aries mom of a middle child only boy scorpio!!!

how can i put this lightly.........I WANNA SELL MY SON FOR MAJIC BEANS!!
I just cant seem to get through to him. he wont listen or follow my orders. Im not drill sergant. I love my son and i wanna develop a healthy close relationship with him. He tries to get away from doing what i ask of him all the time. how can I make him understand that I know best and thats why he has to do as I say until he's 18...and he's only four. my other two...cancer girl and aqua toddler girl i manage...but my scorpio son has me on pins n needles. please help

He's 4...jack his azz up. LOL

Boys are very very very hard headed. Then they grow up to be hard headed azz men.


Jack his Azz up.

PM

He is 4 and apprently she has been having this problem for a while, I am quite sure she had tried that tactic, of talking and rewarding. I went through the same with my child and got to a point where I needed to let him know who is the boss.

Take toys away
Can't go out side, and other things does not always work, especially talking to them I have talked tell I was blue in the face.


If you don't tighten them up while they are young when they get older you are really gonna have a problem.


I have watch that show Super Nanny and get upset sometimes to see parents and kids out together etc and the kid is acting up and the parent be like, "oh don't do that", "don't do this" and the kid is paying no damn attention.

Sometimes you need to Jack a kid up, whip there ass.


Kids aren't stupid they will play your kindness and the love you have for them they will try an take you to the limit, if you let them

"http://abc.go.com/primetime/supernanny/index"

I can't stand that show how can a parent lose control over a child, what the hell were they doing/thinking as a parent to have to have another human come in and get YOUR KIDS in order that is ludicris to me.

"SL well parents do loose control sometimes!"

I know I lost control with my son one time and never lost it again.

My son knew my facial looks at 10, I never had to say anything just look at him and he knew the rule.

Parenting is not an easy job nor do it come with directions.

You have to live and learn along the way, you and your son are both learning each other and he is gonna try and push your bottons but mark my word when I say the first time youlet him get away with murder he will try again and again and again.

He is 4 his is in the 4th stage of his life.

You got youre

talkive 2's
whinny 3's
smart as 4's

something like that you are just in a stage of him growing up he will grow out of it but it is all about how you handle it.

Have a little patients and deal with it to the best of your ability as a parent. It won't be easy but sometimes we as parents have to do things we don't want to do....

Whip our childerns ASS. I can't emphasize that enough.

You heard "Spare The Rod Spoil The Child"

i totally agree...beat his @ss!

there is no way a child that I house and feed and cloth is going to give me trouble...he would probably call DFACS on me

I do not have children, probably won't cause I would suck terribly... But, I would agree with the people that said to spank. I wouldn't necessarily say "beat his @ss", but I do believe they were being facetious.

My mother is a Sag. She is a very kind and good woman, but she made it very clear early on that disobedience was not going to be tolerated. I ended up being a pretty good child, comparatively, and I have to say that I believe it was because I was scared sh!tless of her.... Haha!

Not that she beat me or anything, but I did get my fair share of spankings (that were always preceeded with the more dreaded "why she has to spank me for my own good" lecture). I learned full well what lines I should never cross. And, I believe it also taught me a lot about the concept of repercussions for your actions and being held accountable.

well i do admit he throws the biggest fits wen he doesnt get his way...once again ya'll came thru on the perfect advice for me. I will thank ya'll n let u know how it turns out. thanx!!!
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I've read that before EG and I totally agree. Even a very young scorpio needs to be treated (almost) like an adult. No baby chatter and pretty pleases.

Arieslatina, I read a book you will find very helpful.It's called Parenting the strong-willed child by Rex Forehand Ph.D. and Nicholas Long Ph.D.It's about understanding and addressing a strong willed child then goes on to a 5 week program to help calm their asses down and giving the control back to the parent. It also helps solve common behavior problems. If you are desperate enough to ask us stubborn ass scorps how to control a baby scorp (lol) you will get alot out of this book!

Discipline is definitely where its at...I am the golden child but my father was both fair and hard on me. I disliked him immensely in my younger years as I thought he wasn't being fair..but I have grown to respect him a lot..whereas my mother let me get away with murder as she wanted me to see her as a friend (big mistake) rather than a mother..I don't like that..

Well..I have two Aries aunts having Scorpio sons and in both cases, they are very much attached to their mothers. One of the aunt is very sentimental and possessive about her son and the other one is just overwhelmingly powerful. One shows so much care n affection that her scorpio son just cant ignore her and the other one is so powerful that her son is forced to look upto her.

Be his friend,this is the first step..
When i was child i was very obssessive or worried about my mental power,if someone put his hand on my head i think to myself:i lost brain cells i am gonna be dumb..stuff like that..so when i refuse to eat mom tells me that not eating this food will make me stupid so i eat..find what he likes the most and use that..

I don't agree to "be his friend". Some children are very controlling and demanding. Being a "friend" will only allow a child to take the control over the parent. That's when you find yourself begging and bribing your child to be good in the store. Always have the upper hand! Always! Some children require tough love.