Breakup, NC, Staying Friends And Then A Block.

This topic was created in the Scorpio forum by TrulyScorpio on Wednesday, February 22, 2017 and has 3 replies.

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@TrulyScorpio
10 Years

I went through a terrible breakup in December. My ex moved on pretty quickly post our breakup and starting hooking up and dating other people. This kind of affected me more and it was then that I did a 30day NC on my ex. Post the NC we started speaking again and tried staying friends. We started chatting almost everyday for a week and then we even met up over the weekend and ended spending 6hiurs with each other. After the meetup also we continued speaking everyday for a week and then I suddenly noticed yesterday that he has blocked me. I am not even sure why did he have to do this suddenly? What went wrong?

TIA xx

(PS- both of us are scorpios)

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@Epi
9 Years

What went wrong was you started talking to him again too soon. Learn when you are fighting against the flow and remind yourself not to fight it. Find value in yourself and find a person that values you. Live a better life without worrying about what you did, because you already broke up, the healthy thing to do is let it die.

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@Gemitati
11 Years25,000+ Posts

Posted by Epi
What went wrong was you started talking to him again too soon. Learn when you are fighting against the flow and remind yourself not to fight it. Find value in yourself and find a person that values you. Live a better life without worrying about what you did, because you already broke up, the healthy thing to do is let it die.

Why should it die if apparently they aren't over each other yet.

People get back together all the time.

The reason he blocked her is probably because she said/done something she hasn't realized yet.

And being a Scorpio woman I don't think it's that hard to understand fella man.

Just have to be fair to oneself. And honestly realize what's what.

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@Silverlight84
9 Years

Nc never works unless you plan on dropping that person entirely..i think nc is just a way of saying" i want you, i miss you, but im not going to talk unless i know you truly miss me"