@MyStarsShine
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Scorpios in relationships?
Are Scorpios Usually in Relationships
Many Scorpios seek deep, committed relationships and often form intense bonds. They tend to be loyal and passionate partners, though they may take time to open up. Relationship experiences vary among Scorpios, with some being single for periods while others enjoy lasting connections. Understanding Scorpio traits can shed light on their relationship patterns.
Posted by MyStarsShine
How many of you are presently in a relationship? If so, how long for...if not, how long have you been single?Am just doing a bit of research 🙂
Thanks
x
I have been single for 11 months and 15 days; broke up w/ex bf (Saggy) 27 Feb 16 (three days before my birthday)....cheers! 🍹
🤗 cyber hugs!
Love,
Eva
Kinda sort of single for 13 months but still emotionally attached so not looking.
Posted by MyStarsShine
How many of you are presently in a relationship? If so, how long for...if not, how long have you been single?Am just doing a bit of research 🙂
Thanks
x
I have been single for 11 months and 12 days; broke up w/ex bf (Saggy) 27 Feb 16 (three days before my birthday)....cheers! 🍹
🤗 cyber hugs!
Love,
Eva
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Did you finally decide to change your sign to a Scorpio, Eva? 😄
Hugs
x
Posted by MyStarsShine
How many of you are presently in a relationship? If so, how long for...if not, how long have you been single?Am just doing a bit of research 🙂
Thanks
x
I have been single for 11 months and 12 days; broke up w/ex bf (Saggy) 27 Feb 16 (three days before my birthday)....cheers! 🍹
🤗 cyber hugs!
Love,
Eva
Did you finally decide to change your sign to a Scorpio, Eva? 😄
Hugs
x
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No! But I can jump in, right?! 😆
🤗 cyber hugs!
Love,
Eva
Posted by MyStarsShine
How many of you are presently in a relationship? If so, how long for...if not, how long have you been single?Am just doing a bit of research 🙂
Thanks
x
I have been single for 11 months and 12 days; broke up w/ex bf (Saggy) 27 Feb 16 (three days before my birthday)....cheers! 🍹
🤗 cyber hugs!
Love,
Eva
Did you finally decide to change your sign to a Scorpio, Eva? 😄
Hugs
x
No! But I can jump in, right?! 😆
🤗 cyber hugs!
Love,
Eva
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Yes of course....good therapy 🙂 x
Yes I'm in a relationship with a Cappy.. But I was single before this for a year...
My ex-Scorpio says that my time being single was not long enough cause he isn't over me.. 😢
If a scorp isn't over someone... it takes a minute.. He doesn't want anyone else.. He's only gone on one date.. and he said he doesn't see her as much because he compared her to me.
Posted by Evoxxxscorpio
But I'm gonna take your advice and be patient so I'll give it a few months instead of weeks.
How's your relationship going with the porcelain goddess?
Posted by Evoxxxscorpio
But I'm gonna take your advice and be patient so I'll give it a few months instead of weeks.How's your relationship going with the porcelain goddess?
lol who's the porcelain goddess?
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Sigh...
http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=porcelain% 20goddess
Posted by poison_ivy
Yes I'm in a relationship with a Cappy.. But I was single before this for a year...My ex-Scorpio says that my time being single was not long enough cause he isn't over me.. 😢
If a scorp isn't over someone... it takes a minute.. He doesn't want anyone else.. He's only gone on one date.. and he said he doesn't see her as much because he compared her to me.
i still love my first gf,didnt see her for 10 years?
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WOW! Scorpios love hard! 🙂
I still love him but we just don't get along..
Ive been single for about 15, 16 yrs now..
Posted by 13th
Ive been single for about 15, 16 yrs now..
Wow that is longer than most!
Can i ask why....is that by choice or just circumstances?
🙂
Posted by 13th
Ive been single for about 15, 16 yrs now..Wow that is longer than most!
Can i ask why....is that by choice or just circumstances?
🙂
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both.
Posted by MyStarsShine
This is for Scorpio people. How many of you are presently in a relationship? If so, how long for...if not, how long have you been single?Am just doing a bit of research 🙂
Thanks
x
*raises hand*
It will be one year next month.
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Hello you!! 🙂
Congrats!.....is this the Cappy man? I thought you were together for years!
Posted by 13th
Ive been single for about 15, 16 yrs now..Wow that is longer than most!
Can i ask why....is that by choice or just circumstances?
🙂
both.
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Are you able to add more, or is it too personal for you? If it is, no problem
🙂
Posted by 13th
Ive been single for about 15, 16 yrs now..Wow that is longer than most!
Can i ask why....is that by choice or just circumstances?
🙂
both.
Are you able to add more, or is it too personal for you? If it is, no problem
🙂
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its no problem.. Well at first I thought my past heartbreak turned me off to being a relationship, but then I got into astrology and I thought maybe my Mars in sags makes me that way...then lately I found out my moon is unaspected, im like oh that has to be why, then I noticed my venus is in retrograde in my chart, im like oh is this the cause? In other words im STILL, after all these years, trying to figure out why I like being single. I dont get lonelyl, sad, I love being able to date girl after girl wit no strings attached .Maybe my 1st house pluto is the cause, IDK..Im in a good mood today lol u can ask me whatever if my answer wasnt enough...
Posted by MyStarsShine
This is for Scorpio people. How many of you are presently in a relationship? If so, how long for...if not, how long have you been single?Am just doing a bit of research 🙂
Thanks
x
I've been single for almost a month.
Posted by Impulsv
13thSo for how long are u with the ladies ?
Few months?
Maybe fwb for many months?
Just curious
a few months, sometimes years but theres always a 2-3 month break every so often..The 2nd they get emotional I disappear lol I was hooked on my childs' mother, we were FWB, but I never told her, it was for me to know.....The very 2nd she showed some sort of "feelings" for me I was turned off, which sucked cause she got pregnant lol what luck
Posted by Impulsv
Thanks for sharing
Listen, Impulsv , please DO NOT use me as an example for some scorp guy u like,,Im one of a kind. I wasnt always like this. I used to fantasize as a kid about getting married, having kids, being in love..As I got older something in me change..im only sayin this cause I got the feeling youre abt to judge on other poor sap on what I said,,im the last person u want to use lol
Posted by 13th
Ive been single for about 15, 16 yrs now..Wow that is longer than most!
Can i ask why....is that by choice or just circumstances?
🙂
both.
Are you able to add more, or is it too personal for you? If it is, no problem
🙂
its no problem.. Well at first I thought my past heartbreak turned me off to being a relationship, but then I got into astrology and I thought maybe my Mars in sags makes me that way...then lately I found out my moon is unaspected, im like oh that has to be why, then I noticed my venus is in retrograde in my chart, im like oh is this the cause? In other words im STILL, after all these years, trying to figure out why I like being single. I dont get lonelyl, sad, I love being able to date girl after girl wit no strings attached .Maybe my 1st house pluto is the cause, IDK..Im in a good mood today lol u can ask me whatever if my answer wasnt enough...
Thanks for sharing 🙂
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Posted by xXxQueenliciaXxX
I have a Scorpio ascendant therefore I feel qualified to comment on this thread.
You are welcome miss 🙂
Is your Scorpio rising single ?
Posted by Infinite8
Hey Star ☺️!??I'm in a relationship.
I've been in a relationship for almost 14yrs (will be 14 in May)
I've been married for 6 yrs
?
🙂
Do you have children Infinite?
Posted by Infinite8
Hey Star ☺️!??I'm in a relationship.
I've been in a relationship for almost 14yrs (will be 14 in May)
I've been married for 6 yrs
?
🙂
Do you have children Infinite?
No... not yet. I wasn't feeling it. But, this year, I am finally getting a bit of that urge.
Always debating idealism vs. realism in my head, of how it will change my life once I do...
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It will change it completely. Don't believe those people that say their babies will not change things, they are either deluded or lying
🙂
Posted by Infinite8
Hey Star ☺️!??I'm in a relationship.
I've been in a relationship for almost 14yrs (will be 14 in May)
I've been married for 6 yrs
?
🙂
Do you have children Infinite?
No... not yet. I wasn't feeling it. But, this year, I am finally getting a bit of that urge.
Always debating idealism vs. realism in my head, of how it will change my life once I do...
It will change it completely. Don't believe those people that say their babies will not change things, they are either deluded or lying
🙂
Lol... I think 100% of the people I've encountered with children, have insisted that it completely changes your life. But, what concerned me the most, were the mixed signals. This is what I have found:
People in the US:
?"OMG... they COMPLETELY change your life"—
People in Europe:
?"OMG... they completely change your life" —
And I live in the states ?
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I am in the 🙂 🙂 🙂 category .... Maybe Europe is more maternal/paternal lol
Posted by Infinite8
Hey Star ☺️!??I'm in a relationship.
I've been in a relationship for almost 14yrs (will be 14 in May)
I've been married for 6 yrs
?
🙂
Do you have children Infinite?
No... not yet. I wasn't feeling it. But, this year, I am finally getting a bit of that urge.
Always debating idealism vs. realism in my head, of how it will change my life once I do...
It will change it completely. Don't believe those people that say their babies will not change things, they are either deluded or lying
🙂
Lol... I think 100% of the people I've encountered with children, have insisted that it completely changes your life. But, what concerned me the most, were the mixed signals. This is what I have found:
People in the US:
?"OMG... they COMPLETELY change your life"—
People in Europe:
?"OMG... they completely change your life" —
And I live in the states ?
I am in the 🙂 🙂 🙂 category .... Maybe Europe is more maternal/paternal lol
I need that environment ?
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I live in a very gentle environment, thank God
Having visited the States a few times, i couldn't live there.....not for all the money in the world
Posted by MyStarsShine
How many of you are presently in a relationship? If so, how long for...if not, how long have you been single?Am just doing a bit of research 🙂
Thanks
x
I have been single for about five years now
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Whywjywhywhy? Why?
Posted by Evoxxxscorpio
I've been single for weeks feels like forever
Don't you see we have gorgeous broads here (me excluded) and you can admit celibacy for days—
I loathe you...
Posted by Evoxxxscorpio
I've been single for weeks feels like foreverDon't you see we have gorgeous broads here (me excluded) and you can admit celibacy for days—
I loathe you...
Lol ? ? ?
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It's only because I can't have you...
Lol
lMAO.. Unless you like silver snikers girls!
Omg! Say yes....
Posted by MyStarsShine
How many of you are presently in a relationship? If so, how long for...if not, how long have you been single?Am just doing a bit of research 🙂
Thanks
x
I have been single for about five years now
Whywjywhywhy? Why?
Things happen for a reason, I guess 🙂
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You just lazy!
With this face you've got to be jumped by people daily!!! Dork!
Posted by MyStarsShine
How many of you are presently in a relationship? If so, how long for...if not, how long have you been single?Am just doing a bit of research 🙂
Thanks
x
I have been single for about five years now
Whywjywhywhy? Why?
Things happen for a reason, I guess 🙂
You just lazy!
With this face you've got to be jumped by people daily!!! Dork!
lol thanks, I think. I am quite picky 😛
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So forbid them to jump...
Make them tale slooooow...before jumping!
Posted by MyStarsShine
How many of you are presently in a relationship? If so, how long for...if not, how long have you been single?Am just doing a bit of research 🙂
Thanks
x
I have been single for about five years now
Whywjywhywhy? Why?
Things happen for a reason, I guess 🙂
You just lazy!
With this face you've got to be jumped by people daily!!! Dork!
lol thanks, I think. I am quite picky 😛
So forbid them to jump...
Make them tale slooooow...before jumping!
Haha, for sure
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Report back with pictures! Lol
Posted by MyStarsShine
This is for Scorpio people. How many of you are presently in a relationship? If so, how long for...if not, how long have you been single?Am just doing a bit of research 🙂
Thanks
x
*raises hand*
It will be one year next month.
Hello you!! 🙂
Congrats!.....is this the Cappy man? I thought you were together for years!
Yes, the Cap. This is the first time it was 'official'...lol
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Hahaha to *official* ~ have you joined the realms of the misguided youth? 😛
Enjoy!!!
🙂
xx
Posted by MyStarsShine
This is for Scorpio people. How many of you are presently in a relationship? If so, how long for...if not, how long have you been single?Am just doing a bit of research 🙂
Thanks
x
*raises hand*
It will be one year next month.
Hello you!! 🙂
Congrats!.....is this the Cappy man? I thought you were together for years!
Yes, the Cap. This is the first time it was 'official'...lol
Hahaha to *official* ~ have you joined the realms of the misguided youth? 😛
Enjoy!!!
🙂
xx
I am a card carrying VIP 😄
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*Bows*
😄
Posted by -elle-
*sigh*Doublemint bubble gum!
Hahaha
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That made me laugh too 🙂
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So far it seems that most Scorps here are single, i wonder if that is because we are difficult buggers to be with? Lol
or
As some of you have stated, rather picky
?
Posted by -elle-
*sigh*Doublemint bubble gum!
Hahaha
That made me laugh too 🙂
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So far it seems that most Scorps here are single, i wonder if that is because we are difficult buggers to be with? Lol
or
As some of you have stated, rather picky
?
I still maintain striking up a romance with a Scorpio is very straightforward, in my experience. The stuff I read about Scorpios online vs my experience with them, is like two different worlds.
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Oh.................carry on 😛 and forgive my self effacing humour (I know we can be wonderful creatures overall).
So....do tell 🙂
Posted by -elle-
*sigh*Doublemint bubble gum!
Hahaha
That made me laugh too 🙂
*
So far it seems that most Scorps here are single, i wonder if that is because we are difficult buggers to be with? Lol
or
As some of you have stated, rather picky
?
I still maintain striking up a romance with a Scorpio is very straightforward, in my experience. The stuff I read about Scorpios online vs my experience with them, is like two different worlds.
Oh.................carry on 😛 and forgive my self effacing humour (I know we can be wonderful creatures overall).
So....do tell 🙂
Lol the humour is all good. I don't really have much to say. My last relationship with a Scorp was years ago and I don't remember much about people when they're no longer around. If it had been drama-filled I'd remember more.
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Christ, you are an expert at being diplomatic 😛
I'm a scorp moon if that counts. I've been single for 4 months...getting ready to go off my birth control cause I will probably be single for awhile since I don't meet many men that I am attracted to and sex just isn't fun if it isn't with the one you love...so I kinda figure whats the point and am going to give my body a brake from it.
5 damn years. Heart was broken in a milli pieces so I fly solo....besides a date (hookup) once or twice. Sex drive has completely gone into hibernation at this point lol.
I want a someone but the risk of that kind of heartbreak again is extremely discouraging.
Posted by Sc0rpi0sity
5 damn years. Heart was broken in a milli pieces so I fly solo....besides a date (hookup) once or twice. Sex drive has completely gone into hibernation at this point lol.I want a someone but the risk of that kind of heartbreak again is extremely discouraging.
Think if it this way
If u survived the love of ur life anything after is a breeze
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Eh, takes a lot of energy to get to know someone and for them to get to know you. If it happens naturally, I'll go along with it. Maybe.
You counting Scorpio dominants too, or just Suns?
Been with me fella for just over one year.
Dated a Pisces on an off for a year. Then, I remained single for roughly two years and a half because I couldn't/didn't want to get over him. When I found out he got serious with a Virgo, I shut that door completely. I never thought I would, but now I realize he would have made me miserable. I want nothing to do with him in all fairness.
Then, during the first year of this singledom, I met a Leo. Nothing happened at first, but we started dating in October. We had ups and downs. We saw each other three weeks ago, since then, nothing from his side at all. I'm not sure where I'm at. I care so much about him, but right now, it's nowhere, so I'm focusing on myself instead. The door will always be open for this one though I won't be waiting forever.
10 years friends, 8 years coupling and 2 years married. Pretty sure we're strong because we were friends first (and he's cancarian)
I'm intrigued what the research is for?
2 years
I recently was in a relationship with a Pisces female for 4 months. I feel very hard for this female to the point that I didn't realize she was manipulating me. Our rapport developed to be sexual and then the next day I was receiving blame that it was my fault for what I made her do and what I did to her. There was consent from both of us, but she broke a promise that stated she would tell me if anything was wrong. ex) controlling, anger, etc. I ended up burning every bridge that connected us. (friend groups and acquaintances)
been dating scorpios and they are all very different no two scorpios are alike 6months 1year 6months and 2years
Posted by ScorpioStarGazer
Depends on what you mean by single? Or better yet, what constitutes a relationship? If a relationship means dating for an extended amount of time then it's been about 2 years for me. If a relationship means actually discussing that you are seeing each other exclusively, referring to each other as boyfriend/girlfriend or significant other etc...then it's been my whole life, 34 years.After re-reading this I realize I wasn't exactly clear. I'm 100% single and pretty much have been for 34 years. Lol.
I think you and I have a lot in common- besides scorpio placements ?
Nice, someone who can relate. ? What are your placements?
Well I am Scorpio-sag cusp. But scorpio Venus. I think that has a major influence on me.
But looking back it is very obvious to me, that I have gone after the wrong guys. I almost laugh at that stuff now, 'cause it's so obvious ?
Are you single by choice?
Ugh the dreaded Venus in Scorpio. I have a love hate relationship with mine. Hun, I am the queen of picking the wrong guys. Am I single by choice? Hmmm...I'd say somewhat. Dating has become like a task for me. Like grocery shopping. It's just not something I look forward to anymore. The odds of me finding a good guy is like playing the lotto. Keep buying all these dud tickets because hitting the jackpot is so rare. You get all dolled up
to go on these dates only for them to flop. I guess all my bad experiences in the past have jaded me.
I just can't be bothered anymore. I'd much rather sit at home curled up on the couch watching a movie and eating ice cream. lol I'm to the point now, if it happens it happens, but I'm not going to actively search for it. How about you? Single by choice?
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Scorp Sun and Venus here.
Sounds like you need a better process for dating. A better filter and idea of what you want so you don't waste your time in people who really aren't comptstabld with you or who are not looking for the same thing as you.
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This is for Scorpio people. How many of you are presently in a relationship? If so, how long for...if not, how long have you been single?
Am just doing a bit of research 🙂
Thanks
x