Are Scorpio men usually flirty?

There's this Scorpio guy that I met at least 10 yrs ago, I simply liked him at the beginning but I was in a relationship so I stayed out of it.

I would hang out with him and his friends once in a while, later (2 yrs or so) when I was single I tried to go out a little more with them but he ended up asking another girl to be his gf. I was ok with it since I wasn't crazy about him.

They got married a few yrs ago, I have always been "friends" with her as in we tell each other stories but is not like we are bffs, anyway I know she has cheated on him a few times and she travels on her own too and has met with another guy a few times when traveling.

I don't know if he does the same thing or not but the times I have gone out with my friends and him (w/o the wife) he has always been respectful to her, my friend who knows them longer than me has said that he is faithful to her. Lately since we have been hanging out more, he has approached me a few times by giving free drinks or stuff (which my friend once said that it was a miracle since he's touchy with his stuff).

Also when I post pictures on snapchat he usually texts me saying I look beautiful or gorgeous etc. I simply thank him.

he once asked me if he could come by to smoke and we had good convo (nothing else)

Also he has suggested us going away together as in vacation but I always take it as a joke even though he seems very serious about it.

Today he asked me if I wanted to meet with him and I told him I was waiting on a friend to have lunch together and he said who? I'm starting to get jealous! I laughed and said what!? ... then he said, who is it..I'm gonna go fight him for you.. I laughed again and said it's my mentor, He's untouchable haha.

Anyway he invited me to an event on the 26th i think his wife will go I'm not sure, I usually talk to him more than with her which is still a bit strange since I know her "better" but him and I get along well as friends.

I really don't wanna ask if he likes me because 1. He might just say He's messing up with me.

2. if he does like me, I don't think I want to know, it makes things awkward.

Do you think he does like me? I've never had a connection with another Scorpio other than him... (we are both in our 29-30)

I've never heard of any other girl in his life but his wife. together since 2007. She's Taurus, I'm an Aqua.

Posted by Hare
Me reading this thread:

Your bio description makes me wanna do the same to your profile

And I clearly stated that I'm staying out of it, it would be awkward if he tries.

I'd rather keep a nice friendship

Posted by Seraphlight
If they really like you. They don't flirt for fun they really mean it.

Do you think I should talk to him or let it slide...

Posted by Hare
If you're "staying out of it" it wouldn't matter to you if he likes you or not.

I know but I hate having to "laugh" at his comments. I'm blunt and I'd have stopped him already..mostly when he said he's getting jealous. and us going on a vacation to PR.

But is a nice friendship that I don't want to ruin..

I'm an iceberg when it comes to cutting people off but I just prefer to keep things light.

Posted by Evoxxxscorpio
I'm playful with all so sometimes it gets mistaken as something else so it could go either way I'd look for other signs if I were you

I mean I'm not looking his way, I'm trying to look away lol



its been about a year since he's been "acting" like this and I just laugh and send funny things back...but sometimes he just seems serious about it and Idk if I should have a talk with him to stop.

Even though his girl cheats on him, I'd never tell him...they are a nice cute couple so I'd never do anything to jeopardize that.

Posted by -Flo-

Posted by Aerazo

Posted by Seraphlight
If they really like you. They don't flirt for fun they really mean it.

Do you think I should talk to him or let it slide...

Aqua, DO NOT stoop yourself that low. If he knows your easy to fall into him while he's with another women, it's over.

Self respect is key.

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No! you didn't read my whole post... is not that I like him that way or anything... is about the fact that he's a good friend and I don't like his comments but I just don't know if they are real or fake. We all tend to make sarcastic or comments all the time. Is just that is hard to not notice it after many.

Posted by BuffaloBills28
Scorp ascendant. Love to make sexual related jokes. lol.

I know and me too but not with him lol

sometimes I even think they might want a threesome ??