aries woman and scorpio man

My ex husband is scorpio. we are divorcing. I left him. Besides the hiding drug use that he lied to my face about, among other things, for 2 years, and the fact that he wouldnt work or help provide for our kids, rather run around all day or play video games all day, he was a funny and sweet etc.. but why is it that I cant stand him. I mean, i just got sick of the bs and was done with the relationship a year before I left. He was devastated, totally took him by surprise. Which, I don't understand why, I creid, begged him to stand up and be the man we needed as a father and husband. Even started marriage counciling, are 3rd session, he was off getting drunk.I was so exhausted and angry at him.. I feel so much better not having him in my life. Is it that aries and scorps dont mix well, or am i just a bitch,,lol. Any stories of other aries/scorp relationships

Do you want him back?

It was about 2 years of being lied to that the relationship was on the rocks and a year of trying to fix things and of knowing my heart wasnt in to it. the leo, was someone that I met when we were split up for a bit, and then we got back together and went to marriage counciling and our 3rd session he was off getting drunk. We officailly seperated in may and thats when i was with virgo. and I if you read all post, i was in very chaotic time in my life, and i am ever so thankful to my virguy, because with out that in my life I woulda never been able to move on and from that marriage. maybe I could of, maybe I had the strength on my own. But it helped. I am not saying that I am perfect by any means, and your right, I have got a lot of things that I need to get right before I really think about a serious relationship. I don't have any regrets about my marrigae, and has taught me things bout myself, mainly that I deserve to be in a equal relationship and that a relationship shouldnt be one sided and exhausting. I tend to get involved with men that are unable to bring to the table the things that I need. he said it was my fault that I had put him on a petastol and I agree, I did in the beginning and after time and reality set in, he was not the man I needed, not the man I choose to see, I denied him his truth, and made a mess of everything. but he did to. I couldnt hang on anymore. He has been served with the divorce papers and I am just waiting for the court date. As far as cappy guy, he is long distance and we are not in relationship, however, I really needed to have someone in my life that is a friend, a good friend, and i adore him and what he has came to mean in my life. we cant be in a physical relationship, obviously, but, people come into our lives as lessons or to fill our needs, and to help them with theres. yeah, i am learning lessons and growing as a person. and I apperciate your thoughts. and your right if I dont change something it will keep going as it is, and I am trying to learn that I am worth more..thanx

From the OP title and post, it appeared you wanted to know compatibility of aries woman and scorpio man. But your last entry thread went away from that and you started justifying your other relationships. — Who cares, that's your business. Why did you start this thread? Are you having second thoughts about your scorpio husband?

*about divorcing your scorpio

no, i am just wondering why.. at one time it was good, then it took a trip south. I am happy in my life right now. has anyone else had experiences in this combo