calling all my fellow scorps :) (Page 2)

i am at work right now trying my hardest to keep myself together. i keep going to the toilets to cry 😭 i am begining to over think!

That is the normal thing for us. I am doing that over a cap right now. And he will NEVER know. There are other fish, but I get too attached to some of them, and don't want to release them. I want to put them in my aquarium. I want them to be mine all mine. I want them to love me back like I love them. But it just doesn't work.

A poster on the cap board brought up a term that I think is TYPICAL scorp- style love. It was the word "limerence." That is why it hurts...

"Limerence is an involuntary state of mind which results from a romantic attraction to another person combined with an overwhelming, obsessive need to have one's feelings reciprocated.....More recently, limerence has been defined in relation to obsessive compulsive disorder as an involuntary interpersonal state that involves intrusive, obsessive, and compulsive thoughts, feelings, and behaviors that are contingent on perceived emotional reciprocation from the object of interest??.[2] Limerence has also been defined in terms of the potentially inspirational effects and the relationship to attachment theory, which is not exclusively sexual, as being "an involuntary potentially inspiring state of adoration and attachment to a limerent object involving intrusive and obsessive thoughts, feelings and behaviors from euphoria to despair, contingent on perceived emotional reciprocation...."

and blah, blah, blah...
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Limerence

WHY DO I HAVE TO BE A SCORPIO WHY WHY WHY 😭

I guess cuz we were probably conceived in late Jan/Feb? LOL

hahahahahaha why did my parents have to do it at around that time, so inconsiderate LOL

Cuz its cold, and that is the best time to get oh, so cozy 😛

I ALMOST had a scorp daughter from that, she was born 2 wks before due, and is a libra. But she has more scorp planets than I do... poor baby. But her hubby is also a libra, and they both have a scorp venus, and a sag baby with a scorp moon...

i live in aus so that time is summer 😛

Posted by TAURUSbelle

Posted by AreTwoFour
Virgo logic is only logical to virgos...

And yes, everything that attracted them to you will be beaten out of you with a criticism whip.

Then I think they lose respect for you changing who you are to please them and it makes them feel sadistic toward you and want to tear you all the way down.

My taurus bestie handles her virguy by not giving a sh_it about pleasing him. It seems to work.. she doesn't care about being logical and she lets him know this. She SHUTS HIM DOWN with a quickness when he tries it. You cannot out-logic a virgo in any argument, they are in their element with that. She just doesn't go there with him, lol. So in hindsight, maybe I should have been that way?

THIIIIS. Is the ONLY way to deal with them. You have to STAND your ground.
LOGIC doesn't matter when Taurus wants what SHE WANTS..cuz she will GET it.
You Literally have to master the look of "I DON'T CARE dude." combined with the "STAREDOWN of DEATH"..DOWNpat.
Virgos do crack & give up, but they will nag & complain on the way to the destination to GET or DO what TAURUS wants..bcuz Virgs don't have the will or the stubborn stamina to keep it going with her.

Just ignore and hold ur ground. Never change yourself. They like having a reason to complain. So GIVE it to them.

Reference: I was raised by TWO Virgos..dated one SUPER cheap Virgo..& never dated another..lol

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Hooves and horns. Virgos respect that! I think they are immune to the puny emotional stings of scorps. Even their glyph suggests this. It is almost like the scorpio's

This thread wasn't about you and your virgo. MellyMel is a lady, a virgo, and HONEST. Brutally honest. Going by your threads on the virgo forum you do need her insight. But you just blow up instead of listening

And for some strange reason, I like you clueless, despite that I go into "yellow alert" when dealing with cancers. You probable do the same when dealing with scorps, and Alas! a vicious cycle begins 😢

True,,, and sadly I don't think CC welcomes truth. I have had that problem with myself and others. It is usually unpleasant.

Posted by tiziani
Yeah Clueless wears her heart on her sleeve and you have to give her credit for that, when she's not just stirring up controversy.

I do. And I'd like to help, but it is unwelcome I think