Can Scorpio forgive Part 2

This is a continuation or should I say the finale of the first post headed "can scorpio forgive".

Now guys I really do need advice - the card has been received and how do I know! To help you understand! The scorpio I wrote to was involved with a girl (should I say before we were together) whose friend works for my company (I only found out after I had called it a day). When scorpio and I got together the girl and her friend then befriended my ex (hence the stories etc though I still didnt know where they were coming from) they made my life hell as the more they told my ex the more he was abusive and tortured me (reason why I called it a day). When scorpio and I said goodbye these girls really kicked in with the torture. In my card I mentioned these girls (scorpio had never said he was involved and he didnt know where the stories were from either) wanted him to know I knew but didnt blame him over the stories - said something like these girls had come out of the woodwork and had given me a hard time but they didnt worry me any more. But guess what scorpio done over the weekend - he phoned the friend at my work - know this because oh yes she sent a message to my ex - who in turn asked me to explain what it meant - all I can say is that he obviously tried to justify our relationship so that she'd leave me be - I cant believe he done that (he must think she's a good person underneath but well she was just off the phone to scorpio when she sent the message to my ex and I know he will in time ask what the message meant and why she sent it) oh yes the sh*t is just about the hit the fan again! I cant understand why he phoned her as I told him in the card I had moved on from that crap that they no longer hurt me with their stories etc and probably that was the reason for the card - I'd moved on and wanted to correct any mistakes etc i'd made, put right any wrongs. Why did he phone her - if he didnt want to be friends well he could of just ignored the card! Help guys I think my heart has just broken into tiny little pieces, i've been trying not to cry this last 2 weeks but hey I've just failed! If I could only understand why well it might help.

I wrote above post originally yesterday as I was really feeling well "betrayed". But today I feel different I feel that maybe my gut feeling was right - he is a nice guy and done it for the right reasons. I think he either cant forgive me or doesnt want to enter into the relationship thing again and I dont hold that against him. I think maybe he rang her to get her to leave me be so they wouldnt keep torturing me - I think that although he doesnt want to be involved he doesnt want them hurting me. Well guys I know its only bits that you've read but would be grateful for any views. I must admit I generally am good at weighing people up but you scorpios are just too much. I dont mean that unkindly just that well your so complicated and when like now I'm not at my best its hard to come to any conclusion. thanks.

145, give this a whirl. I was having a look around the internet on apology stuff and found this article. Its really cool.

http://www.girlposse.com/talk_talk_talk/pasttalk/apologising/apologising.html

145, whoopsie, I didn't see you'd started a "part 2" to this, so you will find my general response under your original thread. I hope you're hanging in there...

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