Butt hole

So I posted in the Sag forum some weeks ago about butt play since my "friend" is a Sag and he likes me messing with his butt. But recently like last night he said he wanted me to "eat his ass" and pretty much get all in there. Its a huge turn on for him and since his venus is in scorpio could that be the reason hes a kinky cookie? Lmao

Also, he has this crazy fantasy to have a threesome, with a girl but also with a guy——

I really just think he is very open when it comes to his pleasure. But honestly any advice of whats going on, or similar experiences could help.

Posted by dolluxe
Is he bisexual? More importantly, are you down with this act? It's all about exploring and having fun. If you're okay with it then try it out, you might enjoy it.

I have been thinking that, but im trying to keep an open mind. I told him no way in hell i would do a threesome with a guy. So thats never going to happen. His threesome fantasy is him only effing me, so I guess the guy cant eff me. He never mentioned the guy inside him.

One day I decided to put my finger a little bit in his butt while I went down and now out of the blue he says he would like for me to do that (ass licking, and such).

I think is so rude to ask if hes bi I think he might not ever talk to me, but I really dont think he is.

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Posted by dolluxe
Is he bisexual? More importantly, are you down with this act? It's all about exploring and having fun. If you're okay with it then try it out, you might enjoy it.

I have been thinking that, but im trying to keep an open mind. I told him no way in hell i would do a threesome with a guy. So thats never going to happen. His threesome fantasy is him only effing me, so I guess the guy cant eff me. He never mentioned the guy inside him.

One day I decided to put my finger a little bit in his butt while I went down and now out of the blue he says he would like for me to do that (ass licking, and such).

I think is so rude to ask if hes bi I think he might not ever talk to me, but I really dont think he is.

I really won't do this if I were in your situation but that's just me. Again, if you're willing to explore that part of his body then do it.

If you do, I hope he has really good hygiene and preferably bald down there.

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Lol yes I understand, If I do it will be way down the line and most likely in the shower

Posted by TheCanBull
Just so you know when people get ridiculously horny with each other, they can desire things they would otherwise never want, and after doing it possibly feel disgusted straight after...

And wanting to take a real mans penis instead of your finger or you and a sex toy is very different.

He actually wants a man in him which means it's not just you he is sexually intimate with.

Bi sexual means a man, not you fingering his butt or playing with it.

Wait why do you think he wants a man in him? Hes never said or mentioned wanting/having a man in him.

Posted by Amethysst
I'll stick a finger or two but I won't lick it. I tried doing it to Scorpio in the shower when he wasn't looking and bent over.. 😈

cute booty.

What did he do, did he like it? Lol

I never expected him to like when I stuck a finger in, thought he would swipe my hand away but he didnt.

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Posted by Saggie1220
So I posted in the Sag forum some weeks ago about butt play since my "friend" is a Sag and he likes me messing with his butt. But recently like last night he said he wanted me to "eat his ass" and pretty much get all in there. Its a huge turn on for him and since his venus is in scorpio could that be the reason hes a kinky cookie? Lmao

Also, he has this crazy fantasy to have a threesome, with a girl but also with a guy——

I really just think he is very open when it comes to his pleasure. But honestly any advice of whats going on, or similar experiences could help.

I mean i don't know many guys who want another guy doing their lover without them wanting it themself...

Other wise it would be a kink where he watches you get done by another man... never understood that one lol.

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Lol didnt want to get more graphic than I already am but he wants to have me from the back while he sees me go down on another guy. Which I would never ever do. He doesnt want the guy to "have" me.

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Posted by dolluxe
Is he bisexual? More importantly, are you down with this act? It's all about exploring and having fun. If you're okay with it then try it out, you might enjoy it.

I have been thinking that, but im trying to keep an open mind. I told him no way in hell i would do a threesome with a guy. So thats never going to happen. His threesome fantasy is him only effing me, so I guess the guy cant eff me. He never mentioned the guy inside him.

One day I decided to put my finger a little bit in his butt while I went down and now out of the blue he says he would like for me to do that (ass licking, and such).

I think is so rude to ask if hes bi I think he might not ever talk to me, but I really dont think he is.

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Lol goood! So hes not gay? Is that the verdicked. Hahaha dickeddd its super late I should be sleeping

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I'll stick a finger or two but I won't lick it. I tried doing it to Scorpio in the shower when he wasn't looking and bent over.. 😈

cute booty.

What did he do, did he like it? Lol

I never expected him to like when I stuck a finger in, thought he would swipe my hand away but he didnt.

His reaction was,

"Dude wtf?!?! Lol Not cool!!"

He laughed about it because I was super sneaky. I've asked multiple times to do a little bit of anal play but he would just clench his booty.. He said I'm the type of girl to send a gift in the mail and when you open the box, it's a dildo with lube.

??

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Hahhaha!! Thats so sweet of him aweeee. You should actually do that as a joke.

When I did it he said "You are so dirty, you tryna turn me out?"

Lol and I guess I did.

But his version of turning me out is having a threesome *rolls eyes*

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I'll stick a finger or two but I won't lick it. I tried doing it to Scorpio in the shower when he wasn't looking and bent over.. 😈

cute booty.

What did he do, did he like it? Lol

I never expected him to like when I stuck a finger in, thought he would swipe my hand away but he didnt.

His reaction was,

"Dude wtf?!?! Lol Not cool!!"

He laughed about it because I was super sneaky. I've asked multiple times to do a little bit of anal play but he would just clench his booty.. He said I'm the type of girl to send a gift in the mail and when you open the box, it's a dildo with lube.

??

Hahhaha!! Thats so sweet of him aweeee. You should actually do that as a joke.

When I did it he said "You are so dirty, you tryna turn me out?"

Lol and I guess I did.

But his version of turning me out is having a threesome *rolls eyes*

Ch

Yeah we were willing to try new things in bed but he wouldn't let me do that.. lol no hard feelings. I enjoyed it for myself though. ?

I prefer a man who's open to a variety of pleasures but not necessarily bisexual. Monogamy is my choice.

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Yea thats why im hoping he isnt bisexual and just likes exploring his pleasures. I dont mind doing those things but not because you secretly deep down wish you were with a guy.

Posted by Saggie1220
I really just think he is very open when it comes to his pleasure. But honestly any advice of whats going on, or similar experiences could help.

Advice on what's going on? I'm not sure what more info you need beyond what he's shared he enjoys and would like to experience. I think the "why" is irrelevant tbh. You're either down or not and no answer as to "what's going on" will change that for you.

If you're down, enjoy and play safe.

*head over to Sag forum. I know they're responses will be hilarious*

I am a Sag with Venus in Scorpio and I don't get this whole Ass-Anal-Mania popularity thing. It seems to me as if it's an american thing.

I often read comments on youtube from guys saying "Oh I would fuck or lick that asshole from celebrity X..." I mean wtf? There is a super hot woman appearing in a video and those fools talk about what they would do to her asshole? lol God invented the pussy for some reason. I once saw a czech porn casting movie (for artistic reasons of course) where the lead actor asked the woman whether he could fuck her ass. She replied "why, are you gay?"

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So I posted in the Sag forum some weeks ago about butt play since my "friend" is a Sag and he likes me messing with his butt. But recently like last night he said he wanted me to "eat his ass" and pretty much get all in there. Its a huge turn on for him and since his venus is in scorpio could that be the reason hes a kinky cookie? Lmao

Also, he has this crazy fantasy to have a threesome, with a girl but also with a guy——

I really just think he is very open when it comes to his pleasure. But honestly any advice of whats going on, or similar experiences could help.

I mean i don't know many guys who want another guy doing their lover without them wanting it themself...

Other wise it would be a kink where he watches you get done by another man... never understood that one lol.

Lol didnt want to get more graphic than I already am but he wants to have me from the back while he sees me go down on another guy. Which I would never ever do. He doesnt want the guy to "have" me.

Are you two just fuck buddies or is this just a dumb question as you seem to be ok with this?

Putting your finger In a man's butt is no big deal. The majority of men want this but don't ask for it.. It helps in the bedroom if two people are open and have a good imagination.

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I seem to be okay with it? No, I have made it clear I dont want to do it. Part of me with the threesome thinks its a huge joke and I think every guy tells you about a fantasy that will never happen. We arnt just fuck buddies, but we are young he just turned 22 and I'm almost 21, if that makes things more understanding.

Posted by TheCanBull
That threesome thing seems very odd... and if you are into monogamy then it will drive you up the wall the wrong way.. had a female talking about it all the time and alarm bells were going off in my head.. ended fast.

Tbh I asked him would he be mad if I ever got with a girl and he said no only if he could watch or be involved and he has never really mentioned threesome with a girl only with a guy. He said he would care and not like it if I was to have sex with someone else, and if so he would want to be "involved".

Let me just say that I'm 30 and I'm gay, I've always said I'm gay because it's easy for people to understand and I've never had sex with a chick, I am a gold star gay. But I look at girls anatomy and I see they are built for sex, the masculine side of me imagines holding their waist and and their ass bouncing up and down my shaft and I find it hot, I would have sex with a woman but I feel awkward to approach them even though I've been approached by them before. I watch bisexual porn and it's really rare that I find a girl ducking a guy reverse cowgirl while another guy is licking her clit and just going to town.....

Hell I watch tranny porn as well and pretty much anything gets me off but only if the porn stars are my type....

We are equipped to have amazing sex, if there is a will there is a way, if he can pretend his ass is a pussy and in some way know what it's like to get licked out then he will find out eventually with you on board or not. We are curious creatures and only our mental cages are stopping us from achieving our desires....

My piscean ex was the biggest freak ever, he and I had crazy sex, we would always take it up a notch , it was like the freak Olympics, the only thing we didn't do was shit on each other and fisting....

I know it sounds sick because you're 21 and you have every right to feel the way you do because we are all on a journey and figuring shit out for ourselves...try and understand that your boyfriend has an active imagination and is capable of thinking up the wildest things possible to achieve sexual pleasure, you don't have to box and label him as bisexual if he wants a dicking, he doesn't have to be gay, he can just be really adventurous, anyways that's where I'm at

Posted by The_eleventh_sign_11
Let me just say that I'm 30 and I'm gay, I've always said I'm gay because it's easy for people to understand and I've never had sex with a chick, I am a gold star gay. But I look at girls anatomy and I see they are built for sex, the masculine side of me imagines holding their waist and and their ass bouncing up and down my shaft and I find it hot, I would have sex with a woman but I feel awkward to approach them even though I've been approached by them before. I watch bisexual porn and it's really rare that I find a girl ducking a guy reverse cowgirl while another guy is licking her clit and just going to town.....

Hell I watch tranny porn as well and pretty much anything gets me off but only if the porn stars are my type....

We are equipped to have amazing sex, if there is a will there is a way, if he can pretend his ass is a pussy and in some way know what it's like to get licked out then he will find out eventually with you on board or not. We are curious creatures and only our mental cages are stopping us from achieving our desires....

My piscean ex was the biggest freak ever, he and I had crazy sex, we would always take it up a notch , it was like the freak Olympics, the only thing we didn't do was shit on each other and fisting....

I know it sounds sick because you're 21 and you have every right to feel the way you do because we are all on a journey and figuring shit out for ourselves...try and understand that your boyfriend has an active imagination and is capable of thinking up the wildest things possible to achieve sexual pleasure, you don't have to box and label him as bisexual if he wants a dicking, he doesn't have to be gay, he can just be really adventurous, anyways that's where I'm at

Thank you so much for your advice, exactly why I want to keep an open mind but I would hope he can be real and say if he is bisexual because I want him to be true to himself and also me. As of right now I dont think he is, just think hes a huge freak. I myself have never been with a girl but watch lesbian porn a lot and want to try things with a girl but I would never be in a relationship with a girl, and my emotional connections for a girl are not strong like they are for guys. I dont want to label him just like I dont want to label myself. I think we are young and just want to have fun exploring.