Ask a Scorpio Female...

Hi all, I'm a newbie and lurker on dxpnet for a while. But I saw a similar post for a Scorpio male and figured it'd be fun to answer questions from the perspective of a scorpio female.

Birthday is 11/11 so I'm right smack dab in the middle of the fabulous and mysterious era of Scorpio. Ask away!

I won't bite, unless I like you of course. 😉

@Admiral - oh sorry, didn't realize as I didn't see any when I scrolled down.

@Kissmee --

Fearful from the inside? Do you mean are we full of fears too?...

well, I think Scorpios can get scared just like any other sign. However, we practice not having much emotion on our faces so that it doesn't show through. Personally, I try to channel the fear into excitement, which turns a negative thing into a positive.

I wish my Scorpio would have done the same thing. She once saw the energies of my mars in 4th house and got scared.... Ran away.... I tried explaining but she just ran away.. And I wasn't even angry at her in the first place.

Was this early in your courtship?

In the early stages of dating, Scorpios are constantly testing their dates/SO's to make sure they're compatible. If you flew off the handle easily, that would have spooked her much quicker than if you guys had been dating for a while and she was already invested in you

May I ask what you did specifically to scare her? You can PM if you don't want to say on here

Ok.. Do you like the challenge of taming males who appear strong ? Do you use your pussy powers to keep them hooked / in line ? Will I have children one day ?

Posted by Kemetisinme
Ok.. Do you like the challenge of taming males who appear strong ? Do you use your pussy powers to keep them hooked / in line ? Will I have children one day ?

That's the thing, as a guy, you -must- be strong. Otherwise conquering the challenge is just a fake prize. You can't just hold up a farce and expect me to believe it. After the facade comes down and it always does in less than three months, the truth comes out and I admire you less. It's happened to me time and time again with alot of guys who tried to be someone they weren't - and its that point where I notice my attraction fizzles.

I'm internally hard wired to seek out someone emotionally tough who can deal with the inevitable mood swings that come with this sign (fortunately the bad storms are seldom and the sunny days make up for it by being extremely bright and well worth it). Being physically tough is also extremely attractive too for this sign. Scorpio women believe in their men being masculine and being the traditional "man" in the relationship.

As for the pussy powers hahaha... Well, scorpios are known for being intuitive which translates over very well in bed. So there's an advantage b/c we can read a partner's wants. However, great sex is never the only defining point of Scorpio. Often people are attracted and stick around b/c of the endless mystery.

Will you have kids someday? You decide, I'm not Miss Cleo.

Thanks for the elaborate feedback. I guess I won't have children after all. As a Libra mars, I just wanted someone to make the decision for me.

Welcome to DXP btw. I rarely wish this to people so you should be flattered.

When are you going to hell

Posted by Kemetisinme
Thanks for the elaborate feedback. I guess I won't have children after all. As a Libra mars, I just wanted someone to make the decision for me.

Welcome to DXP btw. I rarely wish this to people so you should be flattered.

=D thanks for the welcome! Haha roll an 8 ball

Posted by Scrumptious
When are you going to hell

My, my aren't you charming. =o)

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Posted by Scrumptious
When are you going to hell

My, my aren't you charming. =o)

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Thats not a date

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Posted by LittleAntares

Posted by Scrumptious
When are you going to hell

My, my aren't you charming. =o)

Thats not a date

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Well, I guess it'll be the day someone actually thinks you're funny.

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When are you going to hell

My, my aren't you charming. =o)

Thats not a date

Well, I guess it'll be the day someone actually thinks you're funny.

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It wasn't meant to be funny

11/9 here

🙂

Posted by Udylaw
Do scorpios constantly think of sex yet can be abstain from it ?

for me, yes. i mentally bang my crushes all the time but act pretty aloof on the outside. it takes awhile for me to have sex with someone. it's all a slow process. however i think i'm a bit different from the normal scorpio. lots of air influence.

the aqua guy i'm seeing...i mentally had sex with him so many times in so many places..LOL. but it took two years for that to take off the ground in the real world, and i still refused to have sex with him until it was too unbearable not to.

i'd say this whole question describes me in a nutshell...in a really strange way. i have no shame though. banging guys in my head is fun because it doesn't involve anything truly intimate or full of pressure lol

This is exactly the same for me....thanks for this,now I know its not just me.

Posted by degenerate_ingenue

Posted by Udylaw
Do scorpios constantly think of sex yet can be abstain from it ?

for me, yes. i mentally bang my crushes all the time but act pretty aloof on the outside. it takes awhile for me to have sex with someone. it's all a slow process. however i think i'm a bit different from the normal scorpio. lots of air influence.

the aqua guy i'm seeing...i mentally had sex with him so many times in so many places..LOL. but it took two years for that to take off the ground in the real world, and i still refused to have sex with him until it was too unbearable not to.

i'd say this whole question describes me in a nutshell...in a really strange way. i have no shame though. banging guys in my head is fun because it doesn't involve anything truly intimate or full of pressure lol

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Did you ever try short term flings, degen? If so, how did you find them?

I'm not sure if it's a sign-thing but I just found temp partners to be unfufilling and my emotions get dumped on = not worth it. So yes I concur with your sex-having within the head.

Hahaha you guys are cute. So back on topic, what do you think of scorpio female x aries male matchup?

I dated a fiery Aries before but we fell off the ends from being too different - he wanted the limelight while I really clawed for the shadows.

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Posted by Scrumptious
When are you going to hell

I have been there and back a few times so not due to go there for a while now

🙂

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couldn't resist