Aries Care...

This topic was created in the Aries forum by sweetbabes on Sunday, January 21, 2007 and has 18 replies.

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@leo/virgo75
20 Years

LOL
Yeah, what geminifox and solitas said.
If they like you they'll do EVERYTHING they can to show you. No shame or embarassment at all.

If they just look at you as a "friend" then they'll be nice, but won't try to sweep you off of your feet. And they can be GREAT friends. 🙂

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@Atom
19 Years1,000+ Posts

You will know by their actions. Actions still speak louder than words. And an Aries will tell you outright it he / she just wants to be friends with you. We Aries are VERY romantic, so if we fall for you---mucho affection.

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@sweetbabes
19 Years

im dating aries, but it is only once in a blue moon, we are going to see each other. Because of his hectic schedules, travelling a lot and a lot. He is a business man (Divorse). If the time we are together, he is very, very romantic. But im confused, its like OUT OF SIGHT, OUT OF MIND.

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@Gaurav_Aries
19 Years5,000+ Posts

" im confused, its like OUT OF SIGHT, OUT OF MIND. "

And U r confused about what ?....About Ur feelings toward him ?

Or is it that he doesnt seem to be much concerned when hez away ?

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@Atom
19 Years1,000+ Posts

sweetbabes, He'll do SOMETHING when he can IF he feels that way about you. And IF he feels that way about you, he's thinking about you day and night---probably making plans for a future with you. If he doesn't care about you in that way, you will see NADA. Yes, Aries can converse well and be dandy wordsmiths but with Aries it is ALWAYS action. They GO with their hearts. Go, go, go!

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@cancer12
20 Years

oh aries WILL let you know they care - i think in general they're pretty up front

i agree with leo/virgo75 "If they like you they'll do EVERYTHING they can to show you. No shame or embarassment at all."

how long have you known this man?? my bf is aries and we're in a long distance relationship since august 2006. sometimes i avoid his calls jus to keep him on his feet becus it think sometimes they get caught up in stuff when they're focussed that they take us for granted

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@MysticFire
19 YearsAries

I haven't heard from my Fishy in a week. And I'm chomping at the bits, man. Esp. since the last time we talked, it was an argument. Yep.

Oh, you'll know, alright.

"What're you doin? What're you doin'?! What're you doin'!!!"

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@cancer12
20 Years

ok do you find that ARIES are alot of just "talkers" - they say alot of things and they're such sweet talkers but when it comes to prove those things with actions it's like they're cripple?

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@leo/virgo75
20 Years

cancer12 - I've known a few Aries guys, but the one I know the longest and best I've known for 15 years.

We've had intermitten contact since we first met in high school, usually because I move or get fed up with him and don't want to talk to him anymore(can last months or years).

We love each other without a doubt. Even when I don't want anything to do with him I can easily say that I love him and know that he loves me, but we just can't seem to get it together.

Probably because one minute he can be wonderful and generous and the next he's the most selfish, immature *ssh.le on the planet. And for my part, I'm the opposite of most women - I need a reason to **STAY** as opposed to a reason to *LEAVE*. I can easily love someone and live without them. It has a lot to do with experiences in my childhood, and I know it's messed up for the people I love, but I don't know how to change that. No matter how strong or deep my feelings run, I can't and won't live with b*llsh!t.

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@jennaT
20 Years

i think a lot matters as far as what the aries' venus is in, no?

but overall, you should know how an aries feels upfront. i don't know too many aries that can withold desire and attraction once they really feel it..

i know i can't

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@MysticFire
19 YearsAries

personally, what comes out of my mouth is the thruth. it's just that my "thruths" change as feelings change. I'm very wishy-washy and impulsive about acting on my feelings. But whenever I feel something and express it verbally, it's with all of my being. We're extemists, us Aries. 😉

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@MysticFire
19 YearsAries

GeminiFox,
This is what gets me into trouble with my Pisces man! As long as I pretend not to notice how much I care about him, it's all good. But the minute I let myself go...whewhy! He swims like no other.

I never really thought of it before, but maybe I am a bit too intense for him, at times. The next time I hear from him (he always comes back. But that doesn't mean I don't worry), I think I'll just keep the convo. light and simple.

I won't hit him with, "Whatcha been doin without me? Cause I can't stop thinkin' about you."