Lol

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Oh dear lord, AquaMen have NO control over their emotions. On the surface it may seem as if they do, with their somewhat poker face which I have affectionately nicknamed their constipated face.

Constipated over emotions, quite a jam they are in. 😄

Posted by CluelessCancer
Aqua men next to virgo men are eternal bachelors.

😢

I won't argue.

Posted by FixedWater
In my experience....
*Very persistent, don't let that fool you.
*Awesome courtship, don't let that fool you.
*Incredible Sex. don't let that fool you.

My advice would be to play it very cool for at least a few months. Don't give in to his advances and you will drive him bat-shit crazy! Don't talk much or let him know much about you but DO ask lots of questions during this time. Re-ask again because if it's a story he tells the first time he likely won't remember what he said the second time.
I wish you Luck.... 😉

I'd expect ^^this behavior from a high school student. Games as you know will get you nowhere!

@LIB, You are pretty uptight hey? Maybe a nice massage or a battery operated toy would help you out.

Posted by TheLadyScorpio

Posted by CluelessCancer
Aqua men next to virgo men are eternal bachelors.

Yet they both deeply yearn for family, children and marriage.


[shakes my head]

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Try one with a Virgo moon like Michael Sheen, who Rachael McAdams cried over, because he wouldn't "commit"!! Double trouble.

Bill Murray = Virgo/Aqua moon, did he ever commit??
Aquarius man with Sagittarius Venus and Virgo moon/rising, Sag jupiter lots of sag,virgo and aqua.
He's already LONG GONE.....far far away from the clutches of womankind trying to get a ring from him.

Posted by FixedWater
@LIB, You are pretty uptight hey? Maybe a nice massage or a battery operated toy would help you out.

Uptight about what? Perhaps you didn't understand what I meant by this:

Posted by LetltB

I'd expect ^^this behavior from a high school student. Games as you know will get you nowhere!

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You claim to be a 46 year old woman...to tell a young lady she should play games with a man in order to get one I'd expect from a 13 year old, not a 46 year old. Now..tell me how does that statement make me uptight? Thanks for the massage and battery toy offer, but really, no thanks I'm all good.

Geez 15 years on and off?! Wow, I feel you have wasted so much time waiting for somebody to commit to you. I think even relationships have a deadline, yours one has no ambitions. I've seen so many women be with for more than your 15 years for the man to just up and leave them so easily. Maybe I'm just being a typical taurus but I would want atleast 1 physical manifestation to justify all those years, say a house, kids a f*cking ring! Maybe this type of relationship suits you. Good luck REALLY!

Posted by LetltB

Posted by FixedWater
@LIB, You are pretty uptight hey? Maybe a nice massage or a battery operated toy would help you out.

Uptight about what? Perhaps you didn't understand what I meant by this:

Posted by LetltB

I'd expect ^^this behavior from a high school student. Games as you know will get you nowhere!

You claim to be a 46 year old woman...to tell a young lady she should play games with a man in order to get one I'd expect from a 13 year old, not a 46 year old. Now..tell me how does that statement make me uptight? Thanks for the massage and battery toy offer, but really, no thanks I'm all good.

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Well Ok, but I really do think you should consider my suggestion to you. It will help 😄

Did you take my suggestion on child abuse?

I think Aqua Men are very quirky and kinda fun. They are definitely interesting and always on the go in their own "little world" so to speak.
There is such an attraction between Aqua Men and Scorpio Women but I have yet to hear of one working.
The Op is another example of it.

Posted by LetltB
Did you take my suggestion on child abuse?

Oh dear, you've been just dying for an opening haven't you? This is a pretty weak one, but I give you credit for your persistence.

Posted by FixedWater
I think Aqua Men are very quirky and kinda fun. They are definitely interesting and always on the go in their own "little world" so to speak.
There is such an attraction between Aqua Men and Scorpio Women but I have yet to hear of one working.
The Op is another example of it.

Well I've found that some people give the pairing a surprising 10/10

Posted by NotYourAverageAquarius

Posted by FixedWater
I think Aqua Men are very quirky and kinda fun. They are definitely interesting and always on the go in their own "little world" so to speak.
There is such an attraction between Aqua Men and Scorpio Women but I have yet to hear of one working.
The Op is another example of it.

Well I've found that some people give the pairing a surprising 10/10

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I would love to hear about a successful pairing between an Aqua Man and a Scorp Woman....Details Please! 🙂

Posted by FixedWater

Posted by LetltB
Did you take my suggestion on child abuse?

Oh dear, you've been just dying for an opening haven't you? This is a pretty weak one, but I give you credit for your persistence.

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An opening? Who said the subject was closed? Your pity party thread was pretty weak and I give you no credit at all. When it comes to child abuse, ...replace persistence with relentless. April 1st is right around the corner. 😉

Posted by BlackCanary
I've noticed very positive friendships between scorpios and aqua's but successful romantic relationships, very seldom.

The wants and needs of both signs are usually are very different. This is why I've noticed they become better friends than lovers. As friends, you don't have to commit to certain arrangements that you would in a relationship.

Isn't your father an Aqua and your mother a Scorpio?

maybe their relationship is different and similar to the few that are successful, and you can share, if you'd like of course.

Posted by IrresistableScorp

Posted by TheLadyScorpio

Oh dear lord, AquaMen have NO control over their emotions. On the surface it may seem as if they do, with their somewhat poker face which I have affectionately nicknamed their constipated face.

Constipated over emotions, quite a jam they are in. 😄

OMG Yes. Constipated emotions. Haha.

The thing I think is that it's their intellectual filter that really screws with letting these things called emotions come out naturally. Let's call their intellect their Sphincter mode. They filter their emotions with intellectual "rationality" and then their sphincter mode kicks in when its coming out in drips and drabs. lol

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I LOVE the constipated face!!

Adorable ^_^

Found it on a Libra Sun, Aqua Moon, and wow, you nailed it with that description! Unfortunately my one and only experience with that taught me a whole lot about 'verbalizing' my emotions, quite valuable really, something not natural to me, but... it wasn't enough. He wanted about 10x more words for every description. Poor guy still thought I was whack. Heck, maybe I am. But life's more fun that way.

Whether or not you get the relationship you're after, keep him as a friend. Quirky can be truly fun, and he probably won't take any future potential breakup/s to heart like you might.