Why would my ex do this?

This topic was created in the Relationships forum by Stensco21 on Wednesday, November 30, 2016 and has 18 replies.

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@Stensco21
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So my ex has been messaging me on Facebook. I am currently in a relationship and it s pretty obvious on Facebook. My ex also has a gf. He messaged me yesterday saying he misses being single and wishes we could have had fun before our relationships and that he wanted to see each other. I declined. The very next day he changed his Facebook profile picture to a picture and his new gf. Why would he do this?

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You have a fiancée that you live with .. and here you are entertaining attention from another man.

You have literally made a thread to honor the attention and desire from another man.

You're scum

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Posted by Stensco21

It's the reason I'm not with him

Really?

I'd bet your fiancée would be gutted to know this.

The love for and loyalty to the fiancée isn't the reason why you aren't still the ex?

I feel sorry for the Libra ... you take such advantage of him, and betray him behind his back.

My hope is that he finds all of this out, and kicks you out of his house ... you don't deserve a good guy. After what you said about him on the other thread, and here we find out that you're emotionally involved with the ex's intentions.

He is being abused by you.

You're not deserving of a decent guy.

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@Stensco21
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I never said I had any intention of going back to my ex. He's immature and is playing games. I'm asking questions to see what you guys thinks he's up to. I can't tell if he's missing me or just trying to play games. It has nothing to do with disrespecting my man. Quite obviously I wouldn't ask anyone in real life because obviously you take my curiosity in his intentions as me wanting him back. Which I know ppl in my day to day life would to. Hence why I'm here. Thanks for putting together your blues clues but you still haven't " busted" me doing anything wrong??

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Posted by P-Angel

Posted by Stensco21

It's the reason I'm not with him

Really?

I'd bet your fiancée would be gutted to know this.

The love for and loyalty to the fiancée isn't the reason why you aren't still the ex?

I feel sorry for the Libra ... you take such advantage of him, and betray him behind his back.

My hope is that he finds all of this out, and kicks you out of his house ... you don't deserve a good guy. After what you said about him on the other thread, and here we find out that you're emotionally involved with the ex's intentions.

He is being abused by you.

You're not deserving of a decent guy.

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I never said I had any intention of going back to my ex. He's immature and is playing games. I'm asking questions to see what you guys thinks he's up to. I can't tell if he's missing me or just trying to play games. It has nothing to do with disrespecting my man. Quite obviously I wouldn't ask anyone in real life because obviously you take my curiosity in his intentions as me wanting him back. Which I know ppl in my day to day life would to. Hence why I'm here. Thanks for putting together your blues clues but you still haven't " busted" me doing anything wrong??

I tell my bf every time my ex writes me. He's not being betrayed. You guys are strangers and it's called venting.

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@Mike79
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He's an idiot, he probably wanted to get into your pants one more time. Don't cheat on your BF with that scumbag, his poor girlfriend has no idea of him requesting this from you im assuming, ignore him, he's not worthy of your time... do yourself a favor and don't fall into temptation.

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@rockyroadicecream
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BECAUSE HE SECRETLY STILL WANTS YOU AND WANTS TO BANG YOU. YOU ARE A SPESHUL SNOWFLAKE WHO IS SO SO DESIRABLE THAT A GUY WOULD TRY TO STEAL YOU AWAY WHEN YOU'RE TAKEN, YOU MAJESTICAL BEAST, YOU.

Let's be real, this is the only answer you're looking for. Stop wasting our time.

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Posted by Arielle83
In one thread you're bitching about ur fiancé not paying attention to your family at thanksgiving.

You tried to play victim and get ppl to hate on his behaviour. Some idiots even called him abusive.

In another thread you're asking how to tell if a guy likes you.

In this thread you're talking about an ex wanting to hook up and you're all naive about it.

Yet you're 29 years old.

Get real lady, what games are you playing?

^^^^^^^

I feel sorry for the Libra, he probably has no idea what he's gotten himself into with this one ... YET