Broken-hearted Pisces- will my Scorp come back?

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My Scorpio boyfriend of 9 months broke up with me one month ago. It came out of nowhere, complete shock to all my friends & family because he seemed so into me and so affectionate towards me. We really were an amazing couple who never fought and got along very well. I met his family/friends, he met mine. Everyone got along, it was an incredible 9 months. Then bam, he started acting distant all of a sudden and a week later he broke up with me. I asked him if there was someone else and he assured me there wasn't. I believe him. He said maybe he "just needed time" and seemed kind of unsure about his decision. I have not attempted to contact him at all in the month since this happened. Defriended him on FB, no texting/emailing, nothing. I was very upset and emotional when he was breaking up with me and he sat there and held my hand and said he felt horrible about what he was doing, but he felt I deserved someone who could give me what I wanted (more time and energy) and that he was feeling guilty for not being able to give that to me.

My question to all you Scorpio men out there. Has this happened to you where you suddenly freaked out and decided you weren't into the person anymore or you were scared to move forward into more serious territory? Did you eventually go back- and if so, how long did it take you to realize your mistake? I'm trying to convince myself he won't come back and he's happy with his decision, but I can't quit obsessing with the fact that he seemed hesitant to break it off. I don't know if he was trying to let me down easy or if he really wans't sure if he wanted to end it? At one point he even asked me "well what do you think", like he was trying to get me to convince him not to leave?! I was crying on the couch and just sat there. I told him nicely maybe he should leave but he wouldn't get off the couch. So I got up, opened the front door and asked him again to leave. He walked out the door and took a piece of my heart with him. A month later and no contact still. Even though I'm crying less and moving on and having fun with friends blah blah blah, I still think about him constantly and wonder if he'll come back begging me for forgiveness.

I'm not just saying this to sound cocky, but I really am a catch and if would have married me, it would have been considered a "move up" if you will. Just thought I'd throw that out there....god that sounds conceited!

Insight into the Scorpio mind please!
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I keep seeing these posts on astrology websites about Pisces getting their hearts broken by Scorpios. I don't know the story behind the breakups but this proves my point about Scorpios and Pisces not being the best match for each other. The astrologers have it wrong about these two being the best for each other because in my experiences and what i have been seeing, Scorpios need someon who is strong, levelheaded and ambitious. Most pisces are not these things, that's why, in my opinion and experiences Scorpios are better off with an earth sign. Pisces and Scorpios are both water signs and it's just too much emotions. They are also mutable whereas Scorpios are fixed. Scorpio energy is too much for a Pisces. They're energy is very powerful and strong and intense which can be too much for the laidback relaxed Pisces. Pisces and Scorpio=bad match.
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I think I'm being misunderstood here, as usual I find it hard to express exactly how I feel. In no way do I think I'm "better" than my ex. He was a fantastic guy with a lot of admirable qualities. I just know I was a "move up" in comparison to his previous girlfriends and I feel certain he won't find anyone who respects, adores and supports him as much as I would. I told him when he broke up with me how much I thought of him and I thanked him for sitting me down and doing it in a honest and mature manner. I just think he needs to date around some more to figure it all out and then maybe he'll make his way back to me and be ready to settle down. It'll probably be too late.
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Posted by Let*It*Be
"I just know I was a "move up" in comparison to his previous girlfriends and I feel certain he won't find anyone who respects, adores and supports him as much as I would."



Do you realize ^^that statement is on a list of signs you are being abused and often used by the abuser? It's at the top of the list too. He will find someone else if he hasn't already but hopefully it won't be someone who has to remind him how perfect she is for him...I still say you should reach out, have a sit down and get your closure. You'll feel better because of it and will be able to move on.


What the DP are you talking about?
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Posted by Cinnamon Girl
In my experiences, Scorpios go better with Leos, Aquarians and sometimes Taureans. We Scorpios shouldnot deal with the mushy, sappy Cancers and Pisces. Besides, we are the strongest of the water signs and we need someone just as strong as us. Pisces and Cancers need to stick with each other because we Scorpios are just too harsh for them.



Hm, funny you say that the Pisces man/ Scorpio woman match I know, the Pisces is the one who is too harsh for the Scorpio.
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I wish I had an answer to your question.
All I know is when I was reading the first paragraph, it sounded exactly like how me an my 21 year old Scorpio ex gf went.
However, it didn't last as long. I wish I could also say I was as good as you at the no contact thing. That's what I wanted but I kept seeing her around and she texted me one day to ask if I had her Dave Matthews tickets. Those situations were enough for me to bite and begin asking her a bunch of questions.
She tells me she wishes we could still talk and be friends but that she can't be in a relationship with me and that she doesn't feel the same as I do. She also refused to help me put any closure on things, so I had to find my own closure.
I found out she has been living or trying to live a sort of double life. There was no "other" person but she wants that freedom in case and she is completely open to allowing there to be someone new already.
I actually broke my own no contact rule again today and emailed her with how I felt about the way she treated me and to apologize for some of the hurtful things I said.
It probably wasn't a great idea. I'm terrible at break-ups. I always demand no contact but cave after a week.
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Why do I keep saying that? Because I've experienced that, and I've also been on other astrology websites where the Pisces are always complaining about the powerful intense energy of Scorpios and how they just can't deal with that. They say that they can sense a Scorpios' strength and it's unnerving to them. Scorpios can intimidate people without even trying and we overpower them with our emotions. Pisces will just become resentful of the Scorpio energy and attention that they recieve and become insecure and feel powerless. In my experiences, the signs who can deal with Scorpios are Leo, Aquarians, Virgos and Capricorns. Even Cancers can respect Scorpios' power and admire it. Pisces, on the other hand, like I said before, will become jealous and try to compete with Scorpio.
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I have to say librasid and a few others that said he's just not that into you IMO gave a very hard but honest answer.

It doesn't matter if there is another woman, he broke up with her in a dignified caring way, he could have done like so many other immature men and dragged the shit on and on and on until she pulled her hair out but he gave her closure, these days that's an admirable quality to have b/c their are a tremendous amount of men and women not giving closure so they can come back and mindfuck a person later...he closed the door

He wasn't feeling it...When he comes back to retest to see if he can feel that level of attraction he wants and needs to move forward with you...I wouldn't take him back, if he didn't feel before he broke up with you he won't feel if he gets back with you, he would end up wasting your time and you would end up having to get over him all over again.

Move on
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Posted by Cinnamon Girl
Cathy89. the truth hurts, doesn't it? Pisces cannot hang with Scorpios. All of our powerful energy will sap the life right out of you!



i've noticed from my experience, that scorpian women is the EASIEST to have sex with..i mean REAL easy..which is a good thing..for us men
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No there is another sign... gotta say you don't have to put much effort in at all, flash a smile and have good looks but let me not start a war.
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Posted by Cinnamon Girl
Damien VI, I know the truth hurts, and in my experiences, there is no other woman more promiscuous than a Pisces one! They jump from man to man and they are usually bisexual, too. Such directionless creatures, those Pisces.




Been peeking in my windows again, eh? Take notes next time - you might learn something more worthwhile than the repetitious, delusional bullshit you constantly spew.
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Posted by Cinnamon Girl
Damien VI, I know the truth hurts, and in my experiences, there is no other woman more promiscuous than a Pisces one! They jump from man to man and they are usually bisexual, too. Such directionless creatures, those Pisces.



the only truth i know is that scorpian women is easy, for me..ya'll sign is based on sex pretty much so if a guy can get you goin sexually, then its pretty much a done deal..i've been with 3 scorpian women, and only one was considered my true girlfriend, and still it didn't take long for me to get in them draws..1 was the same day, and the other 2 took no longer then a week( and that was mainly due to me, not them)

and yea i've been with a few easy pisces women too..and cancer..and virgo..and leo..but i connect with scorps the fastest sexually
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That's only three Scorpio women out of millions around the world, my friend. I'm going by what I read in the astrology books and on the websites. They all say that Scorpios are unfairly burdened with the atereotype of being promiscuous when in fact it is Tauruses and Pisces who are more likely to be promiscuous. Pisceans like to escape, whether it's through sex, drugs, alcohol,etc. They don't know when to quit. They have addictive personalitites.
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Posted by Cinnamon Girl
That's only three Scorpio women out of millions around the world, my friend. I'm going by what I read in the astrology books and on the websites. They all say that Scorpios are unfairly burdened with the atereotype of being promiscuous when in fact it is Tauruses and Pisces who are more likely to be promiscuous. Pisceans like to escape, whether it's through sex, drugs, alcohol,etc. They don't know when to quit. They have addictive personalitites.



LOL..u saying i can't judge scorpiHO's based off those 3 girls, but YOU can judge all pisces just because of a BOOK you read?..a damn book and a website huh??..not a person, but a book and websites??..you're a hypocrite, plus you sound kinda stupid

listen..the fact is, you can't judge ALL people based on a damn sign..i like to toy around with it A LITTLE BIT, but YOU seem like you TRULY believe ALL this crap is 100% fact..which is sad, and dumb
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You're doing the same thing that I'm doing. You're making a blacket statement about Scorpio women when you haven't been around too much of them to be making statements like that! You're saying we're the sign of sex! You're also going by sterteotypes! Scorpios are ruled ny their stomach and genitals. They have a lot of probl3ms down there. People who don't know any better stupidly believe that Scorpios are sex addicts because of this. I have a lot of Scorpios in my family and they are prudes. They are way more interested in getting ahead in life than in sex. They all are very intelligent, have good jobs, nice homes, nice cars, etc. In my experiences, the people who seem to be the sluttiest are Pisces and Tauruses. Scorpios are good lovers because they are ruled by their geitals. There's a big difference betyween being a sex addict and being a good lover. Scorpio women are good at oral sex(This is a well known fact). We have bomb ass coochies (that's why everyone is hooked on us) but we are NOT sex addixts!
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Posted by Cinnamon Girl
You're doing the same thing that I'm doing. You're making a blacket statement about Scorpio women when you haven't been around too much of them to be making statements like that! You're saying we're the sign of sex! You're also going by sterteotypes! Scorpios are ruled ny their stomach and genitals. They have a lot of probl3ms down there. People who don't know any better stupidly believe that Scorpios are sex addicts because of this. I have a lot of Scorpios in my family and they are prudes. They are way more interested in getting ahead in life than in sex. They all are very intelligent, have good jobs, nice homes, nice cars, etc. In my experiences, the people who seem to be the sluttiest are Pisces and Tauruses. Scorpios are good lovers because they are ruled by their geitals. There's a big difference betyween being a sex addict and being a good lover. Scorpio women are good at oral sex(This is a well known fact). We have bomb ass coochies (that's why everyone is hooked on us) but we are NOT sex addixts!



YOU'RE the one that make the most blanket statements..you're like the blanket queen!..unless its pertaining to scorpio's..


and lol@ scorpio's having a lot of problems with their stomach's and genitals..LMAO..it might just be gas and crabs..

but forget all that...you give good head??

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^^ WINNER!! YAY DAMEN *blows you promiscuous e-kiss*
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lol thanks! * gives you a e-kiss on the forehead*

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Scorpios have problems with their bladders and genitals. Sagittarians have problems with their thighs, capricorns with their knees, Aquarians with their bottom legs and Pisces with their feet. Anyone who studies astrology knows this. We start with Aries and their heads which they are ruled by and we end with Pisces and their feet(which they are ruled by). And as far as me givin good head, of course I do! But sorry, i don't eat fish!